Stillness Is Scarier Than Chaos
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Stillness Is Scarier Than Chaos
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You’re not too busy. You’re avoiding yourself.
In this episode, I unpack the cycle of chasing, crashing, and craving clarity — but never letting yourself sit still long enough to get it. We talk about “someday” reality, healing as performance, and why high-functioning gay men (yes, you) keep filling their calendars instead of facing their truth.
We cover:
- Why silence feels unsafe to your nervous system
- How healing became a brand (and a distraction)
- What performative vulnerability actually looks like
- Why you keep matching, texting, spiraling, and repeating
- And what changes when you stop outrunning your life
This isn’t about “doing the work.”
This is about being still long enough to let the work matter.
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