If you're DONE with the twin flame journey but don't know how to leave… if you've been waiting for him to change, to choose you, to finally show up the way you deserve… this episode is for you. Let it serve as your permission slip to move and move on.

Jillian Melissa shares her journey of breaking free from what she calls "Satan's sandbox"—the energetic traps and soul ties that kept her stuck in Austin for years. Recording during an ice storm with Bubbles lovingly interrupting, Jillian brings triumphant completion energy as she celebrates graduating from painful cycles.

You can't force yourself to be done, Jillian explains. But when your nervous system finally arrives at that point—when you're truly done—your counterpart will feel it instantly. Jillian breaks down exactly what happens when the divine feminine stops chasing. Most notably, the masculine can no longer run in peace.

You'll learn the difference between twin flame obsession (loud, urgent, yearning, chaotic) and true soul recognition (quieter but far more powerful, settling your life instead of exploding it). You'll hear why recognition doesn't come with explicit signs and proof but rather, it arrives with resonance, with a bodily knowing, and with alignment that doesn't trap you in longing.

This episode is about moving out of traps and moving beyond fantasy into a life of authenticity. It aims to remind you that after true recognition, your tolerance for misalignment completely disappears and that might mean, it's time to move.

✨ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Why you can't force detachment—and what it means when you're truly done
How the Divine Masculine feels it instantly when you stop chasing
The difference between twin flame traps and true soul recognition
How to move your energy and shift timelines without relocating
Why recognition settles your life instead of exploding it
What happens energetically when you stop leaking your power
How to tell if you're in "Satan's sandbox" or genuine alignment
Why your nervous system won't cooperate with misalignment after recognition
The specific energetic shift that makes the masculine unable to run in peace

CHAPTERS:

0:28 It's Time to Move - Breaking Free from Twin Flame Trap
5:45 Finally DONE - Graduation Energy & Leaving Soul Ties
10:18 Satan's Sandbox - How Twin Flame Connections Trap You
14:21 When the Divine Feminine Is DONE (Everything Changes)
17:17 Stop Calling Relapse "Reunion" - Twin Flame Truth
17:46 He Feels It INSTANTLY When You're Done Chasing
19:37 When Feminine Stops Chasing, Masculine Can't Run in Peace
25:21 Real Detachment vs Manipulation - The Critical Difference
1:02:13 Recognition Doesn't Explode Your Life, It Settles It
1:26:11 Is Twin Flame Template a Luciferic Trap?

CONNECT WITH JILLIAN
https://www.patreon.com/jillianmelissaintuition

In this deeply personal and spiritually grounded solo episode of It’s Time, Jillian Melissa explores one of the most misunderstood—and most avoided—spiritual practices: forgiveness.

This episode is not about bypassing pain, forcing reconciliation, or pretending you’re “over it.” Instead, Jillian walks listeners through a raw, embodied inquiry into what forgiveness actually is, what it is not, and why unforgiveness quietly hardens the heart and keeps us tethered to the past.

Drawing from lived experience, Christian theology, somatic wisdom, and teachings from Brad Hambrick’s work on forgiveness, Jillian reframes forgiveness as an internal act of light, not a relational obligation.

If you’ve ever withheld forgiveness to protect yourself…
If you’ve confused forgiveness with trust, reconciliation, or forgetting…
If you’ve felt stuck between boundaries and bitterness…

This episode is an invitation to choose light without abandoning yourself.

✨ What This Episode Covers
Why forgiveness is not pretending you’re unhurt
Why forgiving someone does not mean letting them off the hook
The difference between forgiveness and excusing behavior
How withholding forgiveness calcifies the heart
Why forgiveness is an internal process, not a relational contract
Forgiveness as a commitment to what you do with pain when it resurfaces
The spiritual cost of bitterness and resentment
Why boundaries and forgiveness can coexist
Forgiveness as “turning on the light” inside the wound
The link between forgiveness, embodiment, and alignment with God
Why self-forgiveness is often the hardest place to begin

🔍 Core Teaching: Five Things Forgiveness Is Not
Forgiveness is not pretending you’re not hurt
Forgiveness does not require silencing yourself or denying pain.

