Episodes

  • New Wine, Old Identity: Why You Keep Spilling The Life You’re Asking For

    New Wine, Old Identity: Why You Keep Spilling The Life You’re Asking For
    Feb 12 2026
    Eric discusses the common male resistance to change despite wanting personal growth. He argues that men often seek new systems or strategies to improve their lives, but the real issue is their identity. He uses the metaphor of pouring new wine into old wineskins to illustrate that new responsibilities cannot be sustained with the same old identity. He emphasizes that true change requires adopting a new identity that can handle increased pressure and responsibility. He concludes that men must decide to become someone who can hold the life they desire, which involves daily actions and self-leadership.

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    12 mins
  • The Architecture Of Adventure: Why Every Leader Needs A “Wild” Escape

    The Architecture Of Adventure: Why Every Leader Needs A “Wild” Escape
    Feb 5 2026
    Eric discusses the importance of intentional exits for high-performing men to avoid burnout and maintain leadership effectiveness. He highlights that constant availability and grinding can lead to a lack of presence and strategic thinking. He emphasizes the need for solitude and adventure to recalibrate and reintroduce yourself, citing historical and mythical examples. He advises designing purposeful adventures that disconnect from daily responsibilities, suggesting activities like hiking and time-boxing. He also urges you to share this message with others who might benefit from taking a break to rediscover their passion and clarity.

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    14 mins
  • Why Intimacy Dies In Good Marriages And Why Nobody Talks About It

    Why Intimacy Dies In Good Marriages And Why Nobody Talks About It
    Jan 29 2026
    Eric discusses the challenges faced by married entrepreneurs in maintaining intimacy and connection in their relationships. He explains that both men and women unintentionally shut down intimacy due to different emotional triggers. Women often feel unnoticed and unheard, leading to control and emotional management. Men, in response, feel unappreciated and unsafe to be imperfect, leading to withdrawal and disengagement. He emphasizes the importance of emotional leadership, trust, and predictability in maintaining a healthy relationship. He also suggests that by understanding and addressing these dynamics, couples can rebuild intimacy and trust.

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    11 mins
  • Identity Profit: Why Your Life Feels Harder Than It Should (Even Though You “Did Everything Right”)

    Identity Profit: Why Your Life Feels Harder Than It Should (Even Though You “Did Everything Right”)
    Jan 22 2026
    Eric discusses the concept of "identity profit," emphasizing that true success is not just about external achievements but also about maintaining a balanced identity. He explains that men often feel dissatisfaction despite achieving measurable success because their internal well-being is compromised. He introduces the idea that life operates on a similar equation to business: identity profit equals contributions minus contaminants. Contributions are actions that increase certainty, capacity, and leadership, while contaminants are factors that diminish these qualities. He highlights the importance of health, spirituality, and relationships, and introduces the "core four" tracked by his program: health, spirituality, relationships, and wealth. He also discusses the concept of "obstacle immunity," the ability to stay grounded and decisive under pressure, and the negative impact of distractions and avoidance on your identity profit.

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    15 mins
  • Your Best Years Aren’t Behind You — You Just Stopped Aiming Forward

    Your Best Years Aren’t Behind You — You Just Stopped Aiming Forward
    Jan 15 2026
    Eric discusses the concept of men retreating from their potential, often subtly and without realizing it. He highlights how men often use past tense to describe their achievements, signaling a shift from growth to maintenance. He revisits the idea of an internal "parasite" that convinces men they've already achieved enough, leading to a decline in ambition and risk-taking. He emphasizes the importance of continuous growth and the dangers of complacency. He also encourages men to re-engage with their potential, measure themselves against their current capacity, and actively pursue new challenges to avoid stagnation.

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    14 mins
  • Why Your Success Feels Heavier Than Failure (And Why Pushing Harder Won’t Fix It)

    Why Your Success Feels Heavier Than Failure (And Why Pushing Harder Won’t Fix It)
    Jan 8 2026
    Eric discusses how success can weigh on you more than failure and reintroduces the concept of the "parasite," a pattern that affects successful men who feel restless despite their achievements. This parasite, which feeds on effort and adapts to improvement, attaches early in the success journey and becomes a structural attachment, turning discipline into compulsion and standards into micromanagement. He also emphasizes that this issue is not about motivation or strategy but a structural attachment that needs to be unhooked, not overpowered.

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    16 mins
  • Want To Change Your Life? Stop Lying

    Want To Change Your Life? Stop Lying
    Jan 1 2026
    Eric discusses the common issue of men lying to themselves about their goals and progress. He emphasizes that while most men lie practically to maintain their current state, this avoidance of truth leads to stagnation in various aspects of life, including finances, relationships, and health. He argues that facing facts, rather than beliefs, is crucial for real change. He outlines different types of lies, such as omission, exaggeration, and minimization, and stresses the importance of taking responsibility and making hard decisions. He concludes by urging you to journal your true state and aspirations to start making genuine progress.

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    13 mins
  • What You Stop Doing Matters More Than What You Start

    What You Stop Doing Matters More Than What You Start
    Dec 25 2025
    Eric discusses the importance of subtracting habits rather than just adding new ones to achieve personal growth. He emphasizes that men often struggle with change because they keep piling on new intentions without addressing old behaviors. He highlights common habits men refuse to quit, such as late nights, drinking, and busyness, which serve as coping mechanisms. He suggests using discernment to decide what no longer deserves access to your time and energy, and stresses the importance of ownership over willpower. He also encourages you to reflect on your patterns and make intentional changes for lasting impact.

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    11 mins