Non-Hierarchical Poly 101: Navigating Love, Jealousy & Community as POC

What does polyamory really look like when you’re navigating love, sex, jealousy, and community as a Person of Color?

In this episode of FREAK’N SEE, we sit down with Miguel (@ipapamigz) and Dale (@drob1980) for an honest, layered, and necessary conversation about polyamory through a POC lens. From Poly 101 foundations to real-life jealousy, boundaries, red flags, and wins — nothing is off the table.

We talk about: 🔥 Different poly structures (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo poly, relationship anarchy) 🔥 Managing jealousy without shame 🔥 Dating new partners while honoring existing relationships 🔥 Boundaries, agreements, and emotional accountability 🔥 Racism, fetishization, and safety in poly spaces 🔥 Building community and mentorship for POC 🔥 Lessons learned the hard way — and the moments that made it all worth it

This episode is for the curious, the seasoned, the messy, the intentional, and anyone ready to unlearn monogamy scripts and build relationships with honesty and care.

✨ Poly isn’t about having more partners — it’s about having more communication, accountability, and self-awareness.

👇🏾 Drop a comment: What’s the biggest question or fear you have about polyamory?

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