Forgiveness is not letting someone off the hook
It does not erase accountability or minimize harm.

Forgiveness is not making excuses for someone
Understanding someone’s wounds does not justify their behavior.

Forgiveness is not forgetting
Memory and discernment remain intact.

Forgiveness is not trust or reconciliation
You can forgive without restoring access or relationship.

🌿 A Note on Embodiment
Throughout the episode, Jillian emphasizes the importance of listening to the body—especially within spiritual communities that mistakenly equate holiness with neglect of physical needs.

The body is not an obstacle to God.
The body is a source of intelligence, discernment, and truth.

🔗 Connect with Jillian Melissa
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/jillianmelissaintuition

🤍 Closing Invitation
If this episode stirred something in you—resistance, emotion, relief, or recognition—sit with it. Forgiveness is not rushed. It is practiced.

And if you’re not ready yet, that’s okay.
Awareness is the beginning.

In this heartfelt conversation, Jillian Melissa is joined by one of her favorite humans and most influential mentors, Diane Young-Sussman—a transformational life coach, hands-on healer, author, and Alexander Technique teacher with decades of experience guiding others back into their authentic selves.

Diane was a profound early influence in Jillian’s journey into meditation and energetic healing. Their reunion in this episode is filled with wisdom and vulnerability as they explore themes of healing, intuition, and spiritual courage.

Diane shares about her recent near-death health crisis that deepened her understanding of embodiment. She also discusses how to access your authentic self through movement, journaling, and soul embodiment practices. Amidst this narrative, Jillian reflects on her own journey of healing and reconnection. Together, they touch upon the role of prayer, angels, community, and future self connection in supporting transformation.

If you’ve ever wondered what it truly means to live in your body as a spiritual being, to overcome separation and return to integration, or to invite divine presence into everyday life—this episode will inspire you deeply.

Highlights from this episode:

• How Diane first introduced Jillian to healing and intuition
• The wisdom of the body as higher than the soul
• Navigating serious illness, surgery, and soul-body integration
• Alexander Technique as a tool for release, freedom, and presence
• The power of prayer, angels, and community in healing
• Connecting with your future self and divine feminine energy

Connect with Diane Young-Sussman

• Website: doorwaystotheself.com
• Facebook: facebook.com/dianesussmancoaching

Connect with Jillian Melissa

• Patreon: patreon.com/jillianmelissaintuition
• Email: info@jillianmelissaintuition.com

00:30 – Meet Diane Yang Sussman
02:20 – Early Mentorship & Healing
04:30 – Energy Healing vs. Ego
05:40 – Doorways to the Self Workshops
07:15 – Discovering the Mythic Self
09:30 – Meditation, Kabbalah & Embodiment
11:00 – Body as Sacred Vessel
14:00 – Everyday Anxiety & Nervous System Tools
18:15 – Honoring the Human Body
19:10 – Healing Journey & Surgery Story
21:00 – Energy Healing & Regeneration
24:10 – Healing Family Lineage
25:10 – Soul Separation Experience
28:20 – Recovery & Integration
30:40 – Illness vs. Healing Integration
32:00 – God, Breath & Presence
35:00 – Pandemic as Collective Healing
38:15 – Angels, Light & Prayer
42:00 – Future Self Connection
44:00 – Divine Feminine Wisdom
46:20 – Depression & Loneliness
48:20 – Spark of Light & Hope
49:30 – Body-Based Practices
51:20 – Alexander Technique Explained
52:10 – Jillian’s First Alexander Experience
53:40 – Musicians & Somatic Work
53:59 – How to Connect with Diane
55:10 – Diane’s Closing Blessing
57:02 – Closing Gratitude

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