• S2 EP35 Authenticity Takes Nerve
    Jan 9 2026

    In this episode of Sweeter After Difficulty, Randy Highsmith, Jordan Lopez, and Kris Anderson reflect on their New Year’s experiences and the difference between making resolutions and cultivating real resolve. Through personal stories and candid moments, they explore the emotional weight of the holidays, the challenge of staying authentic, and the cost of avoiding honest communication.

    The conversation centers on the courage it takes to express what we’re actually feeling—especially in close relationships—and how transparency creates deeper connection. As the new year begins, the hosts discuss setting intentions rooted in self-awareness rather than performance, encouraging listeners to choose honesty, presence, and meaningful growth over empty promises.



    🎙️ Sweeter After Difficulty is a podcast about the beauty that can only emerge through struggle. Hosted by Randy Highsmith, this series features intimate conversations with people who have endured pain, faced fear, and discovered peace—not despite their challenges, but through them. Each episode dives deep into personal stories of resilience, revealing how difficulty becomes a refining fire that clarifies purpose, deepens empathy, and brings unexpected sweetness on the other side.

    Why listen? Because life is hard, and you're not alone in that. These stories won't give you cheap hope—they'll give you real ones. They’ll meet you in the raw, help you make sense of the struggle, and maybe even help you reframe what “hard” has to mean.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or looking back on a season that shaped you, Sweeter After Difficulty offers reflection, community, and a deep well of human wisdom.

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • S2 EP34: Being Real On Purpose With Brett Moore
    Jan 2 2026

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    In this episode of Sweeter After Difficulty, Randy Highsmith and Brett Moore explore the meaning of authenticity—both in podcasting and in life. The conversation centers on the power of genuine connection, the discipline of active listening, and the courage required to show up as one’s true self in a world that often rewards performance over presence.

    Drawing from personal stories and hard-earned insights, they discuss how authenticity shapes trust, deepens conversations, and ultimately creates work that lasts. The episode also introduces their new venture, Apex Podcast Co., and the vision behind it: fostering honest, meaningful dialogue that elevates voices rather than polishing away their humanity.


    🎙️ Sweeter After Difficulty is a podcast about the beauty that can only emerge through struggle. Hosted by Randy Highsmith, this series features intimate conversations with people who have endured pain, faced fear, and discovered peace—not despite their challenges, but through them. Each episode dives deep into personal stories of resilience, revealing how difficulty becomes a refining fire that clarifies purpose, deepens empathy, and brings unexpected sweetness on the other side.

    Why listen? Because life is hard, and you're not alone in that. These stories won't give you cheap hope—they'll give you real ones. They’ll meet you in the raw, help you make sense of the struggle, and maybe even help you reframe what “hard” has to mean.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or looking back on a season that shaped you, Sweeter After Difficulty offers reflection, community, and a deep well of human wisdom.

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    Stay connected for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more:

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    1 hr and 43 mins
  • Episode 33 | Resolve Over Resolutions
    Dec 26 2025

    In this episode of the Sweeter After Difficulty podcast, Randy Highsmith and regular guests Jordan Lopez and Kris Anderson reflect on the season of New Year’s resolutions and dig deeper into the distinction between surface-level intention and genuine resolve. Using experiences from jiu-jitsu training as a living metaphor, they explore how discipline, humility, and identity are forged through consistent practice rather than momentary motivation.

    The conversation moves through the psychology of goal-setting, the realities faced by new students, and the humbling nature of training alongside friends and beginners alike. Along the way, the hosts touch on the importance of gut health, thoughtful planning, and the role of habits and accountability in sustaining personal growth. Ultimately, the episode challenges listeners to move beyond resolutions and toward a deeper, identity-rooted resolve—one that supports lasting change and makes the process of growth sweeter after difficulty.



    🎙️ Sweeter After Difficulty is a podcast about the beauty that can only emerge through struggle. Hosted by Randy Highsmith, this series features intimate conversations with people who have endured pain, faced fear, and discovered peace—not despite their challenges, but through them. Each episode dives deep into personal stories of resilience, revealing how difficulty becomes a refining fire that clarifies purpose, deepens empathy, and brings unexpected sweetness on the other side.

    Why listen? Because life is hard, and you're not alone in that. These stories won't give you cheap hope—they'll give you real ones. They’ll meet you in the raw, help you make sense of the struggle, and maybe even help you reframe what “hard” has to mean.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or looking back on a season that shaped you, Sweeter After Difficulty offers reflection, community, and a deep well of human wisdom.

