Whether it’s politics, race, religion, or simple everyday interactions, it often feels like we’re surrounded by binary thinking—us versus them, right versus wrong. So how do we raise children who are open, empathetic, and critical thinkers in a world that sometimes rewards the opposite?

Let’s talk about it.

Episode One: Who Am I in the World? Host: Patrice Wright-Lewis, Ashley Zomalt and Kacy Brubaker Podcast: Roots & Wings

Episode Summary: In our very first episode, we explore the question, Who am I in the world? Co-Host Patrice, Ashley and Kacy to reflect on how our early experiences, family values, and cultural expectations shape our identity—and how we can guide the next generation to define themselves with courage, clarity, and compassion. This episode is about storytelling, self-awareness, and learning when to stand firm and when to fly.

Time-Stamped Highlights:

00:00 – Introduction: What is Roots & Wings?

01:30 – Patrice’s story: Loss, labels, and the power of books

07:15 – Ashley’s story: Character, parenting, and Gen Z values

12:20 – Kacy’s story: Leading by example and “farm values”

17:00 – How childhood experiences shape identity

21:00 – Social labels vs. self-perception

26:00 – Teaching emotional intelligence & resilience

30:15 – How we raise open-hearted kids in a divided world

34:00 – Closing thought: “Roots keep you grounded. Wings take you forward...”

Reflection Questions for Listeners:

• Who were you taught to be—and who do you want to become?
• How did your upbringing shape your emotional responses?
• Are you modeling the values you want your children to carry forward?

Mentioned in this Episode:

• Maya Angelou quote: “People will never forget how you made them feel.”
• TV show: Bewitched as a metaphor for identity and hiding one's truth
• Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES) as a framework for understanding resilience

Have a question or story to share? Email us at patrice@yellowbackpackconsultants.com