Your purpose isn’t something you find outside of you.
It’s something you remember inside of you.

Because the truth is—your purpose was never missing.
It’s just been buried under survival…
under conditioning…
under who you had to become to be loved, safe, chosen, or accepted.

In this episode, we’re talking about the path back to the life you were born for.

Not the “hustle harder and manifest faster” version…
but the embodied, nervous-system-led return.

The kind where your body becomes your compass again.
Where clarity isn’t forced—it’s revealed.
Where your mission doesn’t feel heavy, confusing, or far away…
it feels like home.

We share own personal journeys of finding our purpose— not as the only way. But as a guide to support you in your own journeys of self discovery.

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Big transitions don’t ask for more effort—they ask for more presence.

In this episode, Brandon and Darci explore what it really means to move through life’s transitions without burning out, collapsing, or abandoning the body in the process. Together, they unpack why embodied rest isn’t a pause from momentum, but the very thing that creates it.

You’ll hear an honest conversation about:
• Why major life shifts often trigger exhaustion, anxiety, or collapse
• How the body experiences transition—and what it needs to stay regulated
• The difference between pushing through change and moving with coherence
• How rest, embodiment, and nervous system awareness unlock clarity, direction, and sustainable momentum

This episode is an invitation to rewrite your story from the inside-out by learning how to stay in your body, soften your nervous system, and let momentum emerge naturally instead of being forced.

If you’re in the middle of change, or standing at the edge of one, this conversation offers a grounded and embodied way forward.

Feminine initiation healing course: https://www.holoshealing.info/descent/

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What if your child inherits more of your nervous system than your advice? We pull apart projection, the subtle ways our unlived life becomes our child’s burden, and how reparenting ourselves changes the energy our kids grow up in.

We get practical about felt safety: co-regulation over control, attunement over platitudes, and why you can’t fake presence with gifts or grand gestures. Think real-world moments—missed party invites, public meltdowns, and performance pressure around sports or school—and the quiet skills that transform them: naming emotions, staying anchored, and repairing after we misstep. We also talk boundaries that protect connection, not our image; autonomy that grows authenticity; and the simple question that resets everything: why does this moment trigger me?

Along the way, we revisit Jung’s line about the “unlived life of the parent,” explore how generational trauma travels through state, and share the shift from pushing kids toward our dreams to standing ready to support theirs. The metric we use now is simple and hard: how safe do our kids feel telling us the truth when they’ve messed up? If you’re ready to trade performance parenting for presence, and fear for curiosity, you’ll find tools, language, and hope here.

If this conversation helped, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. Your support helps more families find safety, repair, and a new story worth living.

Holos Healing:
https://holoshealing.info/

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Guided meditation:
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/wbf8yihnv2a8h7jjyhczw/Connecting-to-your-Authentic-Self.mp3?rlkey=4cjj06t9ltrbv044ouxotim89&e=2&st=fvfoodx6&dl=0

[00:00:00] Intro and welcome
[00:01:56] Darci's Memories: Presence and Joy
[00:06:45] Brandon's Memories: Work, Support, Accountability
[00:13:20] Becoming Young Parents and Big Emotions
[00:17:20] Projection, Reparenting, and Jung's Quote
[00:22:10] Modeling Mistakes, Regulation, and Repair
[00:26:20] Nervous System, Co‑Regulation, Felt Safety
[00:31:20] Space, Autonomy, and The Pendulum
[00:36:00] Sports, Expectations, and Letting Kids Lead
[00:40:10] Attunement vs Misattunement in Daily Life
[00:44:20] Safety, Being Seen, and Family Repair