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Spill The Tea With D&E

Spill The Tea With D&E

Written by: Dominique Hackett & Erica Salda
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About Spill The Tea with D&E ~ where the truth has layers,the sass is strong, and everyone’s version of reality gets a seat at the table (but maybe not a refill).This is a space for authentic, heartfelt conversations that matter. Each episode dives into real talk—uplifting stories, deep truths, and unfiltered dialogue designed to educate, inspire healing, and help us all live fuller, better lives. No fluff. No pretense. Just honest connection that fuels growth and reminds us we’re not alone.Welcome to the podcast where real talk reigns and small talk takes a nap. We’re diving deep—heartfelt, authentic, occasionally messy conversations that lift you up, teach you something, and maybe even make you snort-laugh along the way. Think of it as group therapy, without the co-pay. We’re here to heal, grow, and keep it ridiculously real—one honest convo at a time.About UsAbout Erica “The Queen of Teen”Born in Rocky Point, Long Island, New York, Erica made the bold move to California during her s...Santa Barbara Wellness Center, Inc. Self-Help Spirituality Success
Episodes
  • Daily System Checkin - What is happening? (138.02.025)
    Jan 25 2026

    A calm, clear take on the week’s headlines — Dominique and Erica break down how news is framed, why emotion drives compliance, and what really matters: trust, agency, and patterns behind the headlines. From media misinformation and AI agency to battery supply chains and psychological resilience, this episode is a “daily systems check” to help listeners stay informed without getting swept up in chaos.

    Calmer minds in loud times — tune in as we decode the headlines, spot the framing, and reclaim the choice to think before we feel. New episode: "Daily Systems Check."

    #DailySystemsCheck, #CalmerMinds, #MediaLiteracy, #NewsFraming, #TrustMatters, #Misinformation, #CriticalThinking, #AIethics, #AIAgents, #TechRegulation, #BatteryTech, #EnergyTransition, #SupplyChain, #EconomicOutlook, #InflationWatch, #PeaceAndPolicy, #ConflictAwareness, #MindfulNews, #EmotionalIntelligence, #PsychologyOfNews, #PodcastDiscussion, #LongformConversation, #IndependentMedia, #PodcastersOfInstagram, #ThoughtfulListening, #PublicTrust, #NarrativeAnalysis, #ChooseCalm, #SBWellness, #WeeklyCheckIn

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    22 mins
  • Mind Reading Is Not a Required Life Skill (137.02.024)
    Jan 24 2026

    ☕ SPILL THE TEA WITH D & E

    Episode Title: What You Think About Me Is None of My Business

    How much of your energy is spent wondering what other people think about you?

    Did I say too much?

    Did I say too little?

    Are they mad?

    Was that text… weird?

    In this gentle and funny episode, Dominique and Erica pour the kind of tea that soothes anxious minds and tired hearts. We talk about the exhausting habit of mind-reading, emotional over-responsibility, and why trying to manage other people’s thoughts is a full-time job you were never hired for.

    Inspired by one of the best pieces of therapy advice ever given, this episode is your permission slip to:

    • Stop assuming people are upset with you
    • Stop filling in silence with worst-case stories
    • Let grown adults speak for themselves
    • Reclaim peace by releasing what was never yours to carry

    Because here’s the truth that sets you free:

    What someone thinks about you is none of your business.

    Pour a cup. Exhale. This one lands softly… and sticks.

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    If they have something to say to you, they will.

    If they don’t… that silence belongs to them, not you.

    Repeat after us:

    ✨ What you think about me is none of my business. ✨

    Today’s tea is for everyone who’s tired of running imaginary conversations in their head. ☕💭

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    #SpillTheTeaPodcast, #WomenPodcasters, #PodcastLife, #EmotionalIntelligence, #MindfulnessForRealLife, #NervousSystemHealing, #BoundariesAreBeautiful, #OverthinkingRecovery, #AnxietyRelief, #PeoplePleasingNoMore, #EmotionalFreedom, #InnerPeace, #LetThemThink, #SelfWorthJourney, #HealingHumor, #TherapyTalk, #MentalWellness, #PersonalGrowth, #WomenSupportingWomen, #LifeLessons, #MindReadingIsOver, #PeaceOverApproval, #UnbotheredEnergy, #GentleTruths, #TeaTalks, #SantaBarbara, #WellnessPodcast, #WomenOver40, #CalmMind, #LetGoAndLive

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    8 mins
  • Talking to Kids About Bodies Without Fear or Shame (136.02.023)
    Jan 23 2026

    How do we talk to kids about bodies without fear or shame and still include respectful conversations about gender and transgender experiences? In this Spill the Tea with D & E episode, Earth Mama Dominique and longtime sports coach Erica share calm, age-appropriate guidance for parents. From early childhood body boundaries to teen conversations about identity, this episode centers nervous-system safety, parental presence, compassion for transgender people, and the importance of timing and trust. Honest, grounded, and practical.

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    Talking to kids about bodies doesn’t need fear or shame. Calm truth, kindness, and timing build trust for life. ☕🌱

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    15 mins
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