This episode is personal. We’re talking about stolen valor — the real damage caused when someone claims combat they never saw, medals they didn’t earn, or deployments they didn’t endure. But we’re also talking about something that doesn’t get enough attention: women who actually served. Women who deployed. Women who led. Women who sacrificed. Women who are still told, “You don’t look like a veteran.” In this powerful conversation, I share what happened when a guest on Sisters-in-Service misrepresented her service — and why I chose to lead with trust. We unpack the hidden cost of military life, the exhaustion of being questioned by civilians who’ve never worn a uniform, and the double standard women veterans face in rooms where they’re mistaken for spouses instead of service members. This isn’t about outrage. It’s about standards. It’s about integrity. Because honor isn’t borrowed. And service isn’t a costume. If you’re a woman veteran who has ever been questioned, minimized, or made invisible — this one is for you.

What happens when you stop trying to “arrive” and instead allow yourself to become? In this intimate and playful conversation, Cat sits down with Kaedy Molley to talk about identity, reinvention, and the quiet courage it takes to follow curiosity instead of a checklist. Kaedy shares her journey from serving ten years in the U.S. Navy as an Arabic cryptologic linguist and Aircrewman—with deployments to Afghanistan and the Mediterranean—to discovering a deep love for the humanities through the Warrior-Scholar Project. A proud WSP “fangirl,” Kaedy reflects on how community, education, and meaningful connection helped her navigate life after military service. Together, Cat and Kaedy explore what it means to live a non-linear life, how our definitions of success evolve over time, and why the in-between seasons are often where the most growth happens. From career pivots and unlearning old beliefs to finding joy in music, travel, nature, and everyday moments, this episode is a reminder that you’re allowed to be more than one thing. If you’ve ever felt caught between who you were and who you’re becoming, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we talk about: Navigating identity during and after military service The impact of the Warrior-Scholar Project and lifelong learning Trusting a non-linear career path Redefining success beyond titles and productivity The power of community, curiosity, and authentic connection Finding grounding through joy, nature, and presence This episode is an invitation to slow down, stay curious, and give yourself permission to evolve.

If you’ve ever said, “I don’t feel motivated to work out,” this episode is for you.

In this solo episode, I break down the truth about motivation and why relying on it alone makes working out feel frustrating, inconsistent, and exhausting. You’ll learn where motivation actually comes from, why it disappears when you need it most, and how to build a sustainable movement routine—without waiting to feel inspired.

We talk about why motivation is fleeting, how stress, hormones, and overwhelm affect your desire to exercise, and what to do instead when you’re tired, busy, or just not feeling it. This episode shifts the focus from hype and willpower to consistency, identity, and small, doable movement that builds confidence over time.

If you’re struggling with motivation to exercise, feeling stuck in an on-again, off-again workout cycle, or wondering how to stay active in midlife without burning out, this conversation will help you reframe movement in a way that actually works.

This is Fit for Life Alliance style—real talk, compassionate fitness, and practical strategies to help you move your body, feel better, and stay consistent for life.

Topics Covered:

• Why motivation to work out comes and goes

• How to exercise when you don’t feel motivated

• Why waiting for motivation keeps you stuck

• Building consistency without pressure or guilt

• Sustainable movement habits for real life

In this episode, we talk with Melissa A. Washington, award-winning advocate, speaker, author, entrepreneur, and U.S. Navy veteran, about intentional leadership, visibility without compromise, and building community that actually works.

Melissa is the founder of Women Veterans Alliance, co-founder of Women Veterans Magazine, and the creator of Veteran Events, a national platform supporting veteran and military-connected communities. From enlisting in the Navy at 18 to reinventing her career during the Great Recession, Melissa shares powerful insights on resilience, reinvention, and creating infrastructure that leads to sustainable impact.

This conversation is essential for women veterans, entrepreneurs, nonprofit leaders, and anyone building mission-driven organizations with purpose and clarity.

• What intentional leadership really looks like

• Why visibility matters—without burnout or compromise

• How community and infrastructure drive lasting impact

• Lessons from career reinvention and entrepreneurship

• What it means to be fierce, fearless, and unfuckable in life and business

Melissa A. Washington is an award-winning advocate, speaker, author, entrepreneur, publisher, and U.S. Navy veteran. She is the founder of Women Veterans Alliance, co-founder of Women Veterans Magazine, and creator of Veteran Events. Melissa supports women veterans, founders, and mission-driven organizations through leadership, strategy, and visibility.

• Website: https://www.melissawashington.com

• Women Veterans Alliance: https://www.womenveteransalliance.com

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissawashington

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In this episode, Jane speaks on services for women at the VA to include Fibromyalgia, Multiple Sclerosis and Pre/Post Natal services.

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Tony Edmonds is my little brother of 3 siblings. He recently jumped on the entrepreneur ship and I thought this was a good time to talk about his business, about being military brats and to ask a few questions that don't pertain to anything but having fun. Tony's business will help athletes in public schools get exposure to all the right people in sports in a post-COVID world.

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