Wondering How They Left You for Someone Else Is the Wrong Question to Ask

Getting left is painful. Getting left for someone else can feel like a different kind of heartbreak, the kind that instantly sends your mind into overdrive, replaying every moment and questioning what you lacked, what they had, and why you were not “enough” to be chosen.

In this episode, I’m challenging that whole mental spiral. Because the question most people keep asking after a breakup like this does not bring closure, it keeps you stuck. The real question is the one that helps you stop personalizing their decision, stop negotiating your worth, and start seeing the situation with clarity instead of self-blame.

If you’re trying to let go for real, reclaim your power, and move forward without carrying that comparison mindset with you, this one is for you.

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This ONE Question Will Tell You If You Should Date Them or Not

If you’ve ever been stuck in that “I like them, but something feels off” limbo, this episode is for you. Because when chemistry is strong, it’s easy to start rationalizing the red flags, second-guessing your gut, and staying in something you’re not fully confident about, just to avoid losing the potential upside.

In this conversation, I share one simple question that cuts through the fog and forces real clarity, whether you’re casually dating or already committed and wondering if you should keep going. It’s a perspective shift that helps you stop making excuses for what doesn’t feel right, and start choosing from self-respect instead of emotion-driven hope.

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Let’s get it. 🤙🏾

Breakups are painful, and when you’re in the middle of that hurt, it’s easy to turn your ex into the villain. It can feel like the only way to make sense of what happened, especially if they moved on fast, got cold, or did something that genuinely broke your trust.

In this episode, we talk about why blaming your ex might feel comforting in the moment, but can quietly keep you stuck. Not because your ex’s choices were “okay,” but because healing gets harder when we refuse to look at our own patterns, blind spots, and what we tolerated, avoided, or didn’t address while we were in it.

This conversation is about perspective, accountability, and what it really takes to move forward with clarity instead of carrying the same wounds into the next chapter.

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Let’s get it. 🤙🏾