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Red Thread: The Fire Within

Red Thread: The Fire Within

Written by: Katheryn
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You are not behind. You are becoming.


Red Thread: The Fire Within is a podcast for women navigating reinvention — quietly, courageously, and on their own timelines. Hosted by Katheryn Meek, a tech leader, mother of four, and woman rebuilding her life after a career-defining plot twist, this show explores what it means to rediscover yourself in the in-between seasons.


Each episode blends personal storytelling, introspection, and bold motivation to help you reconnect with the thread that ties together who you were, who you are, and who you’re becoming.


Here, we talk about:

  • Reinvention in real time
  • Quiet confidence and soft power
  • Grief, identity, courage, and self-trust
  • Letting go without falling apart
  • Leadership, purpose, and meaningful impact
  • Becoming the woman your younger self needed


This is not a show about perfection.
It’s a show about returning to yourself.

If you’re ready to stop comparing your timeline to everyone else’s, if you're craving clarity, connection, and the courage to step into your next chapter — you're in the right place.

Pull the thread.
Your fire is waiting.

© 2025 Red Thread: The Fire Within
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Episodes
  • The Art of Letting Go Releasing What No Longer Fits
    Jan 7 2026

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    Letting go isn’t a single decision — it’s a process.

    In this episode of Red Thread: The Fire Within, I return to a promise I made earlier in the season: to talk honestly about what it means to release the roles, identities, relationships, and expectations that no longer fit who we’re becoming.

    This conversation is personal.

    I share how letting go showed up in my own life: from ending long-term relationships and knowing when it was time to leave my first marriage, to stepping away from familiar, comfortable career roles and taking a leap into people leadership when I felt the quiet pull to lead and help others.

    We talk about why letting go is so hard, why familiarity can keep us stuck longer than we realize, and why clarity often comes after we release, not before.

    This episode isn’t about rushing forward.
    It’s about making room.


    Listener Invitations (Reflection + Action)

    If you want to go deeper after listening, here are a few gentle invitations we explore throughout the episode:

    • Notice what you’re holding onto out of familiarity, not alignment
      Ask yourself: What feels known and safe, but no longer true?
    • Acknowledge the version of yourself you may have outgrown
      Finish this sentence honestly:
      “The version of me that feels tired or resistant right now is trying to protect me from ______.”
    • Allow space for grief, especially for imagined futures
      Consider whether there’s a life, identity, or future you need to acknowledge letting go of — even if nothing “went wrong.”
    • Create intentional stillness
      Spend 10 minutes this week without fixing, planning, or scrolling.
      Ask: What wants to be released right now?
    • Choose what you carry forward
      Write two simple lists:
      What I’m releasing and What I’m carrying forward.

    These aren’t tasks — they’re invitations to listen more closely to yourself.


    Why This Matters (Research Foundations)

    While this episode is grounded in lived experience, it’s also supported by well-established research on change, identity, and growth:

    • Loss aversion & familiarity — Our brains are wired to prefer what’s familiar, even when it no longer fits (Kahneman, Thinking, Fast and Slow). This helps explain why we often stay longer than we should — in relationships, roles, and identities.
    • Identity and reinvention — Leadership research shows that growth rarely begins with clarity; it begins with discomfort and experimentation as we outgrow old identities (Ibarra, Act Like a Leader, Think Like a Leader).
    • Ambiguous loss & grief — We don’t only grieve what we lose physically; we also grieve imagined futures and identities, which deserve acknowledgment to move forward in a healthy way (Boss, Ambiguous Loss).


    Letting go isn’t failure.
    It’s refinement.

    If you’re standing between who you were and who you’re becoming, this episode is for you.

    Pull the thread.
    Your fire is waiting.

    Support the show

    Thank you for being here and for pulling on the thread with me.

    Every download, share, review, and moment you spend listening helps this community grow into something real, grounded, and heart-led. If this episode spoke to you, please follow the show, leave a review, or support the podcast through Listener Support on Buzzsprout.

    Your energy keeps this fire burning and I’m deeply grateful you’re part of this unfolding story.

    Pull the thread. Your fire is waiting.

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    13 mins
  • It Takes a Village: When Life Interrupts the Plan
    Dec 28 2025

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    This week’s episode wasn’t planned — and that’s the point.

    After my nephew Henry became critically ill and was hospitalized, everything else paused. What started as a routine virus escalated rapidly into a life-threatening infection that required emergency surgery, aggressive treatment, and constant vigilance. In the middle of that, I found myself living the very lessons this podcast is about: not through productivity or progress, but through presence, loyalty, and strength in unexpected forms.

    In this episode, I share:

    • What it means to lean into your strengths during crisis
    • Why purpose sometimes shows up as steadiness, not success
    • The power of intuition, advocacy, and speaking up
    • How asking for help is not weakness, but resilience
    • What a true support system looks like when the village shows up, every damn day


    This is a story about love, community, reinvention, and remembering what matters when life interrupts the plan.

    Thank you for giving this moment space. We’ll return to our regularly scheduled programming next week, but changed, in the best way.

    Support the show

    Thank you for being here and for pulling on the thread with me.

    Every download, share, review, and moment you spend listening helps this community grow into something real, grounded, and heart-led. If this episode spoke to you, please follow the show, leave a review, or support the podcast through Listener Support on Buzzsprout.

    Your energy keeps this fire burning and I’m deeply grateful you’re part of this unfolding story.

    Pull the thread. Your fire is waiting.

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    17 mins
  • The Courage to Choose a New Story
    Dec 18 2025

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    What happens when the life you’ve built suddenly no longer fits?
    In this cinematic and deeply personal episode, Katheryn shares the quiet moment she realized she couldn’t return to the old version of herself and the courage it took to begin choosing a new story.

    Through raw storytelling, emotional honesty, and gentle research-backed insight, she explores the fear of wanting more, the discomfort of the in-between, and the small steps that help you move toward the life your soul has been whispering about.

    Listeners will learn how to:
    • Recognize the moment a new story begins
    • Understand why fear shows up before clarity
    • Connect with their “future self” (inspired by Hershfield’s work on future-self continuity)
    • Create simple identity anchors that shift internal narratives
    • Release one belief, role, or expectation that no longer fits

    This episode weaves together lived experience with insights from post-traumatic growth research (Tedeschi & Calhoun), status quo bias (Samuelson & Zeckhauser), and identity-based behavior science — all in a grounded, accessible way.

    If you’re standing in the tender space between who you were and who you’re becoming, this episode is your reminder: You are allowed to want something different. And you are brave enough to choose it.


    Sources Referenced

    Tedeschi, R. G., & Calhoun, L. G. — Post-Traumatic Growth
    Samuelson, W., & Zeckhauser, R. — Status Quo Bias
    Oyserman, D. — Identity-Based Motivation
    Hershfield, H. — Future Self Continuity
    Neff, K. — Self-Compassion & Resilience
    Baumeister, R., & Vohs, K. — Cognitive Load & Letting Go

    Support the show

    Thank you for being here and for pulling on the thread with me.

    Every download, share, review, and moment you spend listening helps this community grow into something real, grounded, and heart-led. If this episode spoke to you, please follow the show, leave a review, or support the podcast through Listener Support on Buzzsprout.

    Your energy keeps this fire burning and I’m deeply grateful you’re part of this unfolding story.

    Pull the thread. Your fire is waiting.

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    12 mins
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