Everyone talks about their own first time but what about being on the other side of it? In this bonus episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we flip the script and talk about the other side of firsts.

From nerves and pressure to tenderness, tears, and unexpected vulnerability, we explore what it really feels like to be the more experienced partner, and how myths about confidence, control, and detachment often miss the full story. With insights from returning sexpert Dr. Markie Twist, we unpack the cultural scripts and emotional realities that shape intimacy when you’re someone’s “first.”

Useful resources:

Tantra with a Twist: application of an ancient spiritual practice for modern relational communication

Exploring Age Gap Relationships

Everyone talks about first times, but what about the first orgasm? In this episode of Sexual Encounters: The Very First Time, we explore the myths, surprises, and cultural baggage around orgasm, from why so many people fake it, to how porn and shame shape expectations, to what our bodies are actually capable of. We hear a powerful listener story about discovering liberation and pleasure in ways they never thought possible, and sexologist Marla Renee Stewart joins us to unpack what orgasms really are, why they matter, and how to embrace them as a journey rather than a performance.

What’s it like to have your first sexual experience years or even decades after what society calls “normal”? In this episode, we bust myths about later-in-life first times with Dr. Amanda Morgan, exploring confidence, stigma, and the truth behind cultural stereotypes. We also share a listener’s deeply personal story of waiting until 31, navigating self-esteem challenges, and discovering intimacy on their own terms. From breaking shame to embracing your own timeline, this conversation is a reminder that there’s no age limit on sexual beginnings.