What if the most honest answer right now is… I don't know?

In this thoughtful and vulnerable coaching session, Christine works with Yasmine, who is navigating uncertainty in her relationship. She deeply values the emotional connection she shares with her partner, yet finds herself triggered by his financial instability and questioning whether this is a deal breaker.

Christine helps Yasmine explore something deeper than "Should I stay or should I go?" Instead of rushing toward certainty, they unpack the childhood programming around independence, financial security, and self-reliance that may be shaping her attraction and her fear. The conversation opens a powerful invitation: sometimes clarity doesn't come from forcing a decision — it comes from doing the inner work and tolerating the discomfort of not knowing yet.

If you're in a situation where there are many positives but one lingering concern, this episode will help you understand how uncertainty can actually be a doorway to growth rather than a sign to panic.

Consider / Ask Yourself:

• Are you trying to force certainty in a situation that needs more time?
• Do you feel pressure to decide instead of permission to discover?
• Are childhood patterns influencing what feels like a "deal breaker"?
• Do you believe you have to rely only on yourself?
• Is your discomfort about the present situation — or about something older being triggered?

Key Insights and A-HAs:

• The discomfort of "I don't know" often reveals deeper soul lessons.
• Childhood beliefs like "I can only rely on myself" shape adult attraction patterns.
• Emotional safety and financial stability are different forms of security.
• Pressure to decide can block the clarity we're seeking.
• We often project unmet childhood needs onto our partners.
• Uncertainty with a regulated nervous system is growth.

How to Deepen the Work:

• Explore the belief: "I have to make it work on my own."
• Practice allowing support — even in small, everyday decisions.
• Notice when you are projecting past wounds onto your partner.
• Shift from asking "Is this it?" to "What am I learning here?"
• Allow yourself to sit in "I don't know yet" without rushing toward resolution.

Free Masterclass: Untangled

Christine is teaching a free masterclass called Untangled, designed to help you rewire childhood programming and release patterns rooted in uncertainty and bracing.

If you're ready to move from survival-based decision-making into conscious clarity, you can register or watch the replay at:
christinehassler.com/untangled

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In this episode, I'm on the other side of the mic.

I was interviewed by coach and podcast host Andy Hoffer about inner child work — not as a theory, but as the deep patterning that continues to shape our relationships, decisions, and self-trust as adults.

We talk about why so many people can be successful, self-aware, and still feel stuck… how childhood survival strategies quietly show up under stress… and what it actually takes to untangle these patterns in a way that creates real change.

If you've done a lot of personal growth work but notice the same reactions, habits, or relationship dynamics repeating, this conversation will resonate.

And if you want to go deeper, I invite you to my free masterclass, Untangled, where I teach how to break the childhood patterns that quietly run your adult life.

Join at www.christinehassler.com/untangled

(and you can learn more about Andy here: https://www.andyhoffercoaching.com/)

What if forgiveness isn't the next step?

In this deeply honest coaching session, Christine works with Sylvie, who has been trying for years to reach forgiveness after a profound betrayal involving her ex-husband and a longtime friend. Despite therapy, spiritual work, and understanding that "forgiveness is for you," she finds herself stuck.

Christine helps Sylvie uncover something powerful: sometimes forgiveness isn't blocked because we're not spiritual enough — it's blocked because we've skipped a step. When betrayal runs deep, especially when it touches childhood wounds of not being seen or valued, forgiveness may not be the first doorway. Confrontation, anger release, and self-advocacy might be.

If you've ever tried to forgive but couldn't get there — or felt ashamed that you're still angry — this episode will help you understand why and what may actually need to happen first.

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Consider / Ask Yourself:

• Is there someone you feel you "should" forgive but can't?
• Are you trying to spiritually bypass anger or confrontation?
• Do you avoid conflict, even when something deeply hurt you?
• Are you holding onto resentment because speaking up feels harder?
• Is there a clearing conversation you've been postponing?

Key Insights and A-HAs:

• Forgiveness is not condoning someone's behavior.
• Forgiveness is about releasing the beliefs and judgments keeping you stuck — not excusing the action.
• Sometimes the growth edge isn't forgiveness — it's confrontation.
• Anger is not unspiritual; it's information and energy that must be processed.
• Avoiding hard conversations can keep betrayal alive in the body.
• Peace often comes from self-advocacy, not silence.

How to Deepen the Work:

• Ask yourself if there is a conversation that needs to happen before you can move forward.
• Explore somatic or anger-release work to move stored emotion out of your body.
• Notice where you are confusing forgiveness with people-pleasing.
• Practice being a stand for yourself in small ways before having larger confrontations.
• Shift the goal from "forgiveness" to "peace and acceptance."

Free Masterclass: Untangled

Christine is hosting a free masterclass called Untangled, designed to help you break out of childhood patterns and step into who you truly are — especially in this powerful Fire Horse energy cycle.

This is an opportunity to create new momentum, untangle old emotional patterns, and strategically step into transformation.

Register at:
christinehassler.com/untangled

Social Media + Resources:

Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment

Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner

Christine on Facebook

Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler

@ChristineHassler on Twitter

@ChristineHassler on Instagram

@SacredUnionCouples on Instagram

Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services!

Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show!

Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!