Episode Notes

Learn how to transform frustrating teenage behaviors into opportunities for connection and growth.

This episode tackles the real challenge of dealing with annoying teen behaviors without losing your mind or damaging your relationship.

Discover why what annoys you about your teen is actually a clue about what they haven't learned yet—and how to use that insight to strengthen your bond.

Key Topics Covered

• Understanding Teen Development
• Why adolescence is naturally self-focused (egocentric abstraction era)
• How teens are wired to think about themselves constantly
• The process of individuation and identity formation
• Why annoying behaviors are developmental, not defiant
• Four Common Annoying Teen Behaviors & Solutions:

1. The Teen Who Never Stops Talking About Themselves
2. The Teen With Zero Initiative
3. The Teen Who Pushes Every Button
4. The Passive-Aggressive Teen

Key Takeaways

Annoying behaviors are skills your teen hasn't developed yet—not character flaws

Stay curious instead of furious

Teach with patience and clarity, not shame or frustration

Communication and clarity is kindness in relationships

Repetition is key to success during the teen years

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Present Solution Podcast – Rite of Passage Trip for Teens

Episode Summary:
In this episode, we dive deep into the importance of a rite of passage trip for 13-year-olds. Drawing from personal experience and cultural traditions, we explore how these trips can help teens transition into adulthood, build trust, and strengthen family bonds.

Key Topics Covered:

• The significance of a rite of passage at age 13
• How to plan a meaningful trip for your teen (ideas for all budgets)
• The biological and emotional changes teens experience at this age
• The “Trust Triangle”: teaching honesty, empathy, and good judgment
• How to foster open communication and set healthy boundaries
• Encouraging independence while maintaining a strong parent-teen connection
• Practical tips for making the trip adventurous and memorable
• The value of shared experiences and overcoming challenges together

Actionable Takeaways:

• Start planning a rite of passage trip for your teen—no matter your budget, the experience is what matters most
• Use the trip as an opportunity to have important conversations about trust, values, and expectations
• Involve your teen in the planning and preparation to build confidence and responsibility
• Remember: it’s never too late to create these meaningful moments, even if your child is already past 13

Connect with Us:
Have questions or want more tips? Reach out at hello@presentsolutionforparents.com and follow us on Instagram for more advice on connecting with your teen. Check out our masterclass on becoming a P.A.C.E.-setting Parent at www.presentsolutionforparents.com.

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I love talking with teens about their experience with friends, parents, social media, and school - and generally anything else they find interesting....

In this episode you get to hear from my son about me!

Couple of things....

1. ​ It's a fun interview and I'm proud of how he shows up and shares about life in 8th grade, choosing good friends, and how he's dealing with the death of a friend.
2. ​We didn't edit much - I want you to see how I talk with, validate, and engage with Everett. Posture as a parent is the key to success in a close relationship. In this interview I want to show you "how" good posture is in conversation.

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