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Said Lovingly

Said Lovingly

Written by: Crystal
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Said Lovingly is the podcast for women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals ready to call in good love without lowering her standards, sacrificing herself, or chasing.


This podcast rewrites the narrative on modern love and dating. Each Thursday, Crystal shares powerful lessons, perspective shifts, and straight-to-the-heart truths to help you break old patterns, raise your standards, and embody the magnetic energy that draws in quality men who adore you.


These aren't surface-level dating hacks. It’s about aligning your energy, psychology, and standards so you date like a woman who knows her worth and gets what she wants.


With a track record of helping hundreds of women go from single to happily coupled with high-quality men, Crystal brings you the wisdom, humor, and real talk you need to transform your love life from the inside out.


© 2025 Said Lovingly
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Episodes
  • Tired of Dating? Here’s What’s Really Draining You (Part 2)
    Dec 4 2025

    Is dating exhausting you? You’re so not alone.

    In this week’s episode of Said Lovingly I’m wrapping up the series on why dating is exhausting you and how to change it so you can finally start meeting men from a palace of ease, confidence, and energy.

    You’ll walk away with:

    • How you can instantly start dating with more calm and confidence;
    • The role your thoughts are playing in your dating fatigue;
    • How your energy is impacting the men you attract.

    This is such a juicy episode to make your dating life lighter, easier, and way more fun.

    WORK WITH CRYSTAL TO ATTRACT A HAPPY, HEALTHY, LOVING, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP

    Interested in working together to call in a happy, healthy, loving, committed relationship? Schedule a call where we'll uncover exactly what's keeping you from the love you deserve.

    During our consultation, you'll receive:

    → Crystal-clear clarity on the kind of love and partnership you want—and a roadmap to finally stop wasting time on men who don't measure up

    → A breakthrough diagnosis of the 3-5 hidden blocks keeping you stuck in the same frustrating patterns (yes, we're going there)

    → A custom, actionable plan to help you call in a happy, healthy, committed relationship in the next 12 months

    This private coaching opportunity is perfect for you if:

    → You're a driven, powerhouse woman—an entrepreneur, executive, or professional who's built a life you're proud of but is ready to channel that same energy into building the love life you deserve

    → You're dating high-quality men, but for some reason, things aren't progressing into the happy, committed relationship you know is possible

    → You're confident you're a total catch, but somehow you keep attracting men who fall short—whether it's non-committal behavior or not fully appreciating your value

    Click here to schedule your call: https://calendly.com/d/crjq-trz-yjy

    ABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST

    Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards.

    Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 80+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.

    📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

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    12 mins
  • Deception & Delusion in Dating: Love Lessons from the Danish Deception
    Nov 26 2025

    The viral Danish Deception story isn’t just internet drama, it’s also a masterclass in what happens when overwhelming attractions, love bombing, and fantasy show up in real-life dating.

    In this episode we’ll explore some of the hidden lessons that any woman can apply to her own love life. We’re going beyond just, “don’t ignore red flags,” and offering practical insight and wisdom so you can trust yourself, stay grounded while following in love, and protect your heart (and bank account) without becoming jaded.

    In this episode you’ll learn:

    • The one practically universal deal breaker for all women dating;
    • The reason the popular narratives about this story are missing the mark;
    • The behaviors and patterns that made Onyeka most susceptible to this kind of scam (and how to know where your own vulnerabilities lie);
    • Some fun tidbits about the Danish Royal Family;
    • We’re also exploring the intricacies of romantic scams, drawing parallels to the Tinder Swindler case, including how to understand the psychological and emotional dynamics at play, recognizing the signs of a romantic scam, and maintaining self-awareness and caution in romantic relationships.

    If you’ve ever been swept away, love-bombed, or have caught clips of the viral series, you’re not gonna want to miss this episode. (But even if you have no clue what I’m talking about, this episode is so juicy and you’ll wanna tune in!)

    If you’ve ever been swept up, love-bombed, or convinced “this time is different,” this episode will recalibrate your entire nervous system for healthier, safer, more secure love — without losing the magic.

    ABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST

    Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards.

    Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.

    📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes out on Thursdays—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.



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    56 mins
  • Tired of Dating? Here’s What’s Really Draining You (Part I)
    Nov 6 2025

    Is dating exhausting you?

    You’re so not alone. In this week’s episode of Said Lovingly I’m breaking down why dating is exhausting and how to change it so you can finally start meeting men from a palace of ease, confidence, and energy.

    You’ll walk away with:

    • How you can instantly start dating with more calm and confidence;
    • The role your thoughts are playing in your dating fatigue;
    • How your energy is impacting the men you attract.

    This is such a juicy episode to make your dating life lighter, easier, and way more fun.

    ABOUT THE SAID LOVINGLY PODCAST

    Said Lovingly is the podcast for high-achieving women entrepreneurs, creators, and powerhouse professionals who are ready to attract committed love without lowering their standards.

    Said Lovingly is hosted by Crystal Irom, a lawyer-turned-love coach and educator for high-achieving women who has helped 70+ women go from single to happily married with her proven frameworks for attracting love.

    📌 Subscribe to Said Lovingly for new episodes every Thursday—and follow @crystalonlove on Instagram for daily insights.

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    28 mins
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