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Long Haul Marriage Roadcast

Long Haul Marriage Roadcast

Written by: Brian and Jamie Hackney
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 Brian and Jamie Hackney, founders of Long Haul Marriage, discuss all things marriage in this raw, real, casual, and fun podcast. Married for 35 years, and having coached over 3000 couples, they share what they've learned, mostly the hard way, hoping to encourage couples, giving them tools that will strengthen their relationship, so they can be in it for the long haul!

To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage

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Episodes
  • *(Re-Release) Crashes, Detours, and Pit Stops On the Journey

    *(Re-Release) Crashes, Detours, and Pit Stops On the Journey
    Feb 17 2026
    In this reprised episode, the inaugural episode of the Roadcast, Brian and Jamie chronicle the beginning of their journey, discussing the hard and painful first years, the loss of their 2 year old son, Corban, and the ultimate healing that came, giving them the grace and strength to continue to fight for their marriage. This episode will encourage and inspire you to keep going, no matter what you face. We wanted to give some of our newer listeners to hear where it all started!


    As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    43 mins
  • You are NOT Alone! (Even if you'd rather your spouse leave you that way sometime)

    You are NOT Alone! (Even if you'd rather your spouse leave you that way sometime)
    Feb 10 2026
    In this week's episode of the Roadcast, Brian and Jamie discuss the heaviness of the state of the world right now, and how we are prone to want to process this with our spouse. The challenge comes when, because of how we are wired so differently, one of us would rather do ANYTHING that discuss this garbage, especially at length! So, what's a man (or woman) to do?

    They get into this common situation, and give practical advice on how to navigate this tricky situation, while still maintaining close intimacy, and avoiding the trap of sharing way too much with someone of the opposite sex (that's not your spouse!)


    As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    37 mins
  • Are you a Saint or a Sinner? (Or Both?)

    Are you a Saint or a Sinner? (Or Both?)
    Feb 3 2026
    Saint or sinner? Which one are you? Which one are we? Is it possible we could be both?

    In today's episode, Brian and Jamie discuss simultaneity (the property of two or more events occuring at the exact same time) in the context of who we are, who we want to be, perhaps how others view us, how we view ourselves, and ultimately, how we choose to show up in any given moment.

    Brian reads the story of "The Good Samaritan," the parable told by Jesus, recounted in the gospel of Luke, highlighting the three in the short story, and their choices to pass on by, or to stop and help, and which unlikely character chose to be the "neighbor" of the unfortunate soul who had been beaten and robbed.

    They shift the conversation to marriage, discussing how easy it is to frame any narrative in a dualistic, "victim/villian" context, many times seeing ourselves in conflict as the victim, ignoring the possibility that we could actually be the villain. They table the possibility that we are all both "saints and sinners" and that the devil in one ear, and the angel in the other, are both viable candidates that could be whispering at any given time, but that we have the choice to be either one.

    They discuss the human urge to be defensive, the coping mechanism employed when we feel the need to justify ourselves, rather than resting in our justification by faith in Christ.

    We hope you enjoy this episode, and that it will challenge you to see yourself and your spouse in a brand new light.

    As always, thanks for listening, and supporting Long Haul Marriage!

    We would love to hear from you - drop us a comment, or email us, and remember to share this podcast.


    For more info, follow Brian and Jamie Hackney at www.longhaulmarriage.org. Make sure to subscribe to receive our monthly newsletter.

    To schedule a coaching session with Brian and Jamie: https://calendly.com/longhaulmarriage. To book LHM for a workshop or retreat, email brian@longhaulmarriage.org, or jamie@longhaulmarriage.org.

    Follow LHM on IG, FB, and TikTok.

    Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/trinity/into-the-red License code: JS35QUTOPG2FFVDR
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    39 mins
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