There’s a lot of pressure out there for men to be the “bigger person,” to let it go, to forgive fast, even when the pain is fresh and the betrayal still bleeds. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to men who are being pushed to forgive before they’re ready. This conversation dismantles the myth that forgiveness is a requirement for healing and exposes how premature forgiveness can be a form of trauma bypass. You’ll learn why anger, hurt, and boundaries matter, how real healing is separate from reconciliation, and why forgiveness without accountability can feel like a second betrayal. If you’ve ever felt guilty for not being ready to forgive, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to move at your own pace, honor your emotions, and reclaim your power on your terms.

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When your partner cheats and walks away with no remorse, no consequences, and no real accountability, it can feel like they got away with a major crime. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the men stuck in that cycle of anger, injustice, and powerlessness. This isn’t about revenge, it’s about what to do with the weight of feeling discarded, silenced, and unseen. You’ll learn why justice doesn’t always show up the way you want, how to separate their lack of “punishment” from your path to healing, and what it means to choose growth even when they don’t change. If you’ve been waiting for karma to hit and it never seems to come, this episode gives you a straight-talking, compassion-filled perspective on reclaiming your power and walking away with your head held high.

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This episode goes straight to the gut. Adam names what so many betrayed men feel but struggle to say out loud: betrayal doesn’t just break your heart, it robs you. It steals your safety, your trust, your memories, your peace, and your sense of who you are. If you’ve felt like someone kicked in the emotional door of your life and walked away with everything you were building, you’re not crazy. That’s emotional theft. In this raw and honest conversation, Adam unpacks what gets stolen after infidelity, why your healing isn’t about getting it all back from them, and how to start reclaiming what’s yours, from your voice to your identity. You didn’t lose yourself. You were misled. And now it’s time to take it back.

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