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Love Journey

Love Journey

Written by: Elana Patton
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Love Journey is the podcast for women who love God and want a lasting, meaningful, and committed relationship. If you’re done with casual dating and ready to build something real, this show is for you. Each week, your host, Elana Patton—Christian Love Life Coach and founder of Love Journey XO—guides you through honest, faith-based conversations about dating, relationships, and preparing for marriage. You’ll learn how to break old cycles, set new godly standards, date with real discernment, and root your future relationship in Christ. Because here, it’s about more than just finding love. It’s about building it the right way—God’s way. Get ready to grow, heal, and prepare for the relationship you’ve been praying for. Follow Love Journey and never miss an episode.Copyright 2025 Elana Patton Christianity Ministry & Evangelism Relationships Self-Help Social Sciences Spirituality Success
Episodes
  • What We Learned About Love, Healing & Readiness (Season Recap)
    Oct 30 2025

    Sis, what a season. From healing old heartbreaks to learning how to date with discernment, we went deep this season—and now it’s time to look back and reflect on how far we've come. In this wrap-up episode of Season 1, I’m walking you through the three major themes we explored:

    1: Healing Is the First Step Toward Healthy Love

    2: Personal Readiness Comes Before Relationship Readiness

    3: Discernment Is Your Dating Superpower

    📣 BIG NEWS

    Love Journey is coming to WDJY 99.1 FM radio starting January 2026 as part of a new partnership with Hype Media Global! We'll shift from 15-minute episodes to a full hour format with deeper teaching, live segments, and real stories. Don’t worry—you’ll still be able to listen on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube just like always.


    NEXT STEPS:

    👉 🎧 Catch up on missed episodes

    • Go back and binge the Prepare for Love series or revisit your favorite teaching.

    👉 📥 Download the FREE Resources

    • Heal Then Love Workbook
    • Prepare for Love Series Guide

    👉 📞 Book a Free Love Journey Clarity Call

    • Book Now


    👉 📝 Take the Listener Survey

    Your voice matters. Help shape Season 2 and the upcoming radio format: Click to take the survey


    👉 📢 Rate, Review & Subscribe

    • On Apple: From the show page, scroll to the bottom, leave 5 stars + a short review
    • On Spotify: From the show page, tap the three dots → “Rate Show.”
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    13 mins
  • Healing What Still Hurts: 4 Steps to Break Free from Past Pain
    Oct 24 2025

    Heartbreak can leave behind more than memories—it can leave wounds that distort your self-worth, faith in love, and trust in your discernment. In this powerful episode, we’re confronting the unresolved pain from past relationships that keeps you guarded, confused, or afraid to love again. Elana walks you through four healing steps rooted in biblical truth and emotional wisdom—so you can finally let go of what hurt you and make room for what God has for you.

    You’ll learn how to:

    • Name the real wound so it can be treated, not repeated
    • Grieve with God and not in isolation
    • Reset your identity in Christ (not your past)
    • Rebuild boundaries and date with peace, not pressure

    You don’t have to carry the old pain into your future. There is healing. There is hope. And yes, there is love after heartbreak.

    🔁 Next Steps

    ❤️ Loved this episode? Here’s how to stay connected:

    • ✍️ Leave a review on Apple or Spotify—it helps more sisters find the show!
    • 📥 Download the free Heal, Then Love workbook to start your healing journey: click to download
    • 💬 Share it with a friend who’s still hurting from a past relationship.


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    17 mins
  • “Where Are the Godly Men? How God Prepares You Before He Sends Him”
    Oct 16 2025

    “Where are all the godly men?” is a real question—but it might not be the right one. In this episode, Alana reframes the search by focusing on alignment, readiness, and becoming. Before God brings two people together, He prepares two hearts. We walk through spiritual, emotional, relational, and purpose readiness; the difference between positioning to be seen vs. to be recognized (Ruth/Boaz); and how to renew your mind so peace replaces pressure while you wait.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why alignment with God precedes alignment with a man
    • The difference between desire and readiness (spiritual, emotional, relational, purposeful)
    • How Ruth’s life positioned her to be recognized, not just noticed
    • What true beauty looks like (1 Peter 3:3–4; strength under control, peace over performance)
    • Practical rhythms to “renew your mind” (Rom. 12:2) so you can wait well


    Scripture references: Prov. 3:5–6; Matt. 6:33; Gal. 5:22–23; Ps. 37:4; Ruth 2:11–12; 1 Pet. 3:3–4; Prov. 31:25; Rom. 12:2

    ✅ Checkpoint Challenge (from the episode)

    Do an Alignment Inventory with God. Ask Him to show you one thing in each area—and take one step this week to realign.

    1. Spiritually: Where am I trusting God—and where am I still trying to control the outcome?
    2. Emotionally: Is there a wound or a fear I still need to surrender?
    3. Relationally: Am I showing love, forgiveness, and healthy boundaries with the people already in my life?
    4. Purposefully: Am I walking in what God called me to do—or waiting for someone else to give me permission?
    5. ➡️ Then write one step for each area to realign your heart with God this week.


    📌 Next Steps
    • Leave a review on Apple/Spotify—it helps more sisters find the show.
    • 📞 Book a free Love Journey Clarity Call Click to schedule clarity call to get personalized next steps.
    • 💌 Send questions to hello@lovejourneypodcast.com. for future Q&As.


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    17 mins
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