In this episode of It’s Okay, Man, I’m joined by Dustin — a fellow therapist and father — for a raw, deeply grounded conversation about masculinity, parenting boys, and the cultural forces shaping men long before they reach adulthood.

We explore how porn, the manosphere, and media normalize violence, emotional suppression, and entitlement — and what it means to raise boys with empathy in a culture that actively discourages it. From locker-room stories and early sexual conditioning to therapy-room realities of abuse, rage, and unprocessed grief, this conversation doesn’t shy away from the hard parts.

We also talk about what actually helps: men’s groups, emotional expression, safe spaces for rage and grief, and the power of men connecting honestly with other men. This episode is about responsibility without shame, accountability without condemnation, and the possibility of breaking cycles — not by being “perfect men,” but by being emotionally present ones.

Content note: This episode includes discussion of violence, abuse, porn, and emotional trauma.

Themes include:

• Raising boys in the age of porn and the manosphere
• Violence, misogyny, and cultural conditioning
• Emotional suppression and its consequences
• Men’s groups, therapy, and healing rage
• Why feeling is not weakness — it’s prevention
• Building healthier masculinity through connection

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In this episode of It’s Okay, Man, Christopher, co-host of the Failure to Franchise Podcast, and I explore how film and media have become the unspoken teachers of masculinity playing an unavoidable role in shaping how men see themselves, express emotion, and define strength.

From stoic heroes and violent saviors to emotionally repressed fathers and broken antiheroes, Hollywood has written the script for what it means to be a man. But what happens when those roles no longer fit?

Through a deep dive into pop culture and psychological reflection, we look at how cinematic portrayals influence real-world expectations — and how men can begin rewriting their own stories beyond the screen.

This conversation is about understanding how deeply it informs our inner narratives and what it means to build a new model of manhood that’s authentic, vulnerable, and human.

Key themes:

• How film and media define “real men”
• The emotional cost of the stoic hero archetype
• Masculinity as performance vs. identity
• Why representation matters — and what’s missing
• Reclaiming vulnerability as strength
• Rewriting the modern male narrative

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Find Christopher: https://failuretofranchise.libsyn.com/

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In this episode of It’s Okay, Man, I sit down with Matt Naismith, host of The Sowers Podcast, to explore masculinity through the lens of faith, leadership, and family.

Matt shares his definition of masculinity as “servant leadership” — a concept rooted in humility, responsibility, and love. Together, we unpack how this idea connects to modern fatherhood, faith, and the evolving expectations of men in today’s world.

From the dangers of apathy to the quiet strength found in emotional presence, we explore what it really means to lead — not through dominance, but through service. Matt also speaks candidly about balancing masculine and feminine energies, apologizing to his children, and finding freedom in faith and authenticity.

If you’ve ever wrestled with how to be both strong and kind, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate perspective on modern masculinity — one that invites reflection, humility, and hope.

⏱️ Chapters

00:00 – Intro

03:00 – Defining Masculinity: The Servant Leader

10:00 – Faith, Redemption, and the Search for Purpose

18:00 – Masculinity in Modern Culture: Finding the Middle Ground

25:00 – Fatherhood, Presence, and Emotional Awareness

33:00 – Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy

41:00 – Apology, Humility, and the Power of Example

50:00 – Closing Reflections: Keep Going, You Are Loved

Find Tyrone: https://hellotyrone.ca

Find Matt: https://www.instagram.com/thesowerspod/

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