Who are you when the pressure hits hardest?

In this episode, Cole and Dante peel back the layers and step into one of the most uncomfortable—and necessary—conversations we all face: identity. Not the version we post online, not the titles we cling to, but the person we are when everything else gets stripped away.

From the tension between titles vs truth to the quiet battles of imposter syndrome, the guys explore what happens when growth outpaces self-image and the voice in your head isn’t always your own. They dive into masculinity, vulnerability, and the challenge of showing emotional depth in a world that rewards performance over honesty.

They also unpack the weight of community expectations—how easy it is to lose yourself trying to be who everyone else needs you to be—and share personal stories of reinvention after failure, loss, or major life shifts.

This episode asks the questions most people avoid: What part of your identity cracks first under pressure? And who are you when no one’s watching?

Stick around for the listener challenge at the end—ten minutes that might change the way you see yourself.

In this special Q&A episode, Cole and Dante sit down to tackle questions straight from the Roughnecks community. Nothing is off the table. From behind‑the‑scenes stories and creative projects to life lessons, sports takes, and the mindset that drives everything they do, the guys dive deep and keep it real. It’s unfiltered, energetic, and exactly what you expect from the Roughnecks Podcast.

If you want your questions answered on a future episode, send them our way on social media or email us at roughneckspodcast@gmail.com.

Denali Harris returns to the Roughnecks Podcast for his second appearance—this time alongside Roger Gonzalez, making his debut. Since Denali’s last visit, the two have teamed up to launch their journey into real estate, blending ambition with hustle in a competitive market. Roger also runs his own auto detailing business, bringing precision and pride to every project. In this episode, we dive into how life and business intertwine, the mindset it takes to stay focused, and what balance really looks like when you're building something meaningful. Whether you're chasing goals or just trying to stay grounded, this one’s for you.