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Start With The Close In Mind

Start With The Close In Mind

Written by: Dorian Lam
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Start with the Close in Mind is a podcast dedicated to uncovering the key strategies and mindsets that lead to successful outcomes—not just in real estate, but in business and life. Hosted by Dorian Lam, a seasoned real estate professional and managing principal of a real estate closing & title company, the podcast explores how focusing on the end goal from the very beginning can drive better decisions, mitigate risks, and create winning results. Whether in real estate transactions, business negotiations, or personal ventures, the principles of strategic planning, preparation, and execution rDorian Lam Economics Leadership Management & Leadership
Episodes
  • S2-EP10: What Lenders Are Really Looking For Right Now
    Jun 18 2026

    What are lenders actually looking for in today's market?

    In this episode, I sit down with Matt Sabanek of Ariel Property Advisors to discuss what is getting financed, what is struggling to get financed, and how lenders are evaluating deals in the current environment.

    A lot of people assume financing is simply about finding the right lender. What Matt explains is that the market has become much more selective. Lenders are paying closer attention to sponsor quality, documentation, operational history, and how risk is being presented.

    The conversation also explores the differences between free market and rent stabilized assets, how lenders are approaching affordable housing, and why some deals continue to attract strong financing options while others struggle.

    A few key topics from the conversation:

    • What successful financings have in common today

    • Why lenders are more focused on sponsor quality than before

    • How paperwork and documentation impact outcomes

    • The reality of financing rent stabilized properties

    • What is changing in the affordable housing space

    • Why advisors need to be involved earlier in the process

    One point that stood out was that financing challenges rarely appear overnight. Most of them can be traced back to decisions, assumptions, or missing information that existed much earlier in the process.

    The earlier you understand how lenders are evaluating risk, the more options you tend to have.

    What are you waiting too long to address before bringing a deal to market?


    #StartWithTheCloseInMind #DefenderOfTheDeal #CommercialRealEstate #RealEstateFinance #CapitalMarkets

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    22 mins
  • S2-EP9: Why Real Relationships Drive the Best Deals
    Jun 1 2026

    What actually creates the best business opportunities?In this episode, I sit down with Joe Apfelbaum, founder of Ajax Union and EVAI, to discuss relationship-driven business development, LinkedIn strategy, AI, and the role authenticity still plays in building long-term business relationships.Joe shared how his business evolved from traditional SEO and digital marketing into a much more relationship-focused approach once he realized that the strongest opportunities consistently came through trust, not traffic.The conversation focuses less on tactics and more on how people actually build meaningful relationships in business today.A few areas we discuss:• Why transactional networking usually fails over time• How LinkedIn should actually be used• The difference between visibility and trust• Why consistency and follow through matter• How AI should support relationships instead of replacing them• Why real relationships still outperform automationOne point from the conversation that stood out was, “The point of LinkedIn is not to be on LinkedIn. The point is to build real relationships.”The tools around communication continue to change, but the fundamentals behind trust and relationship-building have not changed very much.The people who consistently generate opportunities are usually the people who stay present, follow up, and invest in relationships without forcing immediate outcomes.What relationships are you approaching too transactionally?#StartWithTheCloseInMind #DefenderOfTheDeal #RelationshipCapital #BusinessDevelopment #LinkedInStrategy

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    26 mins
  • S2-EP8: The Real Estate Deals Everyone Else Was Too Scared to Touch
    May 20 2026

    What kind of deals do most investors avoid?


    Usually the ones that look too complicated.


    In this episode, I speak with Scott Barone, founder of Borough Management, about identifying opportunities in situations most people avoid and why execution matters more than the deal itself.


    Scott shares how his business evolved from a small contracting operation into a platform operating across hotels, affordable housing, rezoning projects, and one of the largest charter school portfolios in New York.


    The conversation focuses on how difficult deals are evaluated, how value is created through structure and persistence, and why controlling the process changes outcomes.

    Key insights include:

    • Why complexity often creates opportunity

    • How execution determines whether a deal succeeds

    • The importance of verifying assumptions yourself

    • Why controlling more of the process reduces long-term risk

    • How rezoning and specialty assets create hidden value

    • Why reputation matters more than marketing in real estate


    One point that stood out throughout the conversation is that most people stop when they encounter uncertainty.

    The better operators learn how to work through it.

    “Fortune favors the bold.”


    But only if the execution holds up once the deal becomes real.

    What are you avoiding because it looks more difficult than everyone else wants to handle?

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    26 mins
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