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Sister-in-Law

Sister-in-Law

Written by: Briana Steel and Cambria Steel
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Not everyone gets lucky enough to have the best sister-in-law ever — someone you can laugh with, vent to, and shamelessly overshare with. That’s where we come in. We’re Briana and Cambria Steel, two women in tech, and if it wasn't obvious, sisters-in-law. We may have been brought together by a man, but we sure as hell aren’t reliant on one. Think of us as your coven as we navigate life — the good, the messy, the meaningful, and all the cringe-worthy moments in between. Through honest conversations, we’ll share our different perspectives, learn and grow right alongside you, and dive into the topics that matter most — from finance and career to fashion, women’s health, and everything in between. At the heart of it, this is about expanding our knowledge, finding connection, and tackling the chaos of life while laughing the whole way through.Copyright 2024 Careers Economics Personal Success
Episodes
  • SIL's Top Travel Hacks
    May 7 2026

    The carry-on essentials, airport shortcuts, and little-known tricks that actually make travel better.


    Episode Summary


    In Episode 9, Bri and Cambria are fresh off a string of trips — Costa Rica for brother Matt and Madie's wedding, Nicaragua with sister Cory, and a bachelorette trip to Mexico on the horizon — so travel is very much top of mind. Before diving in, Bri shares a quick pop culture moment about trusting your gut, using the Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson situation as a jumping-off point for a genuinely useful framework: if your internal thought about a person ends in a question mark, that's anxiety — if it ends in a statement, that's your gut.


    Then it's straight into the hacks. From the obvious-but-necessary (TSA PreCheck, Global Entry, credit card portals) to the ones you haven't thought of yet (hotel slippers on the plane, a pre-packed pharmacy bag, a packing spreadsheet that tells you how packed you are), Bri and Cambria trade their best travel tips with the energy of two people who have genuinely learned these lessons the hard way. Cambria forgot her entire makeup bag for a wedding weekend in Costa Rica. Bri's husband Clay got free doubles the whole flight after a goodie bag for the flight attendants. These are real-life tested hacks, not just things they read online.


    What We Cover


    • Trusting your gut: the anxiety vs. intuition framework from Hannah Berner
    • TSA PreCheck vs. Global Entry — what's the difference and do you need both?
    • Which credit cards cover the Global Entry and TSA PreCheck fees
    • AirTagging everything — and why the passport holder is the one non-negotiable
    • Goodie bags for flight attendants and why it works especially well in economy
    • Hotel slippers + compression socks: the long-haul flight combo you didn't know you needed
    • Packing a travel pharmacy bag so you never have to hunt down a foreign CVS
    • The TikTok packing checklist spreadsheet that tells you exactly how packed you are
    • Downloading Google Maps offline before you leave home
    • YouTubing the airport before you fly — especially for connections and rideshare pickup
    • AirPod Max 2s with real-time language translation: the future is here
    • Leaving a backup credit card at the hotel — and the passport safety debate
    • Overnight face masks on flights and why planes are destroying your skin


    Timestamps


    • 00:00 – Intro, halfway through pregnancy update, and non-stop travel in 2026
    • 02:45 – Pop culture: Megan Thee Stallion, Klay Thompson, and trusting your gut
    • 06:10 – Hack 1: TSA PreCheck vs. Global Entry — and which cards cover the fee
    • 09:30 – Hack 2: AirTag everything, especially your passport
    • 12:15 – Hack 3: Goodie bags for flight attendants (Clay's free doubles story)
    • 15:00 – Hack 4: Hotel slippers + compression socks on the plane
    • 17:45 – Hack 5: Packing a travel pharmacy bag
    • 20:10 – Hack 6: The TikTok packing checklist spreadsheet
    • 22:30 – Hack 7: Download Google Maps offline before you leave
    • 24:15 – Hack 8: YouTube the airport before you fly
    • 26:00 – Hack 9: AirPod Max 2s and real-time language translation
    • 27:30 – Hack 10: Leave a backup credit card at the hotel
    • 29:10 – Hack 11: Overnight face mask on the plane
    • 30:20 – Wrap up and happy travels


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    31 mins
  • Attachment Types & Stress Reduction
    Apr 23 2026

    What your attachment style says about you, and why your cortisol might be running the whole show.


    Episode Summary


    Episode 8 kicks off with a couple of quick follow-ups — turns out there are seven sisters planning the baby shower (not six), and Captain Bill, Brie's father-in-law, tuned in and wants to know if magnesium works for guys too. Spoiler: it does.


    Then Bri and Cambria get into something that's been consuming their group chat: the Summer House reunion and the Ciara situation. Bri, who grew up half black in primarily white spaces, brings a personal and nuanced lens to what it means to be the only black person in the room — how you're perceived, how you're allowed to act, and what it feels like to watch that play out on a national stage. It's one of the more real and thoughtful conversations they've had on the pod.


