HEATED RIVALRY, BABY!!! Jesse Townes (the world's biggest Heated Rivalry fan) is on the pod today, and we are walking through the first three episodes of HR. We cover the small moments you might have missed, break down the relationship dynamics and intimate scenes, how masculinity is represented, fandoms and parasocial relationships, why women love the show, and how HR is different than anything else on TV right now.

We also nibble on: adderall psychosis, Traitors, the patriarchy, the Golden Globes, Smartless, and more.

Niki, from the Double Teamed Podcast, joins us to talk about her debut novel- The Book Of Lovers! We cover smut books and exploring your fantasies, the ENM community, and when ENM turns back to monogamy, sex parties, kn1fe play, situationships, group sex, detaching from the outcome, and more.

We also nibble on: twilight, vampires, romantasy, mates, twins, new years goals, polyester clothing, having kids, fast fashion, etc.

Find the book here: https://amzn.to/3Nd6YTB

This week is an ask me anything episode, where I answer your questions about: the a-spot, plan b and emergency contraception, org@sming with a partner, Lake Wawasee, being a late-blooming lesbian, Cheex, booty stuff, the uti vaccine trials, smut books, etc.

We also nibble on breakups, holidays, flying, vaccines, astrology, and more.