Boys today are growing up in a world very different from what many adults knew. In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and Co-Host Banky W are joined by IK Osakioduwa, the MD of Lite Radio, and Host and Co-host of “Menisms” Podcast, Sonariwo On Deck and Murewa to explore how gaming, social media, isolation, online dating, and rising incel culture are shaping young boys.

Why are so many boys struggling quietly? Who and what are they listening to? And what do they actually need from the men and families around them?

MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME.

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Becoming a father changes a man in ways few people talk about. In this episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Host Ebuka Obi-Uchendu and Co-Host Banky W are joined by Artiste, Timi Dakolo and Dancer, Actor, Influencer, Hermes Iyele for an honest conversation about fatherhood – what shapes it, what challenges it, and what it demands.

How did their own upbringing influence the fathers they’re becoming? What does being present truly look like today? And how do men balance discipline, love, emotional safety, sacrifice, and the everyday pressures of raising children?

A grounded conversation about the realities of modern fatherhood and how men can approach it with intention.

MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME.

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In this special episode of MENtality with Ebuka, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu sits with Co-Host Banky Wellington and Creative Consultant & Music Executive Alexander Ikemefuna for an honest, vulnerable, and deeply reflective conversation about male friendships – how they form, why they break, and the unspoken emotional world men rarely discuss.

From growing through boyhood labels and early rivalries, to ego, loyalty, distance, marriage, vulnerability, and the quiet ways men show love, the trio unpack the joys and complexities of male friendships.

MENtality with Ebuka is a production of The She Tank Studios and EME.

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• Ebuka – Instagram, X
• Banky W – Instagram, X
• MENtality Podcast – Instagram

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