Surrender, Flow & Why “No” Is Your Greatest Teacher

We talk about evidence.
We talk about accuracy.
We talk about success.

But we rarely talk about the nerves. The doubt. The “no’s.” The fear of getting it wrong.

In this honest, funny, and deeply real conversation, Jason is joined once again by medium Mia Otterson to explore what actually shapes a medium behind the scenes.

This isn’t about polished platform moments.
It’s about what happens before and after.

Together, they unpack surrender, ADHD minds, insecurity, ego, perfectionism, and why the very thing most mediums fear - the “no” - might be the greatest teacher of all.

If you’ve ever questioned yourself…
If you’ve ever felt thrown off by a sitter’s reaction…
If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re really “there” yet…

This episode will feel like a deep exhale.

What you’ll hear

• The “backside” of mediumship no one talks about
• Why many mediums wait too long to say “I am a medium”
• Checklist evidence vs true surrender to Spirit
• How ego quietly interferes with the flow
• ADHD, masking, and the sensitive mind in mediumship
• Why not looking at your sitter can strengthen your link
• The real truth about “no’s” — and how to work with them
• How illness and adversity can deepen trust in Spirit
• Why perfectionism both helps and harms development
• The mindset shift that turns insecurity into resilience

Who this episode is for

• Developing mediums who feel stuck in self-doubt
• Platform workers afraid of getting it wrong
• Healers, intuitives, and sensitives navigating insecurity
• Anyone who feels called to do the work — but fears they’re not ready

Mentions & ideas

Surrender in mediumship
Flow state
Perfectionism
ADHD and spiritual sensitivity
Trust vs control
Reframing rejection

Gentle note

This episode discusses anxiety, self-doubt, and personal challenges within spiritual development. Please listen with care if those themes feel tender for you.

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What if the only real addiction isn’t alcohol, drugs, or even relationships…

…but suffering?

In this powerful and honest conversation, I’m joined by Robin H. Clare, trauma recovery advocate and author of Feast & Famine: Healing Addiction with Grace. Robin shares her deeply personal journey through childhood trauma, eating disorders, addiction, and ultimately profound emotional and spiritual healing.

We explore the radical idea that addiction is not about substances — it’s about unresolved pain. That we can become unconsciously attached to familiar suffering. And that true recovery begins not with force or control… but compassion.

Robin speaks openly about:

• Childhood trauma and survival patterns
• Addiction as a response to emotional wounding
• The body’s role in holding trauma
• The illusion of control
• Shame, self-judgment, and the nervous system
• Why healing requires gentleness, not punishment
• How grace becomes the turning point

This episode is honest, raw, and deeply hopeful.

If you’ve ever struggled with addiction — to substances, food, validation, control, or even painful thoughts — this conversation may shift the way you see yourself.

There is nothing wrong with you.
Your nervous system was protecting you.

And healing is possible.

🌐 Connect with Robin:
RobinHClaire.com

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If you have a story, experience, or idea you'd love to share on Soul Sync, I’d love to hear from you.
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What if everything you’ve been striving for is already within you? Reverend Colin Bates explores surrender, power, and the illusion of separation.

In this deeply grounding and insightful conversation, Jason sits down with Reverend Colin Bates, respected medium, teacher, and minister, to explore one of the most misunderstood spiritual principles — the idea that true power is found not through striving, but through surrender.

Together, they explore the shift from seeking validation, control, and external achievement, towards recognising the divine intelligence already present within us. Colin shares profound yet practical wisdom on working with spirit, understanding consciousness, and allowing mediumship and life itself to unfold through trust rather than effort.

This conversation gently challenges many of the spiritual myths around “trying harder” and instead invites listeners into a space of presence, surrender, and remembering who they truly are.

What You’ll Hear

• Why striving can actually block spiritual and personal growth
• The difference between effort and surrender in mediumship
• Understanding consciousness as an expression of universal intelligence
• How fear and control create the illusion of separation
• Why mediumship works best when we stop trying to perform
• The relationship between trust, presence, and spiritual connection
• How surrender strengthens confidence rather than weakens it
• Practical reflections listeners can apply in everyday life

Who This Episode Is For

• Those developing mediumship or spiritual awareness
• Listeners feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or pushing too hard in life
• Anyone questioning their purpose or sense of direction
• People interested in consciousness and spiritual philosophy
• Those seeking a calmer, more trusting relationship with life

Mentions & Ideas

• Sitting in the power and working with presence
• The role of trust in mediumship development
• Consciousness as universal intelligence
• The illusion of control in spiritual growth
• Living from inner authority rather than external validation

Gentle Note

This episode explores spiritual and philosophical perspectives around consciousness and mediumship. Listeners are encouraged to reflect and interpret these ideas in a way that feels personally meaningful and supportive.

✨ Get in touch
If you have a story, experience, or idea you'd love to share on Soul Sync, I’d love to hear from you.
📩 Email: hello@jasonpaulmedium.com

🌐 Website: https://jasonpaulmedium.com

If you enjoy the podcast, please take a moment to leave a review — your feedback truly means the world to me and helps others discover the show. 💫

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