What if your everyday chaos was proof that you’re doing more than enough?

In this episode, Amri Kibbler and Erika Hanafin share a funny, honest, and deeply relatable conversation about managing modern motherhood, co-parenting, and the little hacks they use to stay grounded amidst the chaos. From snackable workouts to navigating blended families, they unpack what it really means to “lean into being” in the thick of life.

Whether you’re running a company, raising a family (or both), this episode reminds you that structure and softness can coexist—and that you’re not alone in the mess.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why productivity isn’t always the answer—and how both hosts redefine daily wins through non-negotiables and routines that actually work.
• The different ways the “mental load” shows up in marriages, parenting, and even grocery planning.
• How Erika’s divorce and Amri’s cancer journey shaped new resources to support moms in tough seasons.

Jump into the conversation:
(00:00) Intro

(00:36) Travel adventures and family dynamics

(01:32) The mental load of parenting

(02:39) Managing daily tasks and schedules

(05:19) Morning routines and personal time

(08:07) Balancing work and family life

(12:48) Sports and hobbies

(19:03) Challenges of parenting with cancer

(20:51) Navigating divorce and financial strain

Resources:

• Follow Leaning into Being: https://www.instagram.com/leaningintobeingpodcast/
• Access Leaning Into Being Resources: www.momumentalmoments.co
• Connect with Amri: https://www.instagram.com/amrikibbler/
• Connect with Erika: https://www.instagram.com/erikahanafin/

What does it mean to truly accept yourself in motherhood, in recovery, and in the messy middle of everyday life?

Hilary Phelps, advocate, speaker, and wellness coach, joins the show to talk about the long road to self-acceptance, her 17-year journey through sobriety, and the emotional work it takes to be present as a mother. From her days as a record-breaking swimmer to her decision to enter treatment alone, Hilary’s story is one of quiet strength, vulnerability, and the power of asking, “What do I need right now?”

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Redefining success in motherhood: Hilary shares how she let go of the pressure to be “enough” by anyone else’s standards, and what it took to feel grounded in her own definition of motherhood.
• Living sober in a culture that celebrates drinking: From early stigma to the rise of sober curiosity, Hilary reflects on how the conversation around sobriety is changing, and why acceptance starts with self-compassion.
• The four bodies of wellness: Emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual wellness all play a role in showing up fully. Hilary explains how tuning into each one helps her stay balanced and resilient, even on the hardest days.

Jump into the conversation:
(00:00) Intro

(01:29) Hilary’s motherhood journey and self-acceptance

(02:37) Balancing motherhood and self-care

(04:19) Hilary's sobriety journey

(06:04) The rise of sobriety and its impact

(10:25) Navigating social situations sober

(12:18) Holistic health and wellness

(15:19) Daily non-negotiables for well-being

(20:13) Advice for women balancing life's demands

(23:43) Reflecting on personal growth and achievements

Resources:

• Connect with Hilary: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hilary-phelps-6143695/
• Follow Leaning into Being: https://www.instagram.com/leaningintobeingpodcast/
• Access Leaning Into Being Resources: www.momumentalmoments.co
• Connect with Amri: https://www.instagram.com/amrikibbler/
• Connect with Erika: https://www.instagram.com/erikahanafin/

What does it take to find balance and authenticity while navigating the ups and downs of modern motherhood?

Tara Clark, founder of Modern Mom Probs, speaker, podcaster, and advocate for maternal mental health, shares her honest journey through infertility, toddler tantrums, and the challenges of raising a tween. From building a supportive community online to redefining what it means to be a “super mom,” Tara offers a refreshing perspective on embracing imperfection and finding presence in the everyday.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Letting go of unrealistic expectations: Tara talks about the pressure moms face to do it all and how stepping off the “mommy train” of constant busyness creates space for mindfulness and intentional parenting.
• The power of community: Building and leaning on a supportive network can transform isolation into connection. Tara explains why reaching out to friends and finding your village is essential for resilience.
• Navigating motherhood with presence: Whether dealing with tantrums, tween sass, or balancing work and family, being fully present in each moment helps manage stress and fosters deeper relationships.

Jump into the conversation:
(00:00) Intro
(00:25) Tara's journey into motherhood

(01:29) From career to stay-at-home mom

(01:57) Starting Modern Mom Probs

(03:05) Navigating tween challenges

(06:12) Balancing work and family

(08:07) Embracing presence and authenticity

(09:47) Advocating for maternal mental health

(11:26) Time management and self-care

(15:08) Advice for struggling moms

(21:14) Reflecting on parenting challenges

Resources:

• Connect with Tara: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tara-clark-27a496228/
• Follow Leaning into Being: https://www.instagram.com/leaningintobeingpodcast/
• Access Leaning Into Being Resources: www.momumentalmoments.co
• Connect with Amri: https://www.instagram.com/amrikibbler/
• Connect with Erika: https://www.instagram.com/erikahanafin/