Stop Being Good & Start Being Real (How People-Pleasing Makes You Invisible)
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Stop Being Good and Start Being Real (How People-Pleasing Makes You Invisible). You cant create fulflling, deeply connected relationships if you're stuck in people pleasing patterns.
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People pleasing patterns, shrinking & performing in our relationships
- Instead of feeling valued, you feel ignored.
- Instead of feeling loved, you feel used.
- Instead of feeling cherished, you feel invisible.
If you've spent your life being the "good one" —
easy to love, understanding, accommodating, low-maintenance —
this episode is for you.
People-pleasing doesn't start because you're weak or insecure.
It starts because somewhere along the way, being yourself stopped feeling safe.
So you learned to:
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keep the peace
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manage other people's emotions
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avoid conflict
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swallow your needs
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put everyone else first
And slowly… you became invisible.
In this episode:
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why people-pleasing is really about safety, not kindness
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how "being good" quietly erases your needs, voice, & desires
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the emotional cost of over-accommodating
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why trying harder never makes you feel more chosen
It's about honoring yourself —
so that you can create authentic relationships where you feel deeply valued, loved, and seen.
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