    From there, Bri takes the wheel with attachment styles — the psychology of how we connect, pull away, or quietly spiral in our close relationships. She runs Cambria through a five-question quiz (secure, anxious, or avoidant?), and the results spark a genuinely honest conversation about therapy, past relationships, and why most people are actually a blend of all three.


    Then Cambria breaks down cortisol — what it actually is, why it's not the villain TikTok makes it out to be, and what chronic stress is really doing to your body and your relationships. From morning routines to fake urgency to magnesium, it's a practical and surprisingly reassuring look at why your nervous system is just trying to keep you alive.


    What We Cover


    • Seven sisters, not six — and a quick shoutout to Captain Bill
    • Magnesium: yes, it works for men too
    • The Summer House reunion, the Ciara situation, and what it means to be the only black person in a white space
    • Attachment styles 101: secure, anxious, and avoidant
    • The five-question attachment style quiz (take it yourself!)
    • Why most people are a blend — and why that changes depending on the relationship
    • How therapy can move you from anxious to avoidant to secure
    • What cortisol actually is and why it's not the enemy
    • Chronic cortisol vs. acute cortisol — and what modern life is doing to both
    • How to fix your morning to fix your cortisol curve
    • Reducing fake urgency: notifications, email, and the Instagram problem
    • Why sleep is your biggest lever for stress
    • Safety signals: laughing, nature, slow mornings, and doing nothing without guilt


    Timestamps


    • 00:00 – Intro, seven sisters correction, and Captain Bill's magnesium question
    • 02:30 – Summer House, Ciara, and being the only black person in white spaces
    • 10:15 – Wrapping the Bravo talk and transitioning to attachment styles
    • 11:45 – What are attachment styles? Secure, anxious, and avoidant explained
    • 13:20 – The five-question attachment style quiz
    • 20:10 – Tallying results and what they actually mean
    • 24:00 – Cortisol 101: what it is and why it exists
    • 26:30 – What happens when cortisol stays chronically high
    • 28:45 – How to lower your cortisol: morning routines, walks, and reducing fake urgency
    • 32:00 – Sleep, magnesium, and safety signals
    • 34:10 – The real takeaway: regulate your nervous system first


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    36 mins
  • Surprise! Bri's Pregnant!
    Apr 9 2026

    Bri's pregnant! The SILs break down pregnancy icks, and how best to support your pregnant family members & friends.


    Episode Summary


    In this episode of Sister-in-Law, Bri finally shares the news she's been keeping since her honeymoon — she's pregnant with a baby boy! She and Cambria walk through the whole story: the fertility planning, the empty pregnancy test box in Thailand, the 7-Eleven run on a scooter, and the faint second line that confirmed everything on the last day of the trip. Now 16 weeks in and firmly in her second trimester, Bri gets real about what the first trimester actually felt like — the all-day nausea, the exhaustion, the Taco Bell diet, and the mental toll of feeling unproductive for months.


    From there, the conversation shifts into something more practical and deeply thoughtful: what does real support look like for a new mom? Bri opens up about being bad at asking for help, and together she and Cambria dream up a postpartum binder — a room-by-room guide for anyone coming to help so Bri doesn't have to explain where the dish soap is at 3am. They also cover the baby shower icks (no gift opening, no "Mama" merch, please), how they're already planning a postpartum Airbnb setup for the village, and the name they're 99% locked in on — Cade — which has more meaning behind it than they expected.


    What We Cover


    • The honeymoon pregnancy discovery story — fertility planning, a stolen test, and a Thai 7-Eleven
    • What the first trimester actually felt like (hint: worse than you think)
    • The mental health toll of feeling sick and unproductive for months
    • What practical support really looks like vs. "let me know what you need"
    • The postpartum binder idea — and Cambria's a la carte menu add-on
    • Baby shower icks: gift opening, "Mama" everything, and the signed book situation
    • The postpartum Airbnb plan for the village
    • Belly touching etiquette, appointments, and the first ultrasound moment
    • The baby name: Cade — and the unexpected Mortal Kombat connection
    • How pregnancy has surprisingly made Bri… calmer?


    Timestamps


    • 00:00 – Bri's big announcement: she's pregnant!
    • 02:14 – The honeymoon discovery story and the Thailand 7-Eleven run
    • 06:30 – Finding out it's a boy and what's surprised her most
    • 09:45 – What the first trimester was really like
    • 14:20 – What Bri actually needs: practical help over emotional check-ins
    • 18:05 – The postpartum binder idea and Cam's menu concept
    • 23:30 – Baby shower icks and the gift opening debate
    • 29:00 – The postpartum Airbnb plan and building the village
    • 33:15 – Belly touching, appointments, and the first heartbeat ultrasound
    • 38:40 – The name: Cade, Mortal Kombat, and a meaningful connection
    • 42:00 – Wrapping up and how to tell them what you want more of on the pod


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    32 mins
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