• When Lovely People Separate
    Jan 19 2026
    Sometimes people are just better off as friends. Melissa and Cody share their experience with divorcing best friends and what that relationship looks like on the other side of separation. They also talk about letting go of the guilt around separating from someone when things are mostly 'fine'.
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    34 mins
  • What Motivates Us
    Jan 5 2026

    In this episode of Separate Together Melissa and Cody discuss how they came to be friends and what motivates them to pave the way for a friendlier style of divorce. Melissa shares how her own divorce informed her view that a better way to separate is possible, and Cody dicusses how receiving a disability diagnosis for one of her children motivates her to guide families through times of acute stress and transition.

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    37 mins
  • AIPs
    Dec 22 2025

    In this episode of Separate Together, Melissa and Cody explore the complexities of legal relationships within family law. They discuss the concept of interdependence, the legal implications of merging lives, and the importance of being mindful of the perils and benefits of relationships. The conversation also touches on the impact of parenthood on relationships and the need for conscious relating in modern society. Through personal anecdotes and professional insights, they emphasize the significance of understanding the legal framework surrounding family dynamics and the consequences of separation.

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    35 mins
  • Social Change & Divorce
    Dec 8 2025

    This episode of Separate Together explores the evolution of family law and the changing dynamics of divorce and separation over the past decade. The conversation delves into the perspectives of clients, particularly focusing on the shifting concerns of women and men in divorce proceedings, the emotional toll of litigation, and the emergence of modern family structures. Melissa and Cody how societal changes have influenced client empowerment and self-advocacy, as well as the complexities of navigating identity within family law.

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    40 mins
  • Myths and Madness
    Nov 24 2025

    In this episode of Separate Together, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub explore the intricacies of legal separation and divorce. They discuss the process of formalizing separation agreements, the role of affidavits, and the importance of child support and parenting orders. The conversation also contrasts the streamlined joint divorce process with the complexities of litigation, highlighting the emotional toll and challenges faced by individuals navigating the court system, especially those who choose to self-represent.

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    39 mins
  • Do You Need a Family Lawyer?
    Nov 10 2025

    Understanding if and when you need a lawyer can significantly impact the separation process. Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub delve into various scenarios, providing valuable insights that can help individuals make informed decisions.

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    41 mins
  • The Divorce Spectrum
    Oct 27 2025

    In this episode of Separate Together, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub delve into the challenges faced by clients in family law, particularly their lack of awareness regarding necessary decisions. It highlights the importance of structured parenting plans and the resources provided by One Family Law to assist clients in navigating these complexities.

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Our 7 Steps
    Oct 13 2025

    In this episode of Separate Together, hosts Melissa Bourgeois and Cody Dub explore the intricacies of legal separation and the unique approach they take at One Family Law.

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    31 mins