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Loveshaped Life

Loveshaped Life

Written by: Bob Hayes and Nathan Stearman
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We’re creating a movement of people who see God’s beauty with ever-increasing clarity, experience his presence with ever-deepening wonder and live everyday-lives of radical love, loving more like Him as the days go by. This is our podcast. For more, visit https://www.loveshaped.life/Copyright 2026 Bob Hayes and Nathan Stearman Christianity Ministry & Evangelism Spirituality
Episodes
  • Wealth that Matters
    Feb 4 2026

    In episode two of season eight of the Loveshaped Life podcast, Nathan, Bob, and special guest Jan dive into Jesus’ revolutionary teaching on wealth from Matthew 6:19-21, exploring what it means to build treasure that actually lasts. Rather than treating this as a simple warning against materialism, the hosts unpack how Jesus offers a complete reframing of what constitutes real wealth - moving from earthly possessions that decay and disappear to eternal treasure that transforms both present and future.

    The conversation explores three core areas of lasting wealth that Jesus identifies: character development (who we’re becoming when no one’s watching), blessing others through service and generosity, and experiencing genuine relationship with God. Bob emphasizes the crucial distinction between reputation (how others perceive us, especially on social media) and character (who we actually are behind closed doors), noting that character determines destiny in ways that earthly wealth never can. Jan shares a powerful personal story of discovering that true forgiveness - and the capacity to love like Jesus loves - only came through daily time with God, revealing how heavenly treasure isn’t just about the future but transforms how we live today.

    The hosts offer practical guidance for building this lasting wealth, starting with accepting Jesus’ offer of forgiveness for the guilt and shame that weighs us down, then developing the rhythm of receiving God’s love and sharing it with others. Perfect for anyone who’s felt the emptiness of chasing worldly success markers or wondered what really matters in the long run, this episode reframes wealth as the capacity to love well, know God deeply, and invest in what can’t be taken away.

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    43 mins
  • Power in Pause
    Jan 7 2026

    In the Season 8 premiere of our Loveshaped Life podcast, hosts Bob and Nathan explore Jesus’s Sermon on the Mount teaching on fasting from Matthew 6. Joined by Jan, who offers a non-pastoral perspective, “Power in Pause” challenges listeners to reconsider fasting as intentional connection with God rather than performative religion. The hosts unpack Jesus’s critique of hypocritical religious leaders who fasted publicly for social recognition, contrasting this with authentic spirituality that emphasizes internal transformation.

    The episode explores fasting beyond food abstinence as a holistic practice creating space to pause and gain spiritual clarity. Through personal testimonies, Bob, Nathan, and Jan discuss various fasting forms—from traditional food restrictions to social media detox—highlighting how these pauses restore self-control and create opportunities for spiritual breakthrough. They draw parallels between Christian practices and mindfulness while emphasizing that transformation comes through active engagement with God who heals and reshapes from within.

    “Power in Pause” invites listeners to move beyond religious performance toward authentic spiritual journey. The hosts challenge audiences to pause deliberately, creating spaces where God can work. By dismantling performative spirituality and championing intimate faith, the episode offers a refreshing perspective that is intellectually rigorous and deeply personal. The core message: true spiritual transformation happens through humble, intentional moments of surrender and openness to God’s inner working.

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    1 hr
  • The Blocker: Why Jesus Emphasizes Forgiveness
    Nov 9 2025

    In this final episode of season seven, Nathan, Bob, and Otavio conclude their series on Jesus' teaching about prayer by exploring forgiveness—one of the most challenging aspects of spiritual life. This isn't about religious obligation or being nice—it's about breaking free from chains that imprison us long after the original offense.

    The conversation reveals why Jesus, after teaching the Lord's Prayer, circles back to emphasize only forgiveness. The hosts show how unforgiveness functions as a spiritual blocker that short-circuits our relationship with God. Using the historical context of Roman oppression, they demonstrate how Jesus called people to radical heart transformation that would make them "the light of the world." The episode explores the reciprocal relationship between receiving and extending forgiveness, using the metaphor of a flower opening to the sun's warmth.

    The hosts offer practical frameworks including the distinction between forgiveness and reconciliation, the power of being "willing to be made willing," and a step-by-step process for beginning without committing to the outcome upfront. They share Corrie ten Boom's story of forgiving her sister's murderer and unpack Jesus' words from the cross—"Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do"—as the model for releasing offenders to God. Perfect for anyone wrestling with resentment or wondering how forgiveness unlocks God's love.

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    45 mins
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