In this episode of Sacred Singleness, we discuss the devils tactics that he utilizes to derail you from your walk.

In this episode of Sacred Singleness, we’re having real, honest conversation about locking in with God and leaving lukewarm living behind. This isn’t about perfection or religion; it’s about surrender, discernment, and choosing God fully, not selectively. We talk about distractions that look good but pull us off course, why partial obedience keeps us stuck, how the enemy works subtly, and what locking in with God looks like practically. If you’re tired of going halfway with God and feeling spiritually drained, this episode will challenge you, sharpen your discernment, and call you deeper into intimacy and obedience with Him.

In Season 4, Episode 1 of Sacred Singleness, we step into the new year without pressure or reflection only peace, clarity, and trust in God’s timing. A gentle reminder that singleness is sacred and becoming is happening now.

Season 3 was truly personal for me. I opened up about some of the deepest parts of my life; my past relationships, my childhood wounds, my single motherhood journey, and the way God has been healing me piece by piece.

I talked about my 13-year relationship with the father of my son, how I lost myself through lies, narcissistic abuse, and betrayal, and how God protected me through it all. I shared how being the oldest child shaped me into someone who became hyper-independent, and how my father’s absence taught me to overperform and fear abandonment.

I also talked about how God revealed my future spouse to me, how I’m trusting His timing, and how I’m learning to prepare instead of interfering. I opened up about my struggles as a single mother; the guilt, the exhaustion, the fear of dating again, and the moments when I feel like I’m not enough for my child.

This season, I learned how to love myself again. How to grow spiritually while I wait on God’s promise. How to let go of counterfeits, how to heal, and how to walk boldly in my worth.

Season 3 was raw, honest, and emotional, because this season of my life is personal. But it has also been a testimony of God’s protection, His patience with me, and His love guiding me through every chapter.

In this episode, I talk about where I am right now in my journey; still waiting on God’s promise but choosing not to wait passively. Instead of sitting still or wondering when things will happen, I’m focusing on my spiritual growth.

I share how I’m praying more intentionally, studying the Word, journaling with God, guarding what I allow into my spirit, and deepening my relationship with Him. Waiting used to feel like being stuck, but now I see it as preparation; a season where God is refining me, healing me, and building the woman I’m becoming.

I remind myself that I don’t need a relationship to feel loved or chosen. I am already loved by God, already seen, already worthy, already secure. Learning to live loved right now helps me walk boldly in my worth and say no to things that don’t align with my purpose.

The heart of this episode is this: I don’t want to waste the waiting; I want to grow in it. This season is helping me become whole, grounded, and ready for what God has ahead.

I end with a prayer asking God to continue strengthening me, guiding me, and helping me walk confidently in this season while I wait for His perfect timing.

In this pause episode, I share how God led me to Job 39 and the reminder I didn’t know I needed. What looked like a simple chapter about animals became God telling me He’s working in the hidden places, strengthening me, freeing me, and lifting my perspective. This episode is my moment to breathe, trust, and remember who God is in my life.

In this episode, I open up about how heartbreak, single motherhood, and years of surviving instead of living caused me to lose pieces of myself -my spark, my joy, and my identity. I talk about the moment I realized I was no longer showing up for me, and how God began guiding me back to loving myself again.

I explain that self-love isn’t selfish; it’s spiritual. It’s seeing my worth through God’s eyes, giving myself grace, resting without guilt, and protecting my peace with healthy boundaries.

I share the practical steps that helped me rebuild who I am: speaking God’s truth over my life, rediscovering the things that bring me joy, seeking healing, and reconnecting with the dreams I had before the pain.

I end by reflecting on how loving myself prepared me for healthier relationships and a healthier future. Once I began loving myself again, I stopped settling, I stopped shrinking, and I started walking in the fullness God created me for.

I close the episode with a prayer over every woman who also needs to learn how to love herself again.

In this deeply personal episode, I open up about the unplanned journey of single motherhood and the emotional weight that comes with it. I share the moments where I’ve felt defeated, overwhelmed, and afraid that I’ve let my child down, wrestling with the fear of passing on my own childhood trauma and trying to stay strong even when I’m breaking inside.

We talk about the exhaustion of being the sole caretaker, the fear of dating again after so much disappointment, and the heavy reality of experiencing heartbreak as a mother rather than just as a woman. I also share the tension of balancing life, motherhood, and the guilt that rises when my 10-year-old reflects his anger or struggles when I try to live a little for myself.

This episode is for every single mom who feels tired, guilty, or unseen, a reminder that God has never left your side, even in the hardest moments. You are doing better than you think.