Speaking up sounds simple… until it’s you.

Until you’re worried about upsetting someone.
Being judged.Looking difficult.Getting rejected.Or taking up “too much” space.

In this episode of Self-Worth School, I’m joined by Jo Tarnawsky to talk about what it really means to use your voice - especially in the moments that matter most.

Jo shares her experience of working as a diplomat for 25 years in the Australian government before eventually speaking publicly about workplace harassment and power dynamics after a long period of silence, fear, and self-protection.

Together, we explore why so many women hold themselves back from saying what they really think, the hidden cost of staying quiet, and how courage is something we build through smaller moments - not just big dramatic ones.

This episode is about self-worth, boundaries, confidence, and learning to trust that your voice deserves space too.

CONNECT WITH JO

Instagram: @jo_tarnawsky
LinkedIn: Jo Tarnawsky
Website: Jo Tarnawsky Website
Substack: Jo’s Substack

Jo has also shared a special discount for listeners of Self-Worth School on her Recovering from a Toxic Workplace video series and companion guide.

Use code ROSIE2026 for 25% off until 30 June 2026.

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If this episode hit, share it with someone who’s been making themselves smaller lately.

And if using your voice, trusting yourself, or setting boundaries is something you struggle with - this is exactly the kind of work I support women with through coaching and inside my membership 💛

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If you’ve ever found yourself spiralling, overthinking, replaying conversations, or jumping to worst-case scenarios - this episode is for you.In this episode of Self-Worth School, I’m joined by mental health coach Joe Roe to talk about anxious thoughts, overwhelm, and the connection between anxiety, self-worth, and confidence.Joe shares her own lived experience with chronic fatigue syndrome, anxiety, bipolar disorder, burnout, and recovery - and the practical tools that helped her better understand and manage her mind.We talk about why overthinking happens, how your brain is wired to keep you safe, and why anxious thoughts don’t mean there’s something “wrong” with you.Joe also shares her “archway” framework, practical self-regulation tools, and the importance of building awareness and self-kindness instead of fighting against yourself.If your brain’s been noisy lately, this conversation will help you feel a little less alone - and a little more equipped.☕ Joe’s “Hug in a Mug” WorkbookDownload Joe's Hug in a Mug workbook - a simple but powerful self-care resource built around small rituals and comforting actions for the mind, body, and soul.Because sometimes support doesn’t have to be huge.Sometimes it’s the little things that help bring you back to yourself.Download it here.

CONNECT WITH JOEJoe Roe is a Multi-Award‑Winning Mental Health and NLP Master Coach with over 20 years of experience helping people shift from anxiety and overwhelm to clarity, calm, and confidence. Recognised as a Top Mental Health Coach by the Coaching Foundation, Joe blends lived experience of anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder and psychosis with professional expertise to support deep, lasting change. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joeroecoaching/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joeroecoaching/IF THIS RESONATEDIf this episode hit, share it with someone who might need it - especially someone who’s been carrying a lot mentally lately.And if overthinking, self-doubt, or anxiety are stopping you from fully showing up in your life or business, this is exactly the work I support women with through coaching and my membership.Set up your free discovery call here: www.calendly.com/rosiemilsomcoaching/30minAnd join my FREE 3-Day Challenge: Make The Moves That Make You Money here.Running from Tue 19th to Thu 21st.

What if you don't need to become louder to let yourself be seen in your work, your ideas, and the things you actually want?What if it's actually about trusting yourself enough to stop hiding?In this episode of Self-Worth School, I’m joined by Pooja Jain - AI Consultant, keynote speaker, and founder of PowerUp AI - to talk about building visibility, confidence, and self-worth as an introvert.Pooja shares her journey from corporate life to starting her own AI consultancy in Germany, and how she had to challenge the belief that introverted people “aren’t the type” to build businesses, speak publicly, or put themselves out there.If you’ve been holding yourself back because you think you need to be more confident, more outgoing, or more “ready” first, this one will land.💛 In this episode, we cover:- The difference between introversion and lack of confidence- How introverts can use their natural strengths in business and leadership- Pooja’s perspective on imposter syndrome (and why it’s not always a bad thing)- How to start being visible in a way that actually feels doable long-term

Connect with PoojaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/poojajain19d/If this resonatedIf you’ve been sitting on ideas, holding back your voice, or waiting until you feel “ready” to put yourself out there - this is your reminder that confidence is built in motion.And if this is something you struggle with, this is exactly the work I do.Through 1:1 coaching and inside my membership, I help women stop second-guessing themselves, trust their voice, and actually show up for what they want.

Set up your free discovery call here for 1:1 coaching: www.calendly.com/rosiemilsomcoaching/30min

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