In this episode, Alex dismantles the illusion of permission and reveals why waiting for recognition, success, confidence, followers, qualifications, or approval is the very thing keeping you stuck.

Drawing from Be Unacceptable and Code Four: You Are the Permission You’ve Been Waiting For, this conversation exposes:

• Why no one is coming to give you permission
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• How acting “smaller than you are” is actually an unconscious performance
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• Why your circumstances don’t change before you step up—they change because you do
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• The moment everything shifts when you stop waiting and start owning your authority
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This is a call to stop postponing your life.

You don’t need permission to be who you already are.

You just need to claim it.

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Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

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Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

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Every decision you make answers this — whether you realise it or not.

In this episode, Alex breaks down the core question behind confusion, self-doubt, and feeling stuck: are you making your life about safety, approval, and security… or about living your true nature and purpose?

Drawing from Code One of Alex’ new book, Be Unacceptable, The Holy Hot Service of Self-Worship, this episode reveals why trying to “secure life first” keeps you in conflict, and how everything becomes simple once you choose what your life is actually for.

This is a foundational episode for women ready to stop straddling two paths—and fully choose their own.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

Ok, here is the long-awaited next podcast episode — YES, I WROTE MY BOOK! And had a book launch, and launched it on Amazon, and hit best seller in one of my categories within 24hrs (without doing any Amazon launch tactic), alongside completing and launching the Dare Silk Collection, Dare Elevate Collection & Dare Glass Pleasure Collection… all at the same event.

Listen to this episode to hear about the process and exactly what’s happened in the last 3 months in my last episode… it’s been a lot!

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

🍆 FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co