What is the goal when you have an argument with your spouse? The goal should never be to win or prove yourself right. Listen in today as we break this down.

Join us as we break down this very dangerous and destructive blind spot. As Thad describes it is a "hate blanket" that takes us over without us even realizing it.

How can we get out of it? There is a way.

We recommend this prayer for you to pray when trying to overcome a blind spot you may be dealing with. Lord Jesus, I agree and confess that I have been proud (or selfish, etc). Please forgive me for (say what you need forgiveness for, be specific) Thank You for Your forgiveness. I choose to humble myself before You and others. I choose to place all my confidence in You and not to put confidence in my flesh. I renounce the spirit of pride that is attached to this, and command it to go to the Lord Jesus for His judgement. I choose to remove and forsake this mantle of pride, and I ask You Holy Spirit to shut the door that I have opened whether I knew it or not and; clothe me in Your garment of humility, OR guide my thoughts, attitudes, and actions, OR heal my damaged emotions, OR free me from the bondage of bitterness. In Jesus' name. Amen.

Unforgiveness is a weight that people tend carry around not realizing that they are only wearing themselves out. It’s only when you cut the string and release the burden that things can truly get better. Listening today as we talk about how the blind spot of unforgiveness can have a huge effect in your marriage.

We recommend this prayer for you to pray when trying to overcome a blind spot you may be dealing with. Lord Jesus, I agree and confess that I have been proud (or selfish, etc). Please forgive me for (say what you need forgiveness for, be specific) Thank You for Your forgiveness. I choose to humble myself before You and others. I choose to place all my confidence in You and not to put confidence in my flesh. I renounce the spirit of pride that is attached to this, and command it to go to the Lord Jesus for His judgement. I choose to remove and forsake this mantle of pride, and I ask You Holy Spirit to shut the door that I have opened whether I knew it or not and; clothe me in Your garment of humility, OR guide my thoughts, attitudes, and actions, OR heal my damaged emotions, OR free me from the bondage of bitterness. In Jesus' name. Amen.