Episodes

  • My journey with the man who killed my father
    Dec 11 2025

    In this episode of Restorative Talks with Why me?, we talk to our Patron, Jo Berry CBE. In 1984, Jo’s father, Sir Anthony Berry MP, was killed in the IRA bombing of the Brighton hotel. Jo later met with the man responsible for planting the bomb. Out of this journey, Jo become an international speaker, peacebuilder, and founder of the charity Building Bridges for Peace.


    This recording is part of Why me?'s 'Damage and Repair: 20 years of Restorative Justice' project, which is archiving the stories of people who have been through the restorative process and key professionals in the sector.


    Podcast produced by Keeva Baxter and edited by Rory Drinnan. This podcast is made possible with the support of the National Lottery Heritage Fund.

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    54 mins
  • Meeting my son's attacker
    Dec 4 2025

    In this episode of Restorative Talks with Why me?, we meet Rob Hall, who met with one of the young people who had attacked his son. Rob’s teenage son was beaten and robbed by a group of young people one evening and the ripple effects of the incident affected many family and friends. Rob eventually met one of the young people in a transformative restorative meeting, leading to years of work as an Ambassador for Why me?.

    This recording is part of Why me?'s 'Damage and Repair: 20 years of Restorative Justice' project, which is archiving the stories of people who have been through the restorative process and key professionals in the sector.

    Podcast produced by Keeva Baxter, edited by Rory Drinnan and Nina Fuentes. Thank you to Clare Bowerman for conducting the interview. This podcast is made possible with the support of the National Lottery Heritage Fund.

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    1 hr and 21 mins
  • Face to face with the man who murdered my twin brother
    Nov 20 2025

    Welcome to Series 3 of Restorative Talks with ⁠⁠Why me?⁠⁠! In the first episode, we speak to Nick Dawson whose identical twin brother Simon was murdered shortly after their 30th birthday. Nick later went on to meet face to face with one of the men who killed his brother, in a meeting he describes as “life changing”. ⁠⁠⁠Find out more about Restorative Justice⁠⁠⁠.


    This recording is part of Why me?'s 'Damage and Repair: 20 years of Restorative Justice' project, which is archiving the stories of people who have been through the restorative process and key professionals in the sector.


    Nick has written a book about his experience, called 'Face to face: Finding Justice for my Murdered Twin Brother'.


    Podcast produced by Keeva Baxter, edited by Rory Drinnan and Nina Fuentes. This podcast is made possible with the support of the National Lottery Heritage Fund.

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Sitting across from the man who tried to kill me
    Feb 7 2025

    Welcome to Restorative Talks with ⁠Why me?⁠! In the final episode of Series 2, we speak to Will Gilluley about meeting the man who attacked, tortured and left him for dead. He shares his journey through addiction and homelessness following the attack and how the Restorative Justice meeting transformed his life. ⁠⁠Find out more about Restorative Justice⁠⁠.

    Podcast produced by Isabelle Gius and Keeva Baxter, recorded and edited by Rory Drinnan.

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    33 mins
  • Finding meaning after a crime
    Jan 31 2025

    Welcome to Restorative Talks with ⁠Why me?⁠! In the second episode of Series 2, we speak to Sheldon Lazarus about meeting the young person who attacked him. After being confronted in an attempt to steal his mobile phone, Sheldon met with the young person and his parent, allowing them all to see a positive way forward. Find out more about Restorative Justice⁠⁠.

    Podcast produced by Isabelle Gius and Keeva Baxter, recorded and edited by Rory Drinnan.

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    30 mins
  • Meeting the man who killed my son
    Jan 24 2025

    Welcome to Restorative Talks with ⁠Why me?⁠! In this episode we speak to Andy O'Dell, whose son was killed by a driver who was on his phone. He shares his journey from anger to meeting the driver in a Restorative Justice meeting and offering him forgiveness. ⁠⁠Find out more about Restorative Justice⁠⁠.


    Podcast produced by Isabelle Gius and Keeva Baxter, recorded and edited by Rory Drinnan.

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    39 mins
  • Restorative Talks Season 2 - coming soon!
    Jan 16 2025

    Welcome to Restorative Talks with Why me?! Join us as we explore how Restorative Justice transforms the lives of people who take part. Season 2 will share the stories of three victims of serious crimes whose lives were changed by a meeting with the person who harmed them. Watch this space for three new episodes coming soon. Find out more about Restorative Justice⁠.

    Podcast produced by Isabelle Gius and Keeva Baxter, recorded and edited by Rory Drinnan.

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    1 min
  • What does the future look like for people affected by crime?
    Oct 25 2023

    Welcome to Restorative Talks with ⁠Why me?⁠!

    What does the future look like for people affected by crime? In a system that is currently failing, how can we promote a positive outcome and repair some of the harm caused by crime?

    In this episode, we speak to Janika, a survivor of violent crime and advocate for Restorative Justice and Why me?'s Director, Lucy Jaffé, about what the future of Restorative Justice looks like and how it could impact the Criminal Justice System. ⁠⁠Find out more about Restorative Justice⁠⁠. Podcast produced by Keeva Baxter, recorded and edited by Rory Drinnan

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    25 mins