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Not 4 Prophets Podcast

Not 4 Prophets Podcast

Written by: Trenia Parham and David DeVaughn
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The Not 4 Prophets Podcast is the place where two seasoned, Black non-profit professionals spill the tea on what really goes on behind closed doors in the nonprofit industry and how it impacts Black leaders and leaders of color. We’ll share our personal experience, industry trends and tools and strategies for navigating the world of non-profit leadership as Black professionals.Copyright 2023 All rights reserved. Economics Management Management & Leadership Self-Help Social Sciences Success
Episodes
  • Right-Sizing Your Life: Pros, Cons, and the Courage to Restructure
    Jun 30 2026

    People are moving abroad. Moving back in with family. Downsizing, pooling resources, pulling back from obligations that don't serve them anymore. Some might think of it as retreat, while others call it strategy. David and Trenia discuss quiet quitting applied broadly — your job, your marriage, social movements, even your relationship to this country, and what it means when the cost of staying somewhere finally outweighs what you're getting back.

    They talk through the pros and cons of communal living and moving home, the emotional maturity that kind of restructuring requires, and why "right-sizing" is a more honest, less shameful word than "shrinking."

    What have you right-sized in your life recently, or what are you thinking about right-sizing? What's holding you back?

    Are you a new nonprofit executive director or senior leader that’s overwhelmed in your new position and looking for support? Schedule a complimentary, 30-minute consultation with Trenia. Click the link to book your call https://bit.ly/slconsultation

    Want to get in touch with David at StrivEquity? Visit https://strivequity.com/

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    38 mins
  • The Fixer, Savior & Devil's Advocate: The Chaos People Bring to Black-Led Spaces
    Jun 23 2026

    You build a space rooted in Black values, Black vision, Black leadership, and then people walk in carrying every unresolved thing from every other space they've ever been in.

    David and Trenia discuss what happens when participants of all identities, ethnicities and backgrounds show up to values-driven spaces and expect to be coddled, and their comfort to be accommodated. Replaying old roles like savior, fixer, or devil's advocate, centering their discomfort over the people and culture that already exists, and undermining Black leadership while staying charming to everyone else.

    They also discuss how to tell the difference between a healthy challenge and someone importing their organizational demons. Protecting a Black-led space is about stewardship more than gatekeeping. And the people who call it gatekeeping are usually the ones the gate was built for.

    Have you ever had someone bring their organizational demons into a space you helped build? What did you do, and what do you wish you'd done?

    Want to get in touch with David at StrivEquity? Visit https://strivequity.com/

    Are you a new nonprofit executive director or senior leader that’s overwhelmed in your new position and looking for support? Schedule a complimentary, 30-minute consultation with Trenia. Click the link to book your call https://bit.ly/slconsultation

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    35 mins
  • Quitting While Black: The Real Price of Leaving a Job
    Jun 16 2026

    Leaving a job, starting a business, and walking away from an institution for Black leaders are not simple career moves, nor have they ever been. From convict leasing and sharecropper contracts to sundown towns, the freedom to exit has always come with a price.

    David and Trenia trace that line from history to right now, asking what it means that entrepreneurship is being offered as the solution to mass displacement from the workforce, and how we distinguish between choosing to leave and being pushed out when the system may not allow that distinction at all. The "just start a business" advice ignores a history where Black exit was criminalized, and a present where the safety net is disappearing.

    Has fear of what comes after ever kept you in a job you knew you needed to leave? What did that cost you?

    Want to get in touch with David at StrivEquity? Visit https://strivequity.com/

    Are you a new nonprofit executive director or senior leader that’s overwhelmed in your new position and looking for support? Schedule a complimentary, 30-minute consultation with Trenia. Click the link to book your call https://bit.ly/slconsultation

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    37 mins
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