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My Secret Seduction

My Secret Seduction

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 A lifestyle podcast by two relatively new swingers who started later in life. Join us as we share our journey with our fun, sexy adventures.

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  • Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle

    Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle
    Dec 12 2025
    Ghost of a Chance - Why Ghosting Hurts the Lifestyle 👻Join John and Susan for a real-talk episode about one of the most frustrating experiences in the lifestyle: getting ghosted! From no-shows at planned meetups to communication that suddenly goes silent, J and S break down why this behavior is so damaging to the community—and share their own ghost stories that'll make you shake your head.In This Episode:👻 The Ghosting Epidemic: John and Susan's personal experiences with being ghosted—not just radio silence during chats, but full-on no-shows after making concrete plans to meet. Hear about the couple who left them waiting at a bar in the city and the recent hot date that never materialized despite confirmed arrangements.🤬 Why It's So Damn Rude: Whether it's the lifestyle or a job interview, basic courtesy matters. J and S explain why ghosting is worse than just changing your mind—it's about respect, communication, and treating people like actual human beings.🔍 What's Really Going On?: Are they picture hunters? Is one partner communicating without the other's knowledge? J and S explore the possible reasons people ghost—but emphasize that NONE of them excuse failing to send a simple "sorry, can't make it" message.💡 Pro Tip - Day Use Hotels: Quick recommendation for dayuse.com if you're looking for affordable hotel blocks (4-5 hours) for daytime meetups. Perfect for those afternoon adventures without breaking the bank!Sexy Storytime - Sadie Hawkins Success:After a week's delay (they were too busy enjoying their afterglow!), John and Susan dish on their incredibly successful Sadie Hawkins party at Wicked Fun Club! This ladies-choice event featured games, prizes, and some seriously hot encounters:🔥 Sue's Adventures: From oral play with gorgeous single guy R (who definitely knew how to do the "hello"!) and friend A to a private room session with R that left everyone satisfied🔥 John's Surprise: Despite not planning to play, John got seduced by a friend who knew exactly how to push his buttons (literally!). Missionary, doggy style, and a five-way that had the whole club buzzing🎮 The Perfect Mix: Veterans and brand-new couples mingling naturally, confident single men who approached correctly, and enough chemistry to light up the whole clubUpcoming Events:📅 December 13 - Secret Santa/Sexy Santa Christmas Party at Wicked Fun Club📅 December 30-31 - IPG New Year's Eve celebration in Scranton, PA (2-day event with clothing-optional pool!)📅 January 3 - Swinger Match Game Night at Wicked Fun Club (Newlywed Game, Match Game, Win Lose or Draw - plus J and S's birthday celebration!)Coming Soon: Sci-Fi Night, Valentine's Day, St. Patrick's Day, MILF Madness (May), possible Friday night watch parties, and planning for Naughty in New Orleans!Check out all the details at wickedfunclub.com - one-month memberships and single-day passes available!The Bottom Line: DON'T GHOST! Even a polite excuse is better than leaving people hanging. Be honest, be respectful, or at the very least—make up a decent lie. The lifestyle is built on communication and respect, so let's all do better.Got questions, ghost stories, or topic ideas? Email us at jandsexplorers@gmail.comVisit our website at mysecretseduction.com for all episodes, blog entries, and to leave us a voicemail!Connect with us:SLS | SDC | Fetlife | Saints and Sinners | Wicked Fun Club | Club4PlaySearch: JandSExplorersHashtags:#LifestylePodcast #SwingingLifestyle #EthicalNonMonogamy #LifestyleCouple #Ghosting #LifestyleEtiquette #SwingersAdvice #Communication #LifestyleCommunity #SwingersLife #LifestyleEvents #SadieHawkins #CNM #ENM #SexPositive #OpenRelationship #LifestyleTips #SwingersClub #AdultLifestyle #RespectMatters #MySecretSeduction #WickedFunClub #LifestyleParty #ClubLife #HotDate #NoShow #LifestyleRules #SwingersEtiquette #BeARespectfulSwinger #DontGhost Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    26 mins
  • The Hello

