In this episode of Spice Station, Igbo Spice explores why the concept of “coming out” doesn’t always fit—especially for queer Africans. Through personal reflection and anonymous submissions from the community, they unpack themes of identity, culture, faith, and the pressure to explain yourself in a world that often refuses to understand.

With humor, heart, and honesty, this episode holds space for anyone navigating queerness on their own terms.

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💌 We’re catching up with your anonymous stories, and this one? It spirals. A messy entanglement with an older friend, shared lovers, queer confusion, and questions about safety in female friendships that blur too many boundaries. Spice dissects bisexuality vs. predatory behavior, why age doesn’t equal wisdom, and the deeper root of avoidant attachments.

We also revisit a powerful message from a recovering parentified daughter reflecting on the weight of being the firstborn, growing up in a home where love looked like punishment. This heartfelt note cracks open a necessary conversation on childhood trauma, self-worth, and healing from emotionally unavailable parenting.

Finally, we hear from a young listener in her early 20s wondering: is it okay not to prioritize romantic relationships right now? (Short answer: yes. Long answer: you'll want to hear this segment.)

And of course—some beautiful love notes to the YungNollywood community that remind us why this platform exists in the first place. 💐

This episode is messy, magnetic, and deeply human. Press play.

Submit a question or story anonymously: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://yungnollywood.com/podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
Or email:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ spicestation@yungnollywood.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠
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Hello people of God 🌬️ In this candid and unfiltered episode of Spice Station, your host Igbo Spice is showing up just as she is—no pressure, no script, just realness. Fresh out of 20 therapy sessions (clap for her!) and officially past her Saturn return, she shares what it feels like to be in this in-between season—resting, reflecting, and gently stepping into a new chapter.

She chats about eclipse energy, the stock market shifts (yikes), and the beauty of giving yourself grace to slow down. This is an episode that feels like a cozy check-in with a friend, reminding you that it’s okay to chill and honor where you’re at.

Tune in for some lighthearted reflections, laughs, and that familiar Spice warmth.