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Relationship Therapy with Ben

Relationship Therapy with Ben

Written by: Ben King LMFT
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Thanks for checking out my podcast! My name is Ben King and I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Pennsylvania. My passion is working with my clients around their mental health, and on this podcast you’ll find episodes exploring different topics related to couples and individual therapy - anxiety, relationship problems, sexual issues, and dating to name a few. Thanks for listening! Ben @benkingtherapyBen King, LMFT Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • Ep 16 - The Myth that Men Shouldn’t Cry in Front of Their Kids
    Jun 23 2025

    "Men shouldn't cry in front of their kids," or just "Men shouldn't cry."
    You've probably heard it, maybe even believed it. But what if this belief is doing more harm than good?

    In this video, I'm breaking down the myth that men should never cry—especially around their children. We'll look at:

    • Why this belief is so common

    • The grains of truth that make it feel valid

    • The serious downsides of emotional suppression

    • A healthier, more powerful alternative

    As a therapist, I want to help you challenge outdated narratives around masculinity, vulnerability, and parenting. Whether you're a dad yourself or thinking about what kind of parent (or partner) you want to be—this video is for you.

    💬 Have you ever cried in front of your kids? What was their response?
    👍 If this resonates with you, give it a like and subscribe for more content on emotional health, parenting, and relationships.

    My YouTube Channel ⁠

    https://www.youtube.com/@benkingtherapy/videosInstagram

    https://www.instagram.com/benkingtherapy/?hl=enListen on Spotify

    https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ib8G3jN5P0TBumRZgbIb7My Website

    https://www.benkingtherapy.com/

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    10 mins
  • Ep 15 - The Map Metaphor That Helps Couples Finally Understand Each Other
    Jun 16 2025

    If you and your partner keep having the same argument over and over, you're not alone. Most of us were never taught how to communicate in a healthy, productive way—and it shows up in our relationships.In this video, I’ll share a metaphor I use with couples in therapy that helps explain why communication often breaks down, and how you can shift into a more collaborative, connected dynamic.We’ll explore:✔️ Why most couples feel unheard✔️ The “map” metaphor that changes everything✔️ A simple but powerful way to improve communication✔️ How to feel heard—without having to agreeIf you’ve ever felt stuck, misunderstood, or frustrated in your relationship, this video is for you.🧠 Watch, reflect, and let me know your thoughts in the comments.👍 Like and subscribe if you found this helpful—it really helps the channel grow.👉 Looking for more tools to improve your relationship? Check out the rest of the videos on the channel.My YouTube Channel

    ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@benkingtherapy/videosInstagram

    https://www.instagram.com/benkingtherapy/?hl=enListen on Spotify

    https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ib8G3jN5P0TBumRZgbIb7My Website https://www.benkingtherapy.com/

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    7 mins
  • Ep 14 - Why We Beat Ourselves Up & How to Stop
    Jun 9 2025

    Beating ourselves up is one of the most common dynamics I see in clients I work with. In this video we explore why people do this when they aren't nearly as critical to others, why it's better to have more self compassion, and an exercise you can do to have more empathy for yourself.

    0:00 Intro

    0:35 Why We Beat Ourselves Up

    2:52 Why We Should Be More Understanding of Ourselves

    5:24 An Exercise to Build Self Compassion

    8:13 Thanks for Watching!


    My YouTube Channel

    ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@benkingtherapy/videos

    Instagram

    https://www.instagram.com/benkingtherapy/?hl=en

    Listen on Spotify

    https://open.spotify.com/show/0Ib8G3jN5P0TBumRZgbIb7

    My Website https://www.benkingtherapy.com/

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    9 mins
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