• 5. A Reader Walks Into a Hair Salon...
    May 4 2026

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    Discussed in this episode: How the answer is in the work, Colson Whitehead, Lena Dunham, and summer camp. Also, we think we've successfully enabled Buzzsprout "fan mail," so if you ever have a response to our questions to the universe and listeners, click that to send us a message!

    Errata:

    • Sara says Altan when she meant Alyan
    • Not really an error but we talked quiiiite a bit about Famesick and edited some out, but if it's still too long use the Chapters feature to escape! First time doing chapters and I hope it is showing on your podcast app! If not, the Famesick discussion runs from 47:46 - 1:08:34.

    Some Margin Notes:

    • Shout Her Lovely Name by Natalie Serber
    • Midwives by Chris Bohjalian
    • Pluribus on Apple TV
    • I'll Tell You When I'm Home by Hala Alyan
    • The Truth and Tragedy of Moriah Wilson on Netflix
    • Famesick by Lena Dunham

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • 4. Does "Feels Bad" = "Is Bad"?
    Apr 20 2026

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    Don't let the low energy intro fool you--in this one, we have so much to say. Along with our regular writing updates, we have reports from the field: Corey is our Threads correspondent, and Sara brings us the AI discourse. This was recorded several weeks before publishing, when all this was fresh out of the oven! Also: Corey asks her first Secret Question.

    Some Margin Notes:

    • The Outrun (Netflix)
    • A Marriage at Sea by Sophie Elmhirst
    • Man on the Run (McCartney/Prime)
    • Heart the Lover by Lily King



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    1 hr and 22 mins
  • 3. In Which Corey Sells a Book, or, Story of an Agent
    Apr 6 2026

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    We go on the journey of how Corey's newest novel, Mothers and Other Strangers, came to be. Also: how and if we share work in progress, and Sara's Song Sung Blue crisis.

    Approximate chapters:

    0:00 - 29:00: Intro and still writing check-in

    29:00 - 45:00: The tale of Corey selling her adult debut and why your agent matters so much. Plus bonus weird instrumental transition!

    45:00 - end: Margin Notes

    Some of those Margin Notes:

    Heaven's Gate: The Cult of Cults (HBO)

    Forever, or a Long, Long Time by Caela Carter

    Little One by Olivia Muenter

    Focus: Adults in the Room (Slate)

    Anastasia Krupnik series, Lois Lowry

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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • 2. The First Secret Question
    Mar 23 2026

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    We talk about if, how, and what we're still writing, and the inaugural Secret Question is asked. Also, once again we don't stick the landing.

    Some Margin Notes:

    • Being Gordon Ramsay on Netflix
    • The Hypocrite by Jo Hamya
    • Linkater's Blue Moon
    • Welcome to the Moon and Other Plays by John Patrick Shanley
    • All the President's Men as read by Richard Poe
    • Hate Radio, Milo Lau

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • 1. The Pilot
    Mar 9 2026

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    We record our very first full episode and are bad at ending it! Topics covered: What we've been doing the last 20 years, and what we'll be doing the next 2 weeks.

    Some Margin Notes:

    • Safekeeping: Some True Stories From a Life by Abigail Thomas
    • Kidnapped: Elizabeth Smart (Netflix)
    • I Love L.A. (HBO)
    • Secret Mall Apartment (Netflix)

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    1 hr
  • Still Writing Trailer
    Mar 1 2026

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    We introduce ourselves ever so briefly!

    For more about the origins of this podcast, check out This Creative Life, the podcast Sara hosted for a decade, and its version of this trailer.

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    4 mins