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    Stay connected for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more:

    📱 TikTok: @sweeterafter🐦 X (formerly Twitter): @sweeterafter📸 Instagram: @sweeterafterdifficulty@jordanbropez@Kriswashere

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Episode 32: The Cost Of The Wars We Wage On Ourselves
    Dec 19 2025

    In this episode of the Sweeter After Difficulty podcast, the hosts reflect on holiday traditions as a doorway into deeper conversations about commitment, self-discipline, and the quiet battles we wage within ourselves. They explore the idea that personal struggle can lead either to destruction or renewal, depending on the level of intention and commitment we bring to it. Through thoughtful dialogue, the conversation examines how commitment leaves clues about character, reveals what we truly value, and shapes the trajectory of personal growth. Ultimately, the hosts emphasize that transformation requires active participation—choosing engagement over avoidance and stepping fully into the work of becoming.


    🎙️ Sweeter After Difficulty is a podcast about the beauty that can only emerge through struggle. Hosted by Randy Highsmith, this series features intimate conversations with people who have endured pain, faced fear, and discovered peace—not despite their challenges, but through them. Each episode dives deep into personal stories of resilience, revealing how difficulty becomes a refining fire that clarifies purpose, deepens empathy, and brings unexpected sweetness on the other side.

    Why listen? Because life is hard, and you're not alone in that. These stories won't give you cheap hope—they'll give you real ones. They’ll meet you in the raw, help you make sense of the struggle, and maybe even help you reframe what “hard” has to mean.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or looking back on a season that shaped you, Sweeter After Difficulty offers reflection, community, and a deep well of human wisdom.

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    Stay connected for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more:

    📱 TikTok: @sweeterafter🐦 X (formerly Twitter): @sweeterafter📸 Instagram: @sweeterafterdifficulty@jordanbropez@Kriswashere

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    59 mins
  • Episode 31: “The Meaning We Choose: Rewriting the Stories That Shape Us”
    Dec 12 2025

    In this episode of Sweeter After Difficulty, Randy Highsmith, Jordan Lopez, and Kris Anderson unpack the timeless wisdom of Epictetus: “Man is not troubled by events, but by the meaning he gives them.” Their conversation takes a deep look at how perspective shapes experience, exploring the difference between what happens to us and the stories we attach to those moments.

    The hosts reflect on the power of interpretation, the value of community, and the role of vulnerability in personal growth. They examine how revisiting and reappraising past events can shift identity, unlock healing, and create momentum for change. Embracing embarrassment, confronting uncomfortable truths, and learning to see ourselves honestly become central themes throughout the discussion.

    The episode closes with a thoughtful exploration of the importance of open dialogue and the ongoing process of self-discovery—reminding listeners that meaning is a choice, and choosing well can change everything.



    🎙️ Sweeter After Difficulty is a podcast about the beauty that can only emerge through struggle. Hosted by Randy Highsmith, this series features intimate conversations with people who have endured pain, faced fear, and discovered peace—not despite their challenges, but through them. Each episode dives deep into personal stories of resilience, revealing how difficulty becomes a refining fire that clarifies purpose, deepens empathy, and brings unexpected sweetness on the other side.

    Why listen? Because life is hard, and you're not alone in that. These stories won't give you cheap hope—they'll give you real ones. They’ll meet you in the raw, help you make sense of the struggle, and maybe even help you reframe what “hard” has to mean.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or looking back on a season that shaped you, Sweeter After Difficulty offers reflection, community, and a deep well of human wisdom.

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    Stay connected for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more:

    📱 TikTok: @sweeterafter🐦 X (formerly Twitter): @sweeterafter📸 Instagram: @sweeterafterdifficulty@jordanbropez@Kriswashere

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Episode 30: “Trading Comfort for Growth: Lessons From Racing, Life, and Jiu Jitsu”
    Dec 5 2025

    In this episode of Sweeter After Difficulty, Randy Highsmith and Jordan Lopez dive into an honest, wide-ranging conversation about identity, growth, and the transformative power of challenge. Jordan traces his journey from baseball to mountain biking and eventually to Jiu Jitsu, reflecting on how each discipline shaped his mindset, resilience, and relationship with adversity. The hosts explore the deeper meaning behind quotes, how context completely changes interpretation, and the dynamics of meaningful conversation.

    Jordan shares how racing pushed him physically and mentally, ultimately paving the way for his transition into Jiu Jitsu, while Randy opens up about his own transformation—from a life defined by overwork to discovering renewed purpose and confidence on the mats. He reflects on commitment, the philosophy of intentional suffering, and the impact of mentorship in personal evolution. Together, they unpack the nature of change, the grounding power of community, and how martial arts can guide us through life’s most difficult seasons.