    The Hello
    Nov 9 2025
    The Hello - Breaking the Ice in the Lifestyle 🎙️
    Join John and Susan for an honest conversation about one of the most crucial (yet often overlooked) aspects of the lifestyle: simply saying hello! Fresh from hosting a meet and greet in New Jersey, John and Sue break down why that first introduction matters so much—and why some people struggle with it more than others.
    In This Episode:💬 The Power of "Hello": Why the simple act of introducing yourself is the foundation of every connection in the lifestyle—whether it leads to friendship, play, or just a great conversation. Remember: Hello doesn't mean you're entitled to anything; it's just a greeting!🎉 Meet and Greet Mastery: Behind-the-scenes insights from hosting their recent New Jersey event with Passions Playhouse. From the couples who instantly connected to those who stayed frozen in the corner, John and Susan share what they observed and how they helped facilitate introductions.😬 Breaking Through the Awkwardness: Understanding why saying hello can feel intimidating (especially for newbies!) and practical tips for pushing past that initial discomfort. Spoiler: Complimenting someone's shoes works wonders!🤝 Etiquette Matters: The right way to approach couples in the lifestyle, why it's important to greet the man first, and how to avoid coming across as aggressive—especially for single men.💭 No Expectations Rule: Why going into any lifestyle event with zero expectations is key to actually having a good time. Not every hello leads to play, and that's perfectly okay!
    Sexy Storytime:Sue shares the story of their first hotwife party and how one gentleman—we'll call him "C"—did the hello just right. From that initial friendly conversation to their recent fifth meetup (featuring some creative coconut oil usage!), this is a testament to how genuine connection starts with simple respect and good manners.
    Upcoming Events:📅 November 15 - Bucket and Suckin' Cowboy Birthday Bash at Wicked Fun Club📅 November 22 - Sadie Hawkins Party at Wicked Fun Club (ladies, YOU'RE in control!)📅 December 6 - Slumber Party hotel gathering with Passions Playhouse in Fishkill, NY📅 December 13 - Sexy Santa Secret Santa party at Wicked Fun Club📅 December 30-31 - IPG New Year's Eve celebration in Scranton, PA
    Get all the details and sign up at mysecretseduction.com - check out the blog, take our podcast survey, and sign up for our newsletter!
    Got questions, comments, or topic ideas? Email us at jandsexplorers@gmail.com - we'd love to hear from you!
    Connect with us:SLS | SDC | Fetlife | Saints and Sinners | Wicked Fun Club | Club4PlaySearch: JandSExplorers
    Hashtags:#LifestylePodcast #SwingingLifestyle #EthicalNonMonogamy #LifestyleCouple #SwingersAdvice #MeetAndGreet #LifestyleEtiquette #NewbieAdvice #LifestyleCommunity #SwingersLife #HotWife #LifestyleEvents #CNM #ENM #SexPositive #OpenRelationship #LifestyleFriendship #CommunicationSkills #MySecretSeduction #WickedFunClub #PassionsPlayhouse #LifestyleTips #SwingersClub #AdultLifestyle #LifestyleConnections #SadieHawkins #HotelTakeover #LifestyleParty #CoconutOil #NoExpectations

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    19 mins
  • Playing Catch-Up

    Playing Catch-Up
    Oct 28 2025
    Playing Catchup - Our Most Recent Adventures 🔥
    Join John and Susan as they catch up their listeners on their most recent adventures in the lifestyle! From club takeovers to hotel takeovers, these two are spilling ALL the tea on their experiences as they bounced from Connecticut to Pennsylvania and back again.
    In This Episode:🎮 Sweatpants & Leggings Party at Wicked Fun Club: John and Susan hosted My Secret Seduction's cozy-yet-sexy party at the brand NEW Wicked Fun Club in Connecticut. Their fun, flirty games heated things up and led to an unforgettable five-way with another couple and a unicorn! Talk about a perfect night!🏨 Club4Play Hotel Takeover - Connecticut: After a two-year hiatus, J and S returned to Club4Play's hotel takeover and it did NOT disappoint! Hear about their reunion with a couple Sue had played with before (chemistry for the win!) plus Sue's wild ride on the sex swing that left everyone breathless.🎃 IPG's Halloween Hotel Takeover - Pennsylvania: This two-day extravaganza was EVERYTHING! From clothing-optional pool shenanigans to a sexy card game that escalated quickly, John and Susan had the time of their lives connecting with friends old and new. Halloween costume play never felt so good!
    Upcoming Events & Parties:📅 November 8 - Mingle and Connect gathering in Mahwah, NJ📅 November 22 - Sadie Hawkins party at Wicked Fun Club📅 December 6 - Slumber Party hotel gathering in Fishkill, NY📅 December 13 - Secret Santa party at Wicked Fun Club
    Get all the details on upcoming lifestyle gatherings and how YOU can join the fun by visiting our website - mysecretseduction.com
    Got a story to share? We're all ears! Drop us a line at jandsexplorers@gmail.com - we're dying to hear your adventures!
    Connect with us across the lifestyle:SLS | SDC | Fetlife | Saints and Sinners | Wicked Fun Club | Club4PlaySearch: JandSExplorers
    #LifestylePodcast #SwingingLifestyle #EthicalNonMonogamy #LifestyleCouple #HotelTakeover #ClubTakeover #LifestyleTravel #SwingersAdvice #OpenRelationship #LifestyleCommunity #AdultTravel #LifestyleEvents #CNM #ENM #SexPositive #RelationshipPodcast #AlternativeLifestyle #CouplesGoals #LifestyleTips #SwingersLife #LifestyleParty #SwingersClub #AdultLifestyle #LifestyleStories #OpenMarriage #ConsensualNonMonogamy #HalloweenParty #LifestyleHotelParty #SwingersParty #UnicornLife #ClothingOptional #SexSwing #LifestyleFriends #MySecretSeduction #WickedFunClub #Club4Play


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