In this episode drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss aftercare following spanking—what it looks like immediately and over the days after a scene, differences between tops, bottoms, and switches, and why longer-term check-ins matter.

They share practical tips (hydration, rest, lotion, chocolate, journaling), emphasize clear communication and negotiation about needs and limits, and encourage reaching out to the community for support when experiencing sub-drop or top-drop.

In this episode drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away dive into spanking implements — hands, hairbrushes, paddles, belts, canes and custom rubber straps — and how materials, size and design change the feel from stingy to thuddy.

They discuss safety (where to hit and noise concerns), the importance of quality finishes, favorite makers like Alpine Impact, and tease that aftercare will be the next episode’s focus.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss the fundamentals of safe words, how the traffic‑light system (green/yellow/red) works, and why safe words matter even during punishments.

They cover practical tips for tops and bottoms — check‑ins, headspace awareness, running through implements with new partners — and strongly warn against playing with anyone who refuses safe words.

Hosts drew_spanks and I_Fly_Away discuss how they established and maintain their spanking dynamic, blending domestic-discipline-style rules with playful rituals. They explain the importance of mutual agreement, realistic expectations, leading by example, and using rituals (like spankings) to create fresh starts for serious behavior changes.

The episode covers examples (e.g., speeding and door-opening), how punishments and rule-setting work in their relationship, and teases a follow-up episode about safe words, boundaries, and playing with others.

Welcome to the first episode of Sass and Surrender. Hosts Drew Spanks and I Fly share their personal journeys into spanking and domestic discipline, how they met, and why this kink matters to them.

They talk about building a healthy dynamic, blending vanilla intimacy with kink, communication, community experiences, and what listeners can expect from future episodes.