    🎙️ Sweeter After Difficulty is a podcast about the beauty that can only emerge through struggle. Hosted by Randy Highsmith, this series features intimate conversations with people who have endured pain, faced fear, and discovered peace—not despite their challenges, but through them. Each episode dives deep into personal stories of resilience, revealing how difficulty becomes a refining fire that clarifies purpose, deepens empathy, and brings unexpected sweetness on the other side.

    Why listen? Because life is hard, and you're not alone in that. These stories won't give you cheap hope—they'll give you real ones. They’ll meet you in the raw, help you make sense of the struggle, and maybe even help you reframe what “hard” has to mean.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or looking back on a season that shaped you, Sweeter After Difficulty offers reflection, community, and a deep well of human wisdom.

    Follow Us!

    Stay connected for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more:

    📱 TikTok: @sweeterafter🐦 X (formerly Twitter): @sweeterafter📸 Instagram: @sweeterafterdifficulty@jordanbropez@Kriswashere

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Episode 29: The Truth About Accountability
    Nov 28 2025

    In this episode of the Sweeter After Difficulty podcast, Randy Highsmith sits down with regular guests Jordan Lopez and Kris Anderson to unpack the often-misunderstood concept of accountability. Together, they explore why accountability is more than correction—it’s a powerful feedback mechanism that fuels growth, strengthens relationships, and sharpens self-awareness.

    The conversation digs into the discomfort many people feel around being held accountable, tracing it back to fear, pride, and the tendency to avoid difficult truths. The trio discuss how accountability, when approached with openness and intention, can transform both personal and professional relationships. They highlight the importance of honest communication, the courage to receive feedback, and the responsibility to act on it. Ultimately, the episode reframes accountability not as something to fear, but as an essential tool on the journey toward becoming more grounded, capable, and resilient.


    🎙️ Sweeter After Difficulty is a podcast about the beauty that can only emerge through struggle. Hosted by Randy Highsmith, this series features intimate conversations with people who have endured pain, faced fear, and discovered peace—not despite their challenges, but through them. Each episode dives deep into personal stories of resilience, revealing how difficulty becomes a refining fire that clarifies purpose, deepens empathy, and brings unexpected sweetness on the other side.

    Why listen? Because life is hard, and you're not alone in that. These stories won't give you cheap hope—they'll give you real ones. They’ll meet you in the raw, help you make sense of the struggle, and maybe even help you reframe what “hard” has to mean.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or looking back on a season that shaped you, Sweeter After Difficulty offers reflection, community, and a deep well of human wisdom.

    Follow Us!

    Stay connected for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more:

    📱 TikTok: @sweeterafter🐦 X (formerly Twitter): @sweeterafter📸 Instagram: @sweeterafterdifficulty@jordanbropez@Kriswashere

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    53 mins
  • Episode 28: Where Resistance Meets Opportunity
    Nov 21 2025

    In this episode of the Sweeter After Difficulty podcast, Randy Highsmith with regular guests Jordan Lopez and Kris Anderson unpack Albert Einstein’s powerful reminder that “in the middle of difficulty lies opportunity.” They explore how challenges are often less about circumstances and more about the mindset we bring to them. Through personal stories and honest reflection, they examine the subjective nature of difficulty, the role of resistance in shaping resilience, and the ways our expectations can distort or elevate our experiences.

    The conversation weaves together themes of humility, preparation, and the essential support of community, highlighting how each plays a part in transforming obstacles into stepping stones. With warmth, humor, and hard-earned wisdom, the hosts invite listeners to reframe their struggles—not as barriers, but as invitations to grow, adapt, and find unexpected opportunity on the other side.



    🎙️ Sweeter After Difficulty is a podcast about the beauty that can only emerge through struggle. Hosted by Randy Highsmith, this series features intimate conversations with people who have endured pain, faced fear, and discovered peace—not despite their challenges, but through them. Each episode dives deep into personal stories of resilience, revealing how difficulty becomes a refining fire that clarifies purpose, deepens empathy, and brings unexpected sweetness on the other side.

    Why listen? Because life is hard, and you're not alone in that. These stories won't give you cheap hope—they'll give you real ones. They’ll meet you in the raw, help you make sense of the struggle, and maybe even help you reframe what “hard” has to mean.

    Whether you’re in the thick of it or looking back on a season that shaped you, Sweeter After Difficulty offers reflection, community, and a deep well of human wisdom.

    Follow Us!

    Stay connected for behind-the-scenes content, updates, and more:

    📱 TikTok: @sweeterafter🐦 X (formerly Twitter): @sweeterafter📸 Instagram: @sweeterafterdifficulty@jordanbropez@Kriswashere

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    58 mins