Episodes

  • Should I Tell My Boyfriend I Hooked Up With Another Guy While We Were on Break?
    Jul 6 2022
    Should you tell your boyfriend if you hooked up with another guy? We dive into a juicy story, answer your questions and give suggestions. Original post from reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/vrn2go/do_i24f_tell_my_bf22m_that_i_slept_with_someone/ (https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/vrn2go/do_i24f_tell_my_bf22m_that_i_slept_with_someone/) Follow me on these links For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com/ (https://www.relationitpodcast.com) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast) Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw) This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podcorn - https://podcorn.com/privacy
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    11 mins
  • He broke with his girlfriend because she considers sex with her ex was better than sex with him
    Jun 22 2022
    He broke up with his girlfriend because He found out that his girlfriend finds sex with her ex to be better than him. What happened? Listen now! Posted on Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/vg6ni1/i_28m_broke_up_with_my_gf_26f_because_she/ (https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/vg6ni1/i_28m_broke_up_with_my_gf_26f_because_she/) Follow me on these links For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com/ (https://www.relationitpodcast.com) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast) Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw) This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podcorn - https://podcorn.com/privacy
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    14 mins
  • Why do random guys like to cuddle so much after a hookup?
    Apr 3 2022
    A woman asks, "Why do random hookups like to cuddle?" In this episode of the Relation-it Podcast, A woman asks, why do random hookups like to cuddle? There are a lot of reasons why people want to cuddle after sex. It's been shown that it can help release oxytocin and increase levels of satisfaction. But for some people, it's just about feeling close to someone... or actually liking the person they're with. If you're looking for more reasons as to why this might be happening check out this podcast episode on why Do some guys Like To Cuddle After a one night stand? I'm an expert at getting what I want - which is mostly women wining and dining me. Follow me on Instagram: @https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Follow me on these links For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com/ (https://www.relationitpodcast.com) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast) Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw) nmPXzCo2X4sxTYAFkTlU This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podcorn - https://podcorn.com/privacy
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    11 mins
  • I want to stop being a nice guy! I want a girlfriend!
    Mar 10 2022
    Do you want to know how to stop being a nice guy?  There's nothing wrong with being a good person, but when it comes to dating and relationships, being too nice can actually work against you. In this podcast, I'll share some tips for becoming more assertive and getting the girl of your dreams. For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com/ (https://www.relationitpodcast.com) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast) Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw) Episode Transcripts: Relation-It, relationship advice podcast for everyone. Follow the relationitpodcast.com Yo, yo, yo, what is up guys? My name is Jameel. Welcome back to another relation-it podcast. This podcast is about and is to help people solve their relationship problems. Help them become a better person or just answer simple questions that you know, you need advice on it. And this post is gonna be about how to stop being a nice guy. This guy wants to stop being a nice guy wants to get a girlfriend. I think the simplest Answer is, you know, you don't need to stop being nice. You need to stop being a pushover. But anyways, guys, he wants to make the change as he sent in this question. Honestly, I think it is really important to not be a doormat and to be a guy that's on his purpose. If you really want a girlfriend. Those are going to be one of the biggest things that you're going to need to improve. A lot of guys, nowadays are just really desperate. They are too busy on these dating apps. Swiping left and right or whatever they do. I don't even know. I don't even have a dating profile. If I do. I have it on my phone, but I don't use it. I don't go on dating apps anymore because I find the waste of time. I think it's important to understand that. Yes, being a nice guy is not wrong. I think the problem is that being nice. They guys use being nice as a strategy to get into a woman's pants to get validation for others. Instead of, you know, being genuine about it and being caring. So they put other people first instead of putting themselves. First. I was like that too. I thought, you know, hey Will, I'm nice. Why am I not getting laid? Well, I mean, I was busy, you know, I was busy trying to get people to like me. I wasn't putting myself first and it sucked. I would go on these dating apps try to get dates with women. Try to talk to them through these dating apps, which is a shitty idea. That's horrible. Just because you're not gonna get any luck on that. I wasn't really exercising properly. Obviously, I write regularly exercise, but at the same time I wasn't I just wasn't focusing on myself. This is the mistake that holds guys back when they think that being nice is the only That they have to bring to the table. First and foremost. Obviously, you gotta focus on yourself. This is what I preach in every relation to episode is focused on yourself, focus on, developing your skills. Your dreams that you want to build in this life. You only have one life. You only have one life. It's seriously important to do that. Like, as for me. I have one life to be Jamil. Beasley. I have no other shot after I pass away. Something happens, I could Die, you know, a minute from the how I have to focus on what my dream is, whether it's putting this podcast first, putting my health first putting myself first. That's why I always preach exercising. Regularly. You gotta eat healthy, stop eating,
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    12 mins
  • Should date my co-worker?
