In this episode of My Life in Heels, I explore the difference between being desired and being respected, and why learning to tell the difference was a turning point in my life.
As a trans woman, attention and attraction often came before safety, stability, or self-worth. In this honest and reflective conversation, I talk about how desire can feel validating — especially early on — and how over time I learned that respect shows up very differently.
This episode is for trans women, crossdressers, and anyone navigating relationships, boundaries, and self-respect. If you’ve ever confused being wanted with being valued, this one is for you.

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Dating as a trans woman—or even allowing yourself to be desired—can feel complicated, vulnerable, and deeply emotional.
In this episode of My Life in Heels, I talk honestly about dating, desire, and dysphoria—how they show up in our bodies, our hearts, and our relationships. From wanting to be wanted, to navigating fetishization, to setting boundaries when dysphoria appears during intimacy, this episode is a gentle but real conversation for trans women and crossdressers who are figuring it out as they go.
This isn’t advice from a distance—it’s lived experience, reflection, and reassurance that you are not broken for wanting connection, safety, and love.
✨ In this episode:
• Wanting to be desired without shame
• The difference between fetish and real connection
• How dysphoria can show up while dating or being intimate
• Red flags, green flags, and trusting your gut
• A listener reflection moment to check in with yourself
If dating has ever made you feel like you needed to shrink, hide, or apologize for who you are—this episode is for you.
👠 My Life in Heels is a podcast about trans womanhood, self-discovery, courage, and choosing yourself—one step at a time.

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Autumn is the perfect season for texture, layering, and warmth — and in this video on My Life in Heels, I’m sharing how I built an autumn outfit edit around brown tones, faux fur, and intentional styling, all on a near £100 budget 🍂
I walk you through each piece, from brown faux fur coats (yes, I bought two!) to suede boots, a matching handbag, dresses, skirts, and even the brown lingerie I chose to wear underneath. For me, fashion isn’t just about trends — it’s about self-acceptance, choice, and dressing from the inside out as a trans woman.
✨ In this video:
– Autumn brown outfit ideas
– Faux fur coat styling (elegant & casual)
– Brown suede boots & accessories
– Wool knit dress & short brown dress
– Satin vs corduroy skirts
– Budget-conscious fashion with intention
– Dressing as a trans woman with confidence

Almost everything came together within £100, with the coats being the one decision I couldn’t make — so I chose softness and bought both. This video is about allowing yourself options and building outfits that feel right for you.
If you enjoy thoughtful fashion, autumn styling, and honest conversations around identity and self-expression, I’d love for you to like, comment, and subscribe 🤎
Let me know in the comments which piece or outfit you loved most!

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Welcome back to My Life in Heels!
In this episode, we dive into winter heel-wearing hacks, cold-weather styling tips, and how to stay warm, confident, and authentically YOU during the chilliest months of the year.

Whether you love stiletto boots, block heels, or your favorite high-heel staples, this guide will help you master:

✨ Layering techniques that keep you warm without killing your look
✨ Winter-friendly fabrics that elevate your style
✨ Confidence tips to stay authentic and empowered
✨ My go-to heel picks for snow, ice, and everyday winter wear

If you're looking for winter fashion inspiration, heel styling ideas, or just a boost of confidence to own your style—even in freezing temperatures—this episode is for you.

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In this week’s episode of My Life in Heels, I open up about one of the most exciting and emotional projects I’ve ever created — my first full album, made with the help of AI. 💋🎸

I talk about how I used ChatGPT to co-write the lyrics, and Suno to bring the songs to life with music and vocals. From blues and country rock roots to personal storytelling and empowerment, this project has been a journey of self-expression and discovery.

As a blonde trans woman, creating this album was more than a tech experiment — it was a way to share my heart, my story, and my voice with the world. 🌈

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My Life in Heels | Episode: “Real or Rendered — Finding Yourself in the Age of AI”

Hey beautiful souls 💋 — I’m Tiffany Scott, and welcome back to My Life in Heels!

In this episode, I’m diving deep into something that’s been on my heart: what it means to be real in a world shaped by artificial intelligence.

From AI filters and “perfect” digital selves to songs written by computers, technology is changing how we see ourselves — and how we express our truth. As a trans woman, I’ve spent years learning to love my own reflection, and now I’m asking: How do we stay authentic when AI can recreate perfection?

We’ll talk about:
✨ The illusion of digital perfection
✨ How AI is reshaping self-expression
✨ The emotional cost of comparing ourselves to synthetic images
✨ My own experience creating music with AI (ft. my Suno song “All That I Am”)

💄 This episode isn’t anti-AI — it’s about balance. How can we use these tools to create, not hide? To express, not erase?

🎵 World Premiere: “All That I Am” — my AI-assisted song about embracing femininity and authenticity.

If you’ve ever felt pressure to look perfect online or wondered who you are in the age of algorithms — this one’s for you. 💖

📺 Watch now to reflect, feel, and maybe rethink what “real” means.
🎧 Subscribe for more honest conversations about identity, creativity, and self-love — every week on My Life in Heels.

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In Episode 18 of My Life in Heels, I explore what it really means to find your femme energy — that radiant, intuitive, nurturing power that lives within us all. 🌸

This episode is about so much more than lipstick or heels. It’s about confidence, connection, and learning to embody femininity in your own unique way — whether you’re a trans woman, crossdresser, or simply someone reconnecting with your softer, stronger side.

We’ll talk about:
💖 What “femme energy” truly means
🌷 Simple ways to reconnect with your feminine self
💬 How self-kindness, creativity, and slowing down can boost confidence
👠 Living authentically, with softness and strength

Listen, breathe, and remind yourself that you are already enough — beautiful, powerful, and whole.

✨ Don’t forget to subscribe to My Life in Heels for more conversations on confidence, femininity, and living authentically.

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✨ Welcome, beautiful souls! ✨
In this video/podcast, I’m sharing my 5 top tips to express your inner you — designed especially for trans women and crossdressers who are exploring and celebrating their feminine side. 💖
This isn’t about “passing” or fitting anyone’s expectations — it’s about confidence, self-love, and feeling like the most authentic version of yourself.
💋 In this episode, we’ll talk about:
1️⃣ How accessories and jewellery can help you sparkle and express personality
2️⃣ Treating yourself to lingerie that feels feminine and empowering
3️⃣ Why hosiery and heels are about more than fashion — they elevate your confidence
4️⃣ Creating a gallery of your best photos to celebrate the real you
5️⃣ Building your sisterhood and connecting with other girls on this beautiful journey
Whether you’re trans, non-binary, genderfluid, or a crossdresser — these tips are here to help you embrace your femininity with pride and joy.
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