Dr Emma Katz joins Resolute to unpack the realities of coercive control and domestic abuse. She explains how abusers create systems of fear and isolation, the impact on survivors, and why recognising these patterns is essential for safety and recovery.

If you or someone you know is affected by domestic abuse, reaching out to a trusted professional or support service can be an important step.

Connect with Resolute: • Website: https://www.resolutesupport.uk

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Connect with Dr Emma Katz: • Substack: https://dremmakatz.substack.com

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmakatz_phd

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-emma-katz-5b911865

• Website: https://dremmakatz.com

We sit down with Gordon Doudie, an Independent Domestic Violence Advocate (IDVA) for Doncaster Council. Drawing on his years of experience as a former police officer, Gordon offers a rare dual perspective on supporting survivors — from frontline response to long‑term advocacy.

Together, we explore the realities of domestic abuse, the challenges faced by those seeking safety, and the vital role IDVAs play in helping individuals rebuild their lives with dignity and support.

Nicky McClarty, a survivor of domestic abuse, shares her journey of survival and healing.

Nicky discusses her recent involvement in media interviews about the government's strategy on violence against women and girls. She highlights the critical need for education on healthy relationships for both boys and girls in schools, stressing the importance of lived experiences in teaching these concepts.

Nicky also shares personal stories, insights on the justice system, and the impact of support networks. Emphasising the ongoing fight for better funding, support, and educational initiatives to combat domestic abuse.

Nickys Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/19TdGLQ4BS/

Dr. Jessica Taylor discusses her motivation behind founding Victim Focus, her experiences fighting against victim blaming in the realm of child sexual exploitation and anti-human trafficking, and the intense backlash she faced for her critical stance. Tune in to hear Dr. Taylor's inspiring journey, the changes she advocates for, and her commitment to spreading awareness and fostering true healing in the sector.

Dr. Taylor: https://www.drjessicataylor.com

VictimFocus: https://www.victimfocus.com

Due to some technical difficulties, we've decided to release a minisode of the Resolute podcast with Simon franc, Founder and CEO of Kulpa.

Kulpa is a safe space to store and capture data that can be used to store evidence in the event of a crime and the best part, it's FREE.

Find the Kulpa website here: http://www.kulpacloud.com?utm_source=-custom-by-source-0-

Plus Kulpa's Instagram account: https://www.instagram.com/kulpacloud/

Find Nick at: https://www.tiktok.com/@survivor_afterwards?utm_source=youtube

00:00 Introduction to Nick's Story

00:38 Nick's Traumatic Past

03:15 The Impact of Trauma

03:56 The Brutal Assault

07:21 Coping Mechanisms and Addiction

09:27 The Road to Recovery

12:58 Breaking the Cycle of Abuse

27:22 Finding Peace and Healing

31:39 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing

32:12 Struggles with Mental Health and Lack of Support

32:38 Misunderstandings and Misjudgments

34:18 The Importance of Community and Self-Education

37:58 Finding Healing Through Meditation and Self-Care

40:10 The Role of Mental Health Services and Self-Reliance

47:44 Creating a Safe and Healing Environment

50:58 Encouragement and Final Thoughts

Life coach Rachel Marie shares her harrowing journey through domestic violence and the subsequent battle with Complex PTSD. She discusses the challenges of obtaining effective therapy, particularly EMDR, due to long NHS waiting lists, and the crisis points she has faced along the way. Rachel also offers insights on her mission to help others heal through her coaching business, focusing on thriving beyond trauma. She sheds light on the shortcomings of the current support systems, including women's refuges, and emphasizes the urgent need for better assistance and training to support survivors more effectively. Rachel's courageous account aims to inspire and spread awareness, showcasing the importance of mental health support and resilience in overcoming long-term trauma.

Find Rachel on TikTok at Rachelmarie_lifecoach

00:00 Introduction and Speaker Background

01:35 Challenges with EMDR Therapy Access

03:06 Personal Struggles with Complex PTSD

03:55 Diagnosis and Initial Treatment

07:40 Coping Mechanisms and Therapy Techniques

10:34 Issues with NHS and Therapy Availability

15:26 The Importance of Proper Support Systems

18:35 Experiences with Legal and Social Systems

30:01 The Need for Better Resources and Awareness

48:17 Conclusion and Future Plans

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