    Mar 9 2022
     You don't have to be a genius to figure out that it's a bad idea to date, someone, you work with. Life is complicated enough without adding love and work into the mix. I don't know why we can't figure this out ourselves. In this podcast, I go through some of the reasons why you should not date co-workers or someone you work with.   For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com/ (https://www.relationitpodcast.com) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast) Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw) Episode transcript: Relation-It, relationship advice podcast for everyone. Follow the relationitpodcast.com Yo, yo, yo, what is up, guys? My name is Jameel. Welcome back to relation-it, where we solve your real life problems. And you get the right answers. This is also a relationship advice podcast. Or, you know, if you need any type of advice for any real life problems, I'm here to help. I'm your host, your meal. Like I said, in the intro, today's topic is going to be about is if you should get your I've had a couple of people that have talked to that brought this up, because they may have a crush on one of their co-workers. You know, I'm a male friend that is obsessed with this girl and well, they work together. There they flirt with each other and he's like, hey man, Jameel, I really need your help. I really need your help to decide if it would be a good idea to date her and I have come up to the conclusion after just thinking about this topic. I don't think it's a good idea to date your coworker. As a matter of fact, it's a terrible idea and there's a little bit of reasons why first of all whenever you date someone and the relationship goes bad, it can lead to conflict in the workplace. So if things don't work out you guys break up for some reason, you know, maybe she finds another boyfriend. Maybe you're like man I f****** hate that b****. She's crazy, she acts. Crazy, she's too crazy for me. Then she can I mean, hey y'all get into fights all the time. Y'all break up. Boom. Thanks can be really awkward in the workplace making it really really uncomfortable. When you see the co-worker everyday. I mean, especially you work in the same department. And also there's another reason it can lead to drama and gossip in the office or workplace. I mean, eventually people are going to find out that you two used to date. Used to you guys used to Get along all the time. Maybe you guys, maybe kept it secret. But inevitably people will talk about you and your relationship. It's just not really healthy when you're working because when you're on the clock, you're expected to work.you know gossip and talk about. Oh my god. Did you see Jennifer? She's a she's a slow and it's just gonna bring down the morale of the team to now also it can be really tough to maintain pounds. In a romantic relationship when you're also working itself, like going to see each other every day at work every day. Maybe you guys are not having a great day with each other. Oh, and it's going to be tough just you know, keeping things, you know, it's her personal level and on a work level. It's just really never a good thing. And my motto is To just that shit where you eat if the company is paying you to work, you know, don't date anybody in Your and your workplace. I know...
