Are you curious what it really looks like to build a marriage that grows through countries, callings, kids, and culture shock? In this episode of Life On Stereo, we sit down with Pastor Dixon and First Lady Success Uyiomendo, experienced marriage counsellors and church leaders in Norway, to unpack 15 years of life, love, and ministry together.

From growing up on the same street in Nigeria, to navigating a long-distance “gentle agreement” season while he studied in the UK, to eventually relocating as a family to Norway, their story shows how partnership, purpose, and faith can shape a home.

If you’ve ever wondered how to:

Support your spouse’s calling without losing yourself
Keep growing together through ministry, migration, and motherhood/fatherhood
Navigate faith when your family background looks different
Or simply communicate better without constant fights…
…this conversation will really meet you where you are.

Timestamps:
5:04 – 15 years of marriage: how the journey has really been
5:45 – Moving from Nigeria to the UK to Norway as a family
7:07 – Why Success never wanted to marry a pastor
9:20 – “The dream you support is the dream that grows” – on supporting your spouse’s calling
11:02 – How they met: same street, same school, but not friends at first
17:45 – Why she waited & the power of being busy with your own purpose
19:25 – When the kids came: how children shifted (and didn’t shift) their marriage
26:08 – The hardest part of marriage for them
35:31 – Advice to their 17-year-old selves
42:35 – Their word for this season

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Press play and join us for this honest, faith-filled conversation that reminds us that with God, growth is possible, love can deepen over time, and the dream you support really is the dream that grows.


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Are you ready for a grounded, honest conversation about love, marriage, and the unseen forces that shape who we become?
In this episode, we sit down with Rhoda and Christian Ahoba-Sam — a love story marked by friendship, faith, cultural transitions, and the deep imprint of family dynamics.

From studying side-by-side in crowded chemistry lectures to building a marriage founded on mutual respect and shared values, their journey reminds us that the strongest relationships often start quietly.
Their story reaches deeper than romance. Together, they open up about friendship, faith, cultural identity, emotional maturity, and what it truly takes to build a marriage that can stand the tests life brings.

What makes this conversation so powerful is not just how they fell in love — but how their personal histories, family dynamics, and spiritual convictions uniquely prepared them for each other.
“Marriage will test every theory you have,” Roda shares — and this episode explores how their foundations helped them weather those tests with grace.

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Timestamps:
**02:15** – Rhoda’s childhood in Tema and being “the fifth boy” in a family of five
**03:30** – Christian’s upbringing in a blended family with two mothers
**05:00** – How their family dynamics shaped their views on marriage
**07:45** – Responsibilities, sacrifice, and commitment modeled through Roda’s parents
**09:24** – Meeting at the University of Ghana and their first friendship bond
**11:20** – Study sessions, shared lunches, and the chemistry class that brought them together
**13:00** – Mutual friends teasing them before they even realized their feelings
**14:22** – When friendship turned to love — and Christian’s nervous late-night confession
**15:56** – Balancing friendship vs. romance: Should you risk it?
**17:09** – Should women shoot their shot? Rhoda’s take on traditional vs. modern approaches


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Welcome to The Pause—a space to slow down, reflect, and choose wisely. In a world that never stops spinning, slowing down can feel impossible—and yet, it’s exactly what our souls crave. In this very first session of The Pause (a Life on Stereo segment), we explore the quiet power of reflection in a world that glorifies the grind.

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✨ Gentle self-reflective questions to help you reconnect with yourself and what truly matters.
✨ A life lesson rooted in wisdom: The Pause is not wasted time—it’s wisdom time.
✨ A practical challenge and journal prompt to help you build the habit of pausing with intention.

💭 When was the last time you truly paused—not to plan or produce, but just to be?

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What happens when love takes the long way home? This episode uncovers the incredible journey of Ben and Rafia — a couple who spent over a decade orbiting each other, convinced they were never meant to be… until God revealed a different ending.

From the moment Ben boldly said, “I want to date you,” Rafia shut it down with a full “God forbid!” 💀 She was sure this man was not her husband. But life has a way of humbling us — relationships come and go, lessons shape us, and slowly the story we swore could never be… becomes the one we were destined for.

In this heartfelt conversation, they open up about the years in between — the heartbreaks, the growth, the moments that reset their expectations of love. And how one day, after walking away from each other more than once, they finally stopped fighting what was always meant to be.

Now married and grateful, they reflect on the beauty of God’s timing: the way He restores, redirects, and reveals purpose when we least expect it.

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Are you ready for an inspiring conversation about what it really takes to build a lifelong marriage?
In this continuation of their story, the Arthurs open up about the real work of marriage — the daily decisions, sacrifices, and faith that have sustained their union for over four decades. From early struggles, loss, and culture shocks to building a life and ministry together in Norway, their journey is a powerful testament to God’s grace, endurance, and covenant love.

**Timestamps**
2:05 – The power of making a decision in marriage
4:56 – Why love requires surrendering your rights
7:11 – The real work behind 41 years together
11:10 – How faith and divine guidance shaped their union
13:11 – Choosing to stay when things get hard
17:12 – The importance of remembering your “why” in marriage
23:00 – The role of faith community in sustaining relationships
26:44 – Why marriage is a lifelong process of learning and love
34:11 – The two things every couple should hold on to

**Key Takeaways**
💍 Love is a decision, not just a feeling — commitment sustains what emotion starts.
🙏 Marriage thrives when both partners surrender pride and let God lead.
💬 Maturity, not age, determines readiness for marriage.
❤️ True companionship requires giving your life — not just your love — to another.
🌿 Growth in marriage means continually choosing your partner, even through pain.


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In this powerful episode of Life on Stereo Podcast, we sit down with Elder George and Patience Arthur — a couple whose 41-year marriage is living proof that when God writes the script, love never loses its way.

Their story spans decades, continents, and divine timing. George, a sailor with no plans to marry, and Pat, a young woman devoted to her faith, were brought together in a way no one could have planned. From a dying mother’s wish to an unexpected reunion years later, every moment points to a love authored by God Himself.

The Arthurs open up about heartbreak, faith, and the lessons that have kept them together for over 40 years — lessons on communication, forgiveness, and choosing purpose over perfection.

Timestamps
3:02 – 41 years of marriage and counting
5:20 – From Ghana to Norway: George’s unexpected journey
12:53 – When heartbreak becomes God’s redirection
16:18 – Pat’s childhood faith and God’s whispers
19:01 – “Pray about your partner” — and a name appears
23:02 – Love at first sight? The first time Pat meets George
26:40 – A mother’s last wish that came true
34:44 – Family confirmations that sealed their union

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•His timing Why prayer shapes the love you’re prepared for
•What it takes to sustain love through decades of change
•How obedience can lead to the relationship meant for you

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🚨 Feeling invisible in your relationship? You’re not alone. In this episode, we explore why emotional disconnection happens and how to find your voice again. Learn practical tips to express your needs, reconnect with your partner, and rebuild emotional intimacy. Because your voice—and your heart—deserve to be heard. ❤️

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Parenting in the 21st century is no joke! In this episode, we share our personal highs and lows while exploring the joys and challenges of raising kids today. From screen time to emotional resilience, get real talk, practical tips, and honest insight to help you navigate modern parenthood with confidence.

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