Episodes

  • We Have A Child, Not A Bond

    We Have A Child, Not A Bond
    Aug 8 2025
    Just because I’m your baby mama doesn’t mean you still have access. In this episode, I’m unpacking the firestorm of a real conversation I had with my oldest child’s biological father—and the nerve he had thinking I’d always have “that love” for him. Newsflash: we have a kid, not a bond.

    I’m breaking down why single mothers must stop being emotionally available to men who abandoned the assignment—and how reclaiming your peace, boundaries, and power is the real glow-up.

    Tap in if you’ve ever been expected to mother a man you didn’t give birth to.
    Tap in if you’ve ever been guilt-tripped into being the “bigger person.”
    Tap in if you’re done with the circus and the clowns.

    This one’s personal. This one’s powerful. This one’s for every woman who had to raise a child and herself after being left to do it alone.
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    8 mins
  • Why Women Don’t Need to Be His Peace

    Why Women Don’t Need to Be His Peace
    Aug 1 2025
    This week on NIKKI. Period., we’re calling out the tired narrative that women are supposed to be a man’s sanctuary, emotional regulator, and therapist—without reciprocity. Sis, you are not a safe haven for someone who created his own storm. In this episode, I’m digging into the cultural conditioning that tells women—especially Black women—that it’s our job to be his peace while he brings chaos. No ma’am.

    We’re reclaiming our time, our energy, and our boundaries.
    Because you’re allowed to have standards. You’re allowed to want more.
    And you’re allowed to say, “Not me. Not anymore.”

    🖤 Rooted. Rebellious. Reclaimed.
    Tune in. Speak up. Be free.
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    13 mins
  • Malcolm-Jamal Warner: Honering His Legacy & Impact

    Malcolm-Jamal Warner: Honering His Legacy & Impact
    Jul 29 2025
    In this podcast, I reflect on the impact Malcolm-Jamal Warner had on my generation through his iconic role as Theo Huxtable on The Cosby Show. As a fellow New Jersey native and creative spirit, I always admired his work and the representation he brought to TV. I also share some fun facts about The Cosby Show and what it meant introducing my son to this classic piece of television history.

    Connect: AskDarlingNikki.com
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    14 mins
  • REST IN PEACE NICOLE BROWN SIMSPON

    REST IN PEACE NICOLE BROWN SIMSPON
    Apr 13 2024
    Support: http://Cash.me/$LoveDarlingNikki

    Connect: https://linktr.ee/darlingnikki...
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    13 mins
  • (4.1) ADDICTED TO MONSTERS Chapter 1 part 4

    (4.1) ADDICTED TO MONSTERS Chapter 1 part 4
    Mar 12 2024
    In "Addicted To Monsters: Chapter 1, Part 4," I delve into the driving force behind this series, urging women to break the silence and share their stories unapologetically. Join me as I confront societal taboos and empower women to speak out against the oppression perpetuated by male bad behavior. It's time to reclaim our voices and stand together in solidarity. #AddictedToMonsters #SpeakUp #BreakTheSilence #EmpowerWomen #Solidarity
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    10 mins
  • ADDICTED TO MONSTERS: Chapter 1 part3

    ADDICTED TO MONSTERS: Chapter 1 part3
    Mar 8 2024
    Description:
    Dive into the raw realities of my past in the latest episode of "Addicted To Monsters." Explore the profound impact of my first physical encounter and how it shaped my journey with intimacy dysfunction. Join me as I navigate the depths of childhood trauma and its lasting effects on adult relationships. Subscribe now for an unfiltered glimpse into my healing journey.

    Connect & Support: HTTps://linktr.ee/darlingnikkigrinds
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    9 mins
  • ADDICTED TO MONSTERS Chapter 1 part 2

    ADDICTED TO MONSTERS Chapter 1 part 2
    Mar 7 2024
    Title: "ADDICTED TO MONSTERS: Unveiling the Journey to Darling Nikki"

    Description:
    Dive into the raw and unfiltered journey of my life in "ADDICTED TO MONSTERS." Join me as I chronologically recount the tumultuous experiences with men that shaped the creation of my alter ego, Darling Nikki. From heartbreak to empowerment, each episode unveils the raw truths behind the evolution of my identity. Subscribe now for a candid exploration of resilience, self-discovery, and reclaiming power. #AddictedToMonsters #DarlingNikki #PersonalJourney #Empowerment

    In this episode I recall early moments of family life while living in Europe.
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    9 mins
  • ADDICTED TO MONSTERS: Chapter 1 part 1

    ADDICTED TO MONSTERS: Chapter 1 part 1
    Mar 6 2024
    Title: "ADDICTED TO MONSTERS: Unveiling the Journey to Darling Nikki"

    Description:
    Dive into the raw and unfiltered journey of my life in "ADDICTED TO MONSTERS." Join me as I chronologically recount the tumultuous experiences with men that shaped the creation of my alter ego, Darling Nikki. From heartbreak to empowerment, each episode unveils the raw truths behind the evolution of my identity. Subscribe now for a candid exploration of resilience, self-discovery, and reclaiming power. #AddictedToMonsters #DarlingNikki #PersonalJourney #Empowerment
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    10 mins