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    7 mins
  • I can't get over my ex
    Mar 2 2022
    This guy, he's been unable to get over his ex-girlfriend. She hurt him badly and he wants my advice on how to get over her. In this podcast, I explain why he should just get over her and focus on the benefits of being single. For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com/ (https://www.relationitpodcast.com) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast) Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw) Episode transcript Relation-It, relationship advice podcast for everyone. follow the relationitpodcast.com Welcome back, guys to another relation-it podcast where we solve your relationship problems, right? Today's topic is going to be about a guy that cannot get over his ex. It's really sure. He pretty much just said I can't get over her. It's so f****** hard. Wow. It's f****** stupid. I still hold this over myself and we've all been through breakups. It sucks. Breaking up with a significant other because maybe the relationship was really good. You missed the Ex you miss the intimacy, you miss hanging out with them was one of the best things that you were doing with your life. I've been through it. I've been through breakups where I got where I cried this stuff, dude. We also added, I saw her Instagram post of nothing but her in a tank top. She's with another dude, and he's he's really sad about that. Wait, first of all, but why are you? Why do you have her on social media? I think that's a huge mistake of still following your ex on. Ooh media, if you guys broke up mutually even still, I think that he needs to remove her off of social media. It does him. No good to follow your ex on social media because your ex is already over you. She's looks, she's moved on. She's with another, dude. She's now she's moved on from you. And unfortunately, that must suck. I've been through that one of the best things that I did was literally walk my ex not block them. Remove them from my social media. I got rid of all their photos. I mean, it's over. The relationship is over. There's A slim chance of them. Coming back, slim chance. I know it sucks like, and like, I really want to just get back with her. Like she was the best thing to ever happen to me. And yeah, I get you man. His sucks, losing the love of your life. Will you? You thought that she was the love of your life, but she probably wasn't you guys broke up. So, obviously I'll get rid of her from social media. Delete. All her photos, find something else to do, too. Didn't really ask for any help. He just was like, Hey, I can't get over her, but he needs to stay busy. Staying busy is really important. Especially after a breakup. You know, you're going to still be hurt about losing that significant other because now, they became your ex, get a gym membership fee or mail. You obviously need to go to the gym. Get big on the weights, do it for yourself. Not don't do it for her own like going to the gym. Maybe she'll recognize me in, you know, I could post pictures of her. You know, myself and and if I do she'll come back, she'll dump the guy that she's with now that she moved on so quickly. Now, do it for yourself, do it to distract yourself from her. She's obviously moved on and you're still following her bra. You gotta stop it. I don't understand why guys still follow her axes on social media. You guys...
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    8 mins
  • I'm single, lonely and a little fed up!
    Feb 26 2022
    This episode of the podcast Is about a woman ranting about how she hates being single and venting about how the dating scene sucks now in days. She'll share why she feels that way. For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com/ (https://www.relationitpodcast.com) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast) Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw) being lonely, why am i single, i hate being single, i hate being single quotes, quotes about being alone, why am i still single, quotes on loneliness, alone quotes, quotes about loneliness, why am i lonely, quotes about loneliness and love Transcripts: Relation-It relationship advice podcast for everyone. Follow the relationitpodcast.com. Yo, yo yo, what is up guys? I'm Jameel and I am back with another relationship podcast. Alright, today. We're going to be talking about being single and feeling lonely as the title says, it's about a woman that is really feeling sad about and depressed about being single now being single. Can be depressing, sometimes especially, you know, keep on going on dates and just things are not working out or maybe you want something romantic like, man. And like I want something romantic with someone it sucks. Like I can't get over that. You know, modern dating can be very, very frustrating. You know, you're just swiping on people and then you try to go on dates with people and they can be hit or miss. Maybe you hit it off with someone and then they ghost you after the day. You're like, man. That was a great day. Everything was perfect. Like your girl, you know, you probably like man, you know what I'm gonna sleep with this guy. He's really charming and you do sleep with them. And, you know, after that, That he blocks you off of everything. You've lost your number. He blocks you. You just basically goes to he. He, he hits it and quits it or you're a guy and, you know, you take a woman on a date restaurant. Maybe you guys hit it off. You guys get some drinks and things are looking great. You kiss her, you know, maybe make out with her and then, you know, you don't things are great. Then you don't hear from her. She goes you too. Yeah. I've experienced that and I bet many women I've experienced that too. So this is why I picked the post because, and we're going to read it right now, obviously, because it kind of resonates with a lot of what a lot of people are feeling about modern dating. It sucks, especially online dating whether it's hinge, Tinder. Oh, screw Tinder, by the way, that's a hook-up app. I mean, if you're looking for a romantic partner on Tinder, yeah, I feel bad for you because you ain't going to do that. If you're a guy, you're not gonna have a look on Tinder because heck no one. You're not going to get a lot of matches if you're You're an average guy and then if you're a woman, all of these guys are just going to be looking for hookups. But anyway, let's get started with the post. Right? So, this is from her. I want on a date yesterday. It was very casual, just say walk on the river, with a McDonald's coffee. We had agreed that it would be a friendly thing. I didn't mind. He was a little bit religious to, so we had to stick to extremely public places. He said he was attracted to me, but I didn't look like my pictures shit. But he finds me attractive. I was upset, because I...
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    13 mins
  • Girlfriend hanging out alone with guy best friend a lot
    Feb 23 2022
    A dude's girlfriend hangs out alone a lot with her best guy friend. She's super close to her guy friend. His girlfriend even spends the night at her guy friend's house and drinks with him. The dude is super uncomfortable with it but thinks his girlfriend is not cheating on him with her best male friend. He's looking for advice on how he can handle the situation.  The podcast is going to talk about how he should handle the situation. Should he break up with her or set boundaries?  For more episodes visit: https://www.relationitpodcast.com/ (https://www.relationitpodcast.com) Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jameel_jjb/ (jameel_jjb) Like Our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast (https://www.facebook.com/Relationitpodcast) Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh8xl7oxv--yUodpntmbfVw) Episode Transcripts Relation It, relationship advice podcast for everyone. Follow the relationitpodcast.com. Yo, yo, yo, what is up, guys? My name is Jameel and we are ready for another episode of relation it. All right. So the question of the day is, would you be comfortable with your girlfriend or boyfriend hanging out with her best? Or is best friend alone without you? So as you can read from the title of the podcast is this guy's girlfriend is hanging out with her male. Best friend way too much. In this guy is feeling way too uncomfortable with it and I right, It a couple of times just to be like, are you serious, man? Like, you couldn't read the signs, like you should be breaking up with her. It's crazy. She's even spending the night at this. Dude's house. That is crazy. And this is the type of disrespect that you should not be accepting. But I just, I just had to pick this out because I was guys, we got to be smarter. We got to be smarter. We gotta know when to be like, put her foot down and create boundaries. It's crazy. I'm going to start reading right now. So I started dating this girl for Or months ago. And for the last two, to two and a half months, she's been hanging out with her best guy, friend, a lot. Let's call him. See, sometimes she hangs out with him more than me during the week, and I'm not invited whenever they hang out. This guy has made it pretty clear that he doesn't want to hang out with the both of us together. They spend a lot of Fridays and Saturdays drinking alone in his room and they don't invite me either. Even though I live right next door. She has stayed over in his room a few times. I had a fight with him. Once a month ago, so he has completely cut me off after that. When we first started dating, the guy used to be really good friends in even consider rooming together, but we don't see each other anymore. I know for a fact, they are just really good friends, but I don't feel super comfortable with it. What should I do in this situation? I'm 100% sure. They are just best friends, but I still feel uncomfortable with the idea of of her hanging out with him so much, a man out of, I'm going to be honest with you. You. It's all right. So it's already over dude. She's obviously banging in behind your back. I mean, she's literally spending time with him alone in his room. What the hell? Do you think they're doing other than sleeping with each other? What playing Barbies or painting each other's Nails? Oh, yeah, let's paint each other's nails. Ha ha. No. Come on, man. This chick is not your girlfriend. She doesn't act like your girlfriend because she's hanging out. This dude alone in his room...
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    11 mins