In this episode of It’s Not That Serious, Amy and Kay open up about their friendship and how it started, why they kept it quiet at first, and the moments that made it undeniable.

Through laughter, stories, and real talk, they explore what happens when you stop overthinking and start owning who you are, who you connect with, and the season you’re in.

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This episode is a reflection on growth-the kind that doesn't come with clarity or confidence, but with grief, responsibility, and becoming someone new in real time.

This past year changed everything. We talk openly about losing both parents-in-law, carrying grief while life keeps moving, and what it looks like to make big decisions-like buying a business - when your heart feels heavy and uncertain. We explore how growth often happens in seasons we didn't choose, and how becoming different isn't something to fear, but something to honor.

Amy shares honestly about how she's not the same person she was a year ago-how growth has reshaped the way she sees herself, her relationships, and her capacity to show up differently than before. We talk about the quiet, internal shifts that don't always look dramatic from the outside, but change everything on the inside.

Together, we reflect on what it means to outgrow old versions of yourself, to let go of who you were in order to step into who you're becoming, and to trust that change- even when it's uncomfortable-is part of the process.

This conversation is for anyone who feels heavier than they did a year ago, quieter, wiser, or changed in ways they can't fully explain. It's for the people who kept showing up even when they didn't feel ready. The ones who survived a year that took something from them-and are still standing.

In this episode, we talk about:

• How grief and growth can exist at the same time
• Losing people who shaped your sense of family and normal
• Choosing responsibility and expansion while still hurting
• Amy's personal growth and how she's changed over the last year
• The quiet ways growth shows up
• Why being different doesn't mean something is wrong with you

If this year changed you... it makes sense. Some years don't just pass-they leave their mark.

…It's Not That Serious - but sometimes, it really is.

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Are You My Mommy?” dives into why some of us become the fixer, the planner, the emotional load-bearer, and the one who tries to hold everything together even when no one asked us to. Kay opens up about her own experiences (yes… it gets personal), and she and Amy explore how these patterns start, why they’re so hard to break, and what it actually looks like to step out of the “mom” role for your own sanity.

We’re talking:

•The difference between healthy support and emotional parenting

•Why certain personalities become the “default caregiver”

•What happens when the parent-role friend burns out

•How to shift into relationships that feel more balanced, mutual, and freeing

If you’ve ever felt responsible for everyone else’s life, emotions, or decisions, this conversation will feel like a deep breath and a reality check.

Listen in, laugh with us, and maybe—just maybe—retire from being everyone’s mom.

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