Turning the Tables: Marie's Story of Growth, Recovery & Building a 10/10 Relationship

In this special episode of Startup Spouses, we flip the script! Adam interviews Marie about her journey from struggling with anorexia as a teenager to building an extraordinary relationship while navigating the challenges of entrepreneurship, addiction recovery, and raising a family.

What We Cover:

• Growing up with social anxiety and developing an eating disorder in the 90s

• The power of finding the right therapist and embracing sexuality without shame

• Navigating college, codependency, and a partner's alcoholism

• The discovery of ADHD and breaking free from masking

• Supporting a child through a life-threatening eating disorder

• How discomfort became the pathway to growth

• Building a 10/10 relationship through weekly meetings, psychological safety, and embracing conflict

• Why resentment is the silent killer of relationships

Key Takeaway: Growth happens in discomfort. Whether you're building a business or a relationship, the courage to face challenges together is what transforms good into exceptional.

Resources Mentioned:

• Al-Anon (for loved ones of alcoholics)

• Tony Robbins - Unleash the Power Within

• The SPARK Framework for relationships

If you're an entrepreneurial couple navigating the chaos of building businesses while maintaining connection, this episode is for you.

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In this episode of Startup Spouses, Adam and Marie discuss the myth of perfection in relationships and introduce their SPARK Framework to transform mediocre relationships into mind-blowing ones. They explore the five key components of the framework: Safety, Play, Alignment, Rhythms, and Kaizen (Continuous Improvement). Through personal anecdotes and practical tips, Adam and Marie share how these principles have helped elevate their own relationship to a '10 out of 10.' Tune in to learn how you can apply these ideas to your own relationship and start growing together today!

00:00 Introduction: The Myth of Perfection in Relationships

00:42 Meet the Hosts: Adam and Marie

01:05 The Journey of a Relationship

02:33 Defining a 10 out of 10 Marriage

03:04 The Reality Behind Perfect Relationships

09:36 The Spark Framework: An Overview

11:32 Creating Safety in Relationships

27:01 The Importance of Play

33:29 Creating a Playful and Appreciative Home Environment

34:25 The Importance of Non-Sexual Touch

36:01 Exploring Play Styles and Communication

42:15 Building Alignment in Relationships

52:11 Navigating Life's Rhythms Together

58:34 Embracing Continuous Improvement

01:06:03 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Join Marie and Adam in their inaugural episode of 'Startup Spouses,' where they share their journey from a mediocre to a mind-blowing relationship amidst managing businesses and personal challenges. They discuss the impact of eating disorders, the trials of entrepreneurship, the power of open communication, and how implementing business strategies like EOS transformed their relationship. Tune in to hear their story of love, conflict, growth, and finding connection even in the toughest times. This episode is a heartfelt introduction to their mission of helping entrepreneurial couples achieve extraordinary relationships.

00:00 Facing the Brink: Our Struggle with Separation

00:37 Welcome to Startup Spouses: Meet Marie and Adam

01:03 Our Origin Story: From a 5 to a 10

01:53 The Journey of Growth: Overcoming Challenges Together

04:08 The Reality of Relationships: Growing Together or Apart

06:48 The Importance of Openness and Honesty

21:56 The Impact of Alcoholism: A Personal Battle

30:26 Career Paths and Panic Attacks

33:03 Coping with Panic Attacks

34:11 Navigating Career Expectations34:45 Struggles with Fulfillment

37:32 Sobriety and Family Dynamics

43:10 Challenges of Parenting

44:13 Impact of Eating Disorders

53:20 Reconnecting Through Meetings

55:50 Implementing EOS in Marriage

01:09:35 Final Thoughts and Encouragement