In this episode of Rebuilding The Village, men's coach Michael Read and relationship expert Jewel discuss the challenges of modern relationships, the loneliness epidemic, and how social anxiety impacts connections. They explore the importance of vulnerability, community, and repair conversations in fostering meaningful relationships, while also examining the influence of geography and cultural shifts on dating and friendships.

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00:00 Understanding Connection and Relationships
03:12 The Loneliness Epidemic
05:50 Navigating Social Anxiety and Perfectionism
08:54 The Impact of Modern Society on Friendships
11:58 People-Pleasing and Social Dynamics
14:56 The Role of Vulnerability in Relationships
18:00 The Importance of Authenticity
21:02 The Challenge of Modern Dating
23:53 Coping with Social Disconnection
26:59 The Influence of Geography on Relationships
30:09 The Intersection of Career and Personal Life
32:57 The Role of Evolutionary Psychology
36:03 The Importance of Community and Support
38:59 The Challenge of Infinite Choices
41:53 The Need for Repair Conversations
44:51 Building a Life Council
48:02 The Balance of Individualism and Collectivism
50:59 The Role of Awareness in Connection
54:03 Strategies for Managing Social Anxiety
56:52 The Value of Meaningful Connections
01:00:03 Conclusion and Future Conversations

In this episode of Rebuilding The Village, men's coach Alain Dumonceaux shares his journey into men's work, discussing the societal shifts causing disconnection among men and the importance of mentorship, communication, and redefining masculinity. He opens up about his experience with infidelity and his son's addiction, emphasizing boundaries, accountability, and personal growth through support networks.

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Website: https://members.theawakenedman.net/products/courses/view/3

00:00 The Journey into Men's Coaching
02:10 The Disconnection Among Men
04:17 Defining Masculinity
08:12 Addressing Infidelity and Open Communication
21:59 Embracing Masculine and Feminine Traits
34:49 The Importance of Community and Connection
39:20 Supporting Loved Ones with Addiction
48:28 Overcoming the Lack of Commitment, Clarity, and Compass
53:19 The Value of Accountability and Healthy Challenges
56:34 Initiations and Rites of Passage

In this episode of Rebuilding The Village, Dr. Robert Glover explores Nice Guy Syndrome, emphasizing self-awareness, confidence in relationships, and overcoming self-limiting beliefs. He discusses the importance of posture, presence, and "outcome agnosticism" in dating, while addressing the unique challenges men face in modern society.

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Websites:
https://www.drglover.com/
https://integrationnation.net/landing-page

00:00 The Power of Asking
02:23 From Nice Guy to Therapist
09:10 Understanding Nice Guy Syndrome
12:35 The Journey of Self-Discovery
18:51 Self-Perception and External Validation
23:23 Recognizing Signs of Interest
29:24 Self-Limiting Beliefs and Relationships
36:01 Bringing Value to Relationships
37:30 The Importance of Presentation
43:32 Navigating the Nursery: The Modern Male Experience
49:31 Understanding Outcome Agnosticism
57:40 The Power of Posture and Presence
01:05:18 Overcoming Inaction and Embracing Change
01:12:22 The Dynamics of Working with Men vs. Women

In this episode of Rebuilding The Village, life coach Alan Lazaros shares how his journey from engineering to life coaching, shaped by personal loss and a near-death experience, led him to emphasize self-improvement, self-awareness, and the importance of achieving both success and fulfillment through humility and character growth.

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Website: https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/

00:00 Introduction and Podcasting

00:29 Alan's Background and Near Death Experience

04:59 Unfulfilled and Unsuccessful

09:34 Successful and Unfulfilled

12:46 Fulfilled and Broke

14:27 Success and Fulfillment

17:03 Accurate Thinking: The Key to Making Good Decisions

20:15 The Importance of Tolerating the Truth About Oneself

26:46 The Thin Line Between Self-Belief and Arrogance

33:30 The Power of Self-Belief and Humility in Personal Growth

38:57 Building Strong Relationships Through Humility and Vulnerability

43:25 The Difference Between External and Internal Humility

45:45 The Role of Self-Belief in Maintaining Humility

48:22 The Importance of Hiring Individuals with High Inner Humility

51:49 Setting Achievable Goals through Self-Awareness and Potential

55:46 Gamifying Life for Goal Achievement and Motivation

Welcome to another episode of Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. In this episode, marriage coach Kelly DuPee discusses the challenges couples face in maintaining healthy relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and recognizing the warning signs of a troubled marriage. They explore how societal changes impact relationships and the crucial role of community and support in building successful partnerships.

Kelly and Michael also delve into the connection between community, relationships, and mental health, highlighting the significance of trust, reciprocity, and serving others. They address the prevalence of unresolved grief and its impact on mental health, stressing the need to create space for emotions and support those experiencing loss.

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Website: https://www.turnitup.coach/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/turnitupmarriagecoaching/

00:00 Introduction and Background
03:09 Challenges in Maintaining Healthy Marriages
09:00 Warning Signs of a Troubled Marriage
13:11 The Impact of Societal Changes on Relationships
19:11 The Importance of Community and Support
24:29 Learning How to Be in a Relationship
33:44 The Power of Community and Relationships
35:40 Building Trust and Reciprocity
46:12 Supporting Each Other Through Loss
55:06 Creating Space for Emotions and Healing

Welcome to Rebuilding the Village with your host, Michael Read. Today, we're joined by Jason, a men's group facilitator and coach, who shares his personal journey of overcoming emotional disconnection and how it shaped his relationships. We explore the challenges that lead to dysfunctional behaviors in men, like the 'nice guy' syndrome and the absence of steady masculine role models.

Together, we discuss the concept of the healthy masculine—grounded, present, and sensitive—and the importance of cultivating these energies alongside the healthy feminine, which embodies radical devotion to love. The conversation highlights the power of accountability, mentorship, and community in men's development, dispelling the myth of the lone wolf. Jason also offers insights on finding or creating a transformative men's group and the role of shadow work in fostering growth and connection.

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Website: https://evolutionary.men/about-jason-lange/

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:04 The Importance of Men's Work

10:06 Understanding Dysfunctional Men

19:56 Defining the Healthy Masculine and Healthy Feminine

27:00 The Role of Accountability and Mentorship

42:59 The Challenge of Working Out for Oneself

44:27 The Power of Accountability and Expectations

45:23 The Importance of Circumstance and Being on the Right Track

48:40 Finding or Creating a Men's Group

54:07 Creating and Owning Your Own Group

57:21 Men Guiding Men Deeper into Their Experience

01:02:00 The Power of Feedback and Self-Reflection

01:06:59 The Myth of the Lone Wolf and the Importance of Community

01:09:27 The Need for Connection and Support

Welcome to Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. Today, we’re joined by M. Aurelius Higgs, a communication coach and teacher, who shares his journey into the world of communication and its essential role in parent-child relationships. Aurelius emphasizes the importance of open, quality communication, particularly during the transition from childhood to adolescence.

We explore how culture influences parenting and communication styles, the significance of authentic conversations, and the integration of masculine and feminine energies. Aurelius also highlights the value of humility, self-awareness, and community support in personal growth. The conversation wraps up with insights into fostering deeper connections between parents and children, including a potential future app for tracking and sharing personal stories.

Reach out: https://marcushiggs.com/

00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties

02:44 Miscommunication and the Human Condition

05:19 The Impact of Technology on Communication

08:32 Recognizing and Analyzing Behavior Patterns

13:35 The Importance of Stress and Community in Growth

16:47 The Role of Peers in Adolescence

19:08 The Need for Authentic Conversations

21:25 Embracing Masculine and Feminine Energies

23:53 The Value of Humility and Learning from Others

26:08 Being True to Yourself and Embracing Uniqueness

34:34 Self-Awareness and Confidence

37:18 The Illusion of Materialism

43:35 The Importance of Community and Relationships

52:47 Overcoming Insecurity and Seeking Validation

Welcome to Rebuilding The Village with your host, Michael Read. Today, Tammy Cox, a marriage relationship coach, shares her journey from a difficult childhood to a balanced and healthy marriage. Tammy emphasizes the importance of healing old wounds, particularly for women who have made themselves small in relationships. She advocates for both partners to work on themselves, reclaim their power, and meet in the middle to overcome imbalance and control.

We also explore the impact of feminism on marriage, with Tammy highlighting the need for both men and women to rise to the occasion and create fulfilling relationships. She discusses the importance of being intentional with thoughts and emotions, and connects the health of one’s marriage to their relationship with themselves. Tammy shares insights from her Reclaim Your Marriage program, focusing on healing and building a blissful partnership.

Reach out: https://reclaimurmarriage.com/mini-course-page

00:00 Introduction and Background

05:14 Personal Journey of Healing and Transformation

11:19 Recognizing Patterns and Changing Behaviors

18:48 The Power of Trauma Therapy

25:11 Common Issues in Relationships

32:44 Root Causes of Relationship Issues

35:06 The Impact of Feminism on Marriage

37:03 Taking Responsibility for Your Beliefs

43:28 Being Intentional with Thoughts and Emotions

46:41 Trial and Error in Relationships

50:55 Finding Joy in Everyday Life

56:48 Beliefs and Self-Judgment

01:03:41 Letting Go of Shame and Judgment

01:09:56 The Importance of Self-Care