Heaven filled her fridge and cabinets for the first time in months and sat in her kitchen and cried from gratitude. That's where this one starts. From there, Lacey introduces Notorious BLT (a TikTok friend whose username she messaged a stranger to compliment) and his cat, President Camacho, who is wearing sunglasses and has a lot going on. A BLT tangent follows. Sara shares a text from Jim that briefly made her wonder if he was trying to warn her about lizard people, and talks through what it's like to communicate when your brain is mid-perimenopause and charades is the backup plan. Short episode, a lot of warmth.

• Heaven's joy moment: a full fridge after months of financial distress, and why she cried alone in her kitchen about it
• Notorious BLT, the TikTok username that started a friendship, and his cat President Camacho (sunglasses, distinguished, many unanswered questions)
• A longer-than-planned conversation about why BLTs are so good and Wendy's junior bacon cheeseburgers as a childhood gateway drug
• Jim texting Sara "the lizards are called salamander" mid-episode and the 60 seconds of genuine concern that followed
• Sara's perimenopause word recall update, delivered via charades at a live event

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Lacey has been sitting on a tarot practice for a year and finally figured out a format that actually fits her life — async readings she can do without scheduling a video call. She walks us through why tarot works for her as a thinking tool, not a prediction tool, and why getting back to it has her genuinely lit up. Sara took that joy ripple energy to Threads, where a call-out for joy moments turned into Rex Racer Graham sharing that his son's new guitar inspired him to finally get out his late sister's guitar and learn. Violet also makes her Joy Moments debut and claps for us, which is the correct response.

Topics Covered

• Lacey's tarot comeback — why she abandoned it, how she rebuilt it around async readings, and why it finally fits
• Sara gets a reading and immediately finds it useful, creating a joy ripple she did not see coming
• Rex Racer Graham's guitar story on Threads, and the sister behind it
• Why 18 likes on a joy post still counts as a ripple
• Lacey's official defense of the bird conversation (yes, this is an appropriate forum)

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Violet turned one and Lacey has been weaning — which, against all expectations, went smoothly. The schedule that came with it, the consistent naps, the sleeping through the night, turned out to matter more than she anticipated. She's honest that it's also a little sad. Sara's joy is longer to explain: she's wanted to be a crossing guard since elementary school, she walked her dog this week, and a neon orange newt needed help across the road. The episode wanders from there — Lazarus lizards in Cincinnati, salamanders in a Massachusetts basement, movies neither of them can watch anymore, Joe's birthday.

• Weaning Violet after a year of breastfeeding — what made it easier than expected, and the feelings that came with it
• Sara gets her crossing guard moment, courtesy of a newt trying to cross the road
• Invasive Lazarus lizards in Cincinnati and why Lacey used to announce herself in her own basement
• The movies that have become unwatchable (Moana, Homeward Bound, How to Train a Dragon)

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