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As leaders, many of us inherited a blueprint for what “good leadership” should look like. We learned it from mentors, past bosses, classrooms, and corporate cultures. But what happens when we realize we’ve been performing leadership instead of truly living it?
In this powerful episode of Leadership POV: Conversations with Alkema and Friends, we explore the deeper question beneath titles, goals, and performance metrics:
Who are you when you lead?
Alkema shares a coaching moment that sparked an awakening, when a leader admitted, “I’ve been performing leadership instead of living it.” That realization opens the door to a transformative conversation about authenticity, identity, and the internal narratives shaping how we show up.
Joining the conversation is Dr. Shade, Founder and CEO of The Leadership Synergy Institute. A distinguished research professor, consultant, speaker, and coach based in Canada, Dr. Shade empowers leaders, particularly immigrant women and technical professionals, to lead with clarity, courage, and purpose.
She is also the author of Overcoming the Impostor Syndrome: How to Quiet Your Inner Critic, and a respected voice helping high-achieving women silence self-doubt and step fully into their leadership identity.
Together, Alkema and Dr. Shade unpack:
- What we’ve internalized about leadership
- The difference between leading from expectation versus authenticity
- How identity shapes leadership impact
- Why unlearning can be just as important as learning
- What it truly means to embody leadership from the inside out
This episode is an invitation to slow down and reflect:
Are you doing leadership… or being a leader grounded in who you are becoming?
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Because leadership is not just what you do. It is who you are becoming